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 sriannaailyim
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 105
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....Page 9 of 9    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)
Wow- at the subject title........
 blueangel1023
Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 112
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 6/23/2008 11:54:14 AM
12+ yrs is a long time...did it take you 11+ yrs to realize she never swallowed? I would've brought the situation up in the beginning but if you stuck by her for that long, obviously she's doing something right (minus the swallowing) For some women they just rather not. I've dated someone before who doesn't like anal sex and another guy who wouldn't go down south. I don't mind the swallowing and having it anywhere else on my body as long as it's from the neck down. After a friend told me about her man shooting her in the eye by accident, I got freaked out in case that ever happened to me. So swallow yes, facials NO (lol yea weird I know) To each their own.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 6/23/2008 5:14:11 PM
I love the line in "Analyze This" with Crystal and DeNiro where DeNiro is telling Crystal he goes to a prostitute:
DeNiro: "I can do things with her I can't do with my wife."
Crystal: "You know, you CAN do those things with your wife."
DeNiro: "What, are you kidding me, that's the mouth she kisses my children with!"

FYI there are lots of things you can do to change the taste; some for worse, some for better. Google "sperm taste" or "semen taste" and you'll find lots of suggestions on how to improve the taste. In a nut shell, eating anything sweet helps; and avoid asparagus and red meat. Google it; there are lots of specific references; and even a couple of commercially available products you can take/eat to help.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 126
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Posted: 6/24/2008 11:43:35 AM
that sux for u guy she doesnt like to do that... those girls are amazing.... some chick made a post saying nut does taste like shit... now i wouldnt know but on the flip side... if u dont want to give head then dont bother expecting the guy to do it for u... it doesnt exactly taste like cherries either
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 128
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 6/24/2008 12:02:07 PM

I ALWAYS finish the job how he wants me to...sometimes he wants me to swallow and sometimes he wants to see it running down my chin....but whatever he wants he gets! I expect him to make me cum and let me enjoy the feeling so why wouldn't I do the same for him? I admit the consistency isn't the greatest but it's a small price to pay for that TOTALLY satisfied look on his face!



Applause, Applause Applause Applause!

Truth be told, there are a lot of women who actually enjoy the hell out of giving a good BJ and swallowing.
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 148
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 8/20/2008 4:11:27 AM
LL you naughty girl remind me I have to take that up with you might warrant your bum getting smacked
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 153
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 8/21/2008 10:12:21 PM
OP, both of my ex's never cum in my mouth, it was foreplay only...i swallow ...they just never seem to want to finish there...is there a reason it is such a need of yours for you to finish in her mouth?
 Manforall19
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 157
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Posted: 1/1/2009 2:27:55 PM
I very much agree that what you eat is the way you taste!
 PureLogic
Joined: 12/22/2007
Msg: 173
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Posted: 1/21/2009 10:10:32 PM
Ehh. I know girls who spit, I know girls who swallow, and I know girls who don't even go down.

Me, personally, I can't say because I can't cum from head. Meaning, I don't KNOW what she would do if I did, because we always stop before I DO (otherwise she'd be down there 3 hours lol)

I've "helped myself along" and done it on her FACE before, though. AND in mouth. I think your girl just doesn't want to do it.
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 178
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Posted: 1/22/2009 7:23:08 AM
it's simply a matter of preference and freakiness. most of us have limits as to what we are willing to do or act to perform. respect her limits or find another woman.
 hey moe
Joined: 1/13/2009
Msg: 181
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 1/22/2009 4:38:40 PM
my ex and i used to do alot of 69's and she would swallow and i would swallow her also and then she would suck me hard and we would have sex. might try that, gone out with alot of women that would swallow in my 20's, and some that would not even let you go down on them. cause i like to go down on a women. might try first
 arcticdude
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 182
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Posted: 1/22/2009 9:01:47 PM
Ultimately, No woman should feel obliged to give blow jobs and, equally, no man should feel obliged to go without. What we have here is a failure to communicate, people! Discuss these things and pair up appropriately. Fer cryin' out loud!


She tells me, not one of her female friends spit nor swallow, that they all stop before, just like she does. But my male friends tell me otherwise. So one of them is lieing.


Lying or not (but probably a lie) what other people do is irrelevant.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 200
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Posted: 1/23/2009 8:42:21 PM
I said this in another thread.....
I swallow.....because I want to be a part of my man's total orgasm.....I want to milk every last drop.....till I get that final spasm out of him.
I don't expect him to "taste himself"....that's just ridiculous.
(If he wants to .......that's fine too)
Saying a man has to taste himself to want a woman to do it......makes sex just another mind game.
The "I'll do this......if u do that" mentallity got old when I was 12.
If you are putting "stipulations" into your sex life.....I would consider this a 'red flag' that would make me wonder how many other games you're playing in a relationship.
You don't want to swallow.......then don't.....and leave it at that.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 204
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 1/25/2009 6:43:21 PM

I said this in another thread.....
I swallow.....because I want to be a part of my man's total orgasm.....I want to milk every last drop.....till I get that final spasm out of him.
I don't expect him to "taste himself"....that's just ridiculous.
(If he wants to .......that's fine too)
Saying a man has to taste himself to want a woman to do it......makes sex just another mind game.
The "I'll do this......if u do that" mentallity got old when I was 12.
If you are putting "stipulations" into your sex life.....I would consider this a 'red flag' that would make me wonder how many other games you're playing in a relationship.

You don't want to swallow.......then don't.....and leave it at that.


I had to bold the strong points. There are too many women out here making these statements and it's ridiculous. They are just control freaks and will probably remain PoF members after each guy gets rid of them for their nonsense.

For every woman out here with oral sex "rules," or even flat out refusing to do it, there are women like Ms. Micki. Now, which do YOU think a guy would want?

People are dumb.
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