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 wink558
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 226
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I agree with Earl, sounds like your a pretty selfish lover !! Once you realize that your job is to please your man first, making sure he orgasms first like a real woman would do, maybe you will have better luck.
 SugahPunkin
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 227
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 6:24:05 PM
wow. I know this is an old thread that has popped up and I havent bothered to read the whole thing, maybe later but I wanted to add my two cents here.

All I can think of was well, YOU are the only central figure here in boh scenarios so Im thinking it has to be you OP.

From the sound of your post you have little experience in things. Maybe you didnt do things which most consider normal activity.
Im a bit confused by your question. I mean,..well.. lol

So did you have sex then they rolled over or were you just doing foreplay and then they rolled over??
Because well.. heck.. in both cases?? Um... Id say you suck at sex.

If the man Im with rolled over and started rubbing it Id have to help him.. ya know what are you suppose to do? well... touch, lick, kiss, give moral support lol.. play with yourself, make noise... touch him... lick your lips and open your mouth ... heck I dont know. Im not there.
If I understand you, youre saying what are you there for? I take it they arent or havent f*cked you but instead rolled over and was taking care of business for himself... so...
Youre a cold dead fish just laying there with no imagination and dont know what to do and are frigid???????

It takes both parties to have sex and apparently since he is having sex (thru masturbating) and you arent Id say well... you arent any good at it.
I think you lack knowledge in the working of sexual relations and need some help.
As for them saying do some ass play or kiss his thighs.. sounds to me like you just lay there.
Thats seems common to alot of women or so I hear. Many men complain on the boards about women just laying there or expect the man to do everything including give the woman an orgasm.
Honey, you need to get some kind of lessons or see a sex therapist.
I dont believe its the men at fault here.
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 228
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 6:30:29 PM
It sounds like to me, you are very boring in bed! I would do the same thing rather tha f.uck a bump on a log!
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 229
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 6:56:19 PM
i am still baffled at how the guy "rolls over then pulls it out" whiles in the middle of lovemaking lol.
i would hope he already had it out
 SugahPunkin
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 230
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 6:58:41 PM
hhahaha.
Im thinking they were starting foreplay... its like she doesnt have the vocabulary or skills man.

No wonder she is having a hard time of it. Poor thing.
 Slate56
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 231
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 8:52:49 PM
You mean there's something wrong with a guy being excited enough to wanna play with himself while around you? There are a billion ways to express sexuality, why are you so up tight about it OP? Is this about them doing so and you felt like you didn't please them enough? Sounds selfish to not go with the flow with a lover's needs. Though Anal is one thing you have the right to not enjoy, it's not for everyone.

Still trying to figure out why him/them pleasuring themselves would bother you. Kinda like a guy being pissed you want him to take you to dinner for your pleasure, something you can do on your own.
 Slate56
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 232
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 8:58:52 PM
I've found that women that use the term 'lovemaking' for the term of knocking boots, are usually up tight and inexperienced... sometimes ya gotta let your sexual beast out hun.... can you imagine if he rolled her ove did her Dawgie, spanked her butt and pulled her hair and talked naughty? She may have shot the poor bass turd ....
 Slate56
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 233
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 9:07:38 PM
"Am I the only one who found the reply by srb272007 offensive?! "

NO! I've found that with age comes experience.... Most Older women Rock in bed... anyone that is only into looks over substance is either young & dumb and doesn't realize how fast 20 yrs goes by and they will be an old fart in no time.. or shallow as a kiddie pool.
 rjatheman65
Joined: 12/3/2012
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/30/2013 2:20:25 PM
So what if we use meds? As long we make more pleasurable for the both of us.... Picky, Picky.
 BigHoosty
Joined: 12/12/2012
Msg: 235
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/30/2013 2:36:16 PM
selfish men; real men woulda tried to please her if not fake it then scram outa there
 DevilfromToronto
Joined: 9/23/2012
Msg: 236
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/30/2013 3:56:55 PM
I would guess.... "yours" was too loose, they were not able to get stimulated with it
 Slickinator
Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 237
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/30/2013 5:09:29 PM
well see i have prioritys set different as i try and get the women off more than me as a result she wants to help me even that much more and it lasts longer and i want to ger her to her orgasmic state before i do for sure ... women can orgasum way more than men and if you get her started first you will both orgasum at same time most of the time and both will enjoy it ..... just a hint too all you weinnie stroken men :)
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 238
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/30/2013 5:48:59 PM
Sounds freaky to me. Some people are just too weird for words.

No one, male or female is going anywhere near my ass. If you get off on anal play then play with your own ass.
 letmeshowyouhow2
Joined: 1/24/2013
Msg: 239
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/30/2013 5:57:38 PM

Some solutions are Keigel exercises to tighten it up


Vibrating eggs....I know, what? lol...it works...it works well! If you have them, you'll need rechargeable batteries and when you use them, you'll have a "kung fu" grip on them and kegels 30-45 mins a session, 3-4 times a day, you'll be very capable of bringing him back to you. I've only had mine since Christmas and I used to squirt and I don't squirt anymore!
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 240
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/30/2013 7:35:19 PM

You put a lot into a relationship; then you decide to become intimate. Lovemaking goes well, then all of a sudden he rolls over, pulls out and starts pleasuring himself. What am I supposed to do while he does that? Well he asked me to touch his rear and provide him with anal pleasure. EWWW!!! nasty. I wanted to let him know that sometimes he just wasn't "fresh smelling"; I hated giving him anal; there was no pleasure for me. He called me selfish. I broke up with him, the sex was no fun at all.
So I met another guy, tall and handsome and a real lady killer. Eventually we became intimate and during sex he pulled out, rolled over and started pleasuring himself. Only this man wanted me to kiss his thighs; but it was boring. Again, nothing in it for me. That also did not last.
What's up with this? don't men want a woman any more? You don't need me around to pleasure yourself. Next time it happens I will go watch TV.


The whole thing is a bit anal to me.

" pulls out and starts pleasuring himself" that sounds like a lot of fun NOT, I can do that without the trouble of leaving my house.

Again, nothing in it for me, repeated twice no less. If it's all about you, hire a male escort or use a sex toy, then it can be all about you.

And what exactly is "anal pleasure"? Lick, suck, finger, dildo, who knows what sort of backside pleasure we are talking about. Cat got your tongue?

"You don't need me around to pleasure yourself." I really didn't get that, one guy requested kiss his thighs, the other some sort of vague touch his rear and provide anal pleasure.

There "was there was no pleasure for me" reading this post.
 MochaQueen
Joined: 8/23/2010
Msg: 241
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/31/2013 9:26:46 AM
I must tell you I am very sorry about how these two men acted. I will tell you I was married to a man who would get himself off all the time like this with me in bed. After all those years I thought this was normal come to find out it is not normal at all. Once in a while. There are men out there who want to involve the woman they are with. You did great keep your head high and don't settle for this . You are better then that. I know the next time I would date I would tell the man before you get sexually involved so there is an understanding between you too. God made this part in a relationship to be the most beautiful creation between the two.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 242
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Posted: 1/31/2013 10:18:56 AM
Keep Fishing!!

Eventually....you'll find a Real Man...that is concerned with _You're_ pleasure....
....maybe even Moreso than His Own!!!

Then...Get The Landing Net!!
 Coffee4Cream
Joined: 11/9/2010
Msg: 243
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/31/2013 12:31:45 PM
Wow...so I can break up with women who ask me to eat their asses?! Now you tell me! hahahaha
 phoenix_55
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 244
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/31/2013 12:48:20 PM
Well, that sucks for the OP. Two guys in a row who would rather whack off ... what are the odds?

I hate when a guy starts talking dirty and you can tell he's not comfortable doing it so he's kind of mumbling. I have no idea what he's saying and I'm saying "huh?" because maybe he's having a heart attack and he's trying to tell me something lol

And then he continues doing it ... weird.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 245
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/31/2013 1:18:24 PM

Maybe start talking dirty to him as you strattle him and let him know you're eagerly waiting for him to shoot his hot load all over your boobs? Open your mouth? Ask him if you can give him a hand? Start masturbating yourself? Gently take his hand of his member and let him know you're really hot for him and jump on it?


Awesome.

I have to say that I was avoiding this particular thread because it sounded to me like nothing more than a nag fest. Then I read this. Wow. Awesome. I love the human race. I love women in general. I love naughty women that know how to handle their man.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 246
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/31/2013 4:40:42 PM
some times a man has quirky things he want and likes but it needs to be brought up before knocking boots
 dundas.177
Joined: 1/31/2013
Msg: 247
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 2/4/2013 7:05:37 AM
wow thats a new one on me.im 46 yearold male and have never thought of doing that.did you ask them why they need to do that to pop one off?the only two things i can think of are.1 wettness.ie condom was keeping him from poping one off or 2 wettness of your area was lacking.other then that those boy are alittle off.
 NASH58
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 248
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Posted: 2/4/2013 10:02:12 AM
well only good if both are masturebating
 pacam53
Joined: 12/29/2012
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 2/4/2013 4:05:03 PM
I agree with jake its very obvious to put it bluntly you need to be more active move a bit be more adventurous in other words you could be a lousey lay try and spice things up ......
 DontAskMe2CarryUrPurse
Joined: 1/22/2013
Msg: 250
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 2/4/2013 4:15:11 PM
Wow, I didn't think there would be this many prudes in the POF forums... sounds like all three of you are pretty boring sex partners. Calling them selfish is ridiculous. Nothing is off limits in the bedroom. Otherwise, it's B-O-R-I-N-G. But it sounds like none of you have any idea how to do sex any justice at all.
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