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 Beholder123
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 76
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"Sorry but I'd do start doing kegals right away if I were you."


YUP!!!!!!!! they are the way to go!
 classiccarguy52
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 77
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 4:08:55 PM
wow, I don't get that at all. That's like eating at McDonalds when there's a steak right in front of you!
 Beholder123
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 78
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 8:55:14 PM
i think i just threw up in my mouth a lil.........
 1samrap
Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 79
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:55:14 PM
hmmmm....if he pulls out and starts to play with himself then you should play too! very erotic to masturbate for each other....i bet when he sees you getting off by yourself he'll feel the need to jump back on the ride and finish off!

just my opinion...
 hdd
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 80
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 10:34:31 PM
bad luck on your part! have you every been on top. i love that whats with anal that so discussing and why do they pull out
 3yearsfromnow
Joined: 5/31/2008
Msg: 81
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:05:37 AM

Do you have cable? May I suggest that you possibly try to catch a rerun of SEX IN THE CITY!





Ha! Thanks, zentimes and all who posted!
To clarify, the first guy didn't want to get anal sex from me; he wanted me to give it to him. (It wasn't a lack of vag tightness problem). Now I can be open minded to treat a guy to that now and again, but EVERY time from the first encounter on? I don't think so. Girls, beware of a man who only keeps black towels in the bathroom!
The second guy, I believe, was in a routine that did not include a partner (he kept a bottle of Corn Huskers lotion on his nightstand). I once saw a movie where a man said "the best sex I ever had was with myself". I guess some guys are particular. I didn't mind kissing his thighs, but again, the same old routine every time gets old real fast.
I did learn a lot from all the replies; even the posters who wanted to insult me were funny and I appreciated them!!! Thanks again!
 Caleta26
Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 82
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:47:18 AM
Sounds like you are not attractive enough or you are just plain boring in bed.
 69shwing
Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 83
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:59:16 AM
That's really odd. I've never pulled out so I could roll over and jerk off.

But it's also really, really funny.

"Hope you don't mind baby, I'm just gonna lay here and pull my meat...do you mind kissing my thighs while I do it?"

Now I want to do it just to see my girl's reaction.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 84
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:47:56 AM
If one guy did this to the Op we could just write it off as him being a little odd, but the fact that more guys are doing it speaks valumes. It's not the men in the Ops life that's the issue, It's the lack of any kind of grip in the Ops choochie that's making these guy want to jack off rather than continue being frustrated. I don't think these guys had enough furniture to fill the Ops house, so they turned to their hands which is made to fit any size penis.
 devuchka
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 85
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 1:29:54 PM
if he likes it & it doesn't hurt you, just do it.

why not?

then you can turn around & say, ok, do THIS for me & - he will!

take him into the shower next time & everyone will be happy.
 breaker9
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 86
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 1:49:11 PM
Wow! I have never heard a woman put it like that before! Good statement!
 Monisue4u
Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 7/3/2008 2:08:52 PM
Well, I may be in the few here who think this, but I happen to think that watching him pleasure himself is highly erotic and is teasing me and gets me going.
Love the shower suggestion, then you both can have some fun.
You only live once!!!
 blondi75
Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 88
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:23:48 PM
That just sucks! If it happens again roll over get your toy out and show him u can play too! Good Luck!
 msqueen42
Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 89
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:28:20 PM
Occassionally it can be fun to play around as long as you get your turn but, guys who masturbate alot have a difficult time enjoying sex the traditional way and have difficulty haveing orgasm that way. They have to lay off touching theirselves for a while and get use to vaginal stimulation again. So the guy probably jacks off so much that that is what it takes to get off.
 James_in_SD
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 90
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:30:29 PM
I guess there is such a thing as over-rehearsing...
 toomuch13
Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 91
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:41:18 PM
Watching someone masterbate is fine, but I can masterbate alone. If I am in bed with a guy, I am there for a reason. Now I understand showing my partner what pleases me, but to just throw him off and go to town on my own? I think not.
 Dancing_4_You
Joined: 1/21/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2008 7:29:16 PM
men whose primary relationship is porn, are used to doing it that way: BY THEMSELVES. you become just an adjunct to whatever fantasies they have harbored with their computers. sexual therapists recommend to give up the porn and start "relating" to real people. many older men who think they have ED, also have gotten into "lonesome" habits, also in this manner! for those who have been doing this a long time, it may take a while for them to adjust. some may not want to adjust. if not "fresh smelling" then there's the first indicator.

i am so glad i went through all this in the 60's, when it was so much more romantic. i feel for you. yik!
 silibus
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 93
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 8:59:54 PM
3yearsfromnow, I think they may have believed they couldn't do it to the end because lets face it, it is Not the same as if you are on the bottom. It's a feat at some ages to go for hours. Perhaps they needed more foreplay before the intercourse stated.
Some guys need more foreplay than others.
 ottfwb
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 94
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:25:59 PM

What's up with this? don't men want a woman any more? You don't need me around to pleasure yourself. Next time it happens I will go watch TV.


I had this happen when I was intimate the first time with my woman. We had already spent several hours, but I hadn't came yet. She already had one if not two orgasms, and we were getting tired. I wanted to finish up, and then cuddle, but everything she tried didn't seem to be working.

As the solo pro that I am, I finished up in about 2 minutes, and she cleaned up the mess

She got more out of seeing me handle things on my own than I expected.

The next time we were together was even better!

Best damn sex I've ever had
 livinglife719
Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 95
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:07:10 PM
I think mutual masterbation can be hot..and watching each other in a loving relationship can be hot too....... also sometimes older men find it harder to complete and some older woman are not as tight as there younger days and a combination of both might mean the man masterbates to be able to complete...... but what I see missing here is a loving sense of togetherness no matter what the situation..........love is a understanding thing...... I would hope...
 curveyone
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 96
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 11:07:52 PM
not sure what to say as this has NEVER happened to me.
 psycotiknight
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 97
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/3/2008 11:44:23 PM
wow all i can say is i personaly have never "pulled out" to pleasure my self in fact i cannot understand the logic those two used in doing so in i guess sorry about your luck and hopefully it doesn't happen again
 LowRiderBABE
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 98
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:57:01 AM
When it comes to lovemaking....i want to be in total control...so i hate it when they try and tell me wat position or to slow down while im on top cause they cant breath...i say lay there and take it like a man....ill stop when im finished....
 Blue-eyedLady
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 99
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:58:46 AM
New to this , so not sure if in the right Spot
Here's a thought...... could be bi sexual..... not a womens thing or problem. What is playing in their minds, could have been anything.... You were not needed for them
to complete their needs. Selfish on their part.

Just, not into pleasing the women... and it has nothing to do with a man being
over 50.... As I was once told.... all men are visual.( ok I know this is going to start something) , If your ankles are in the air, they are ready.... may need alittle
kick start, but honey, sometimes we all do... So, don't beat yourself up on this one.
(no pun intended)
 Fashionista Lover
Joined: 4/4/2008
Msg: 100
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:33:22 AM
Hey lowriderbabe, so you wouldnt get commands from me ....but when i do finally get out from underneath the mountain of a woman you are....ill throw a saddle on you and ride you like the bucking bronco you are...you are a fiesty one arent ya....im calling your bluff.....save a horse and ride a lowrider..lol
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