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 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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holy crap..............what are the odds of having sex with 2 guys that did this??


They must be hand picked!
 forum101
Joined: 2/5/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:55:43 PM
sorry OP. I have never had that happen.
 Javan2
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 103
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/7/2008 8:28:18 AM
I never did that in my life. Perhaps they do it as a form of Birth-Control?
 MrCappy
Joined: 8/6/2007
Msg: 104
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/7/2008 9:38:17 AM
sounds like he wants u to give him analuingus ,,, also sounds like u might have difficulty keeping ur mates attentions .......... and men wanna give u all they can ,, so a cpl strokes b4 entry is a good thing ....
 sahasrara10
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 105
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/7/2008 9:50:52 PM
I have never had that happen. Ever. No offense, but maybe you aren't doing enough to get them off. That's the only explanation I can think of.
 greeneyedboo
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 106
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/7/2008 11:14:08 PM
know what i hate... isn't love makin supposed to get hot??? DONT COMPLAIN YOU GETTIN HOT and whine about it...... i mean damn it boy thats the best part gettin all hot sweaty workin at it.... then again lately men dont seem to wanna work at anything....no offence to some of you... i mean this same one rather watch porn n wack off instead of gettin *hot* during sex... hello...... WTF?!?!?!? and another thing next time your gf tries to give you a bj during a movie.... LET HER.. just sit back and enjoy... i mean.. you can always watch the movie later can't ya? ! ?
 Sunshyne276
Joined: 8/15/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 12:14:32 AM
Hmmmmm.... Never had that happen. How odd..... =/
 greeneyedboo
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 108
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:51:49 AM
you seen the ridin hat on my profile dont ya? lmao ... see even that wasn't it... he was just that lazy... he didn't wanna work at it... we could be 6 mins into it and he'd complain about he was gettin sweaty and hot...... seriously... dude... u just dont know..

what if the movie was a movie he watched already? .... eh.. like i said .. seriously dude... u.. just.. dont.. know...
 TodaysCatch
Joined: 4/12/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2008 1:58:59 AM

Maybe the coochie wasn't all that. They rather just beat off and scram.





It took me three minutes to stop laughing from that dude's post! What a way with words.
Bring back "scram" as a popular verb - too hilarious!

Now that I've collected myself, I will venture a guess. Although Viagra and other similar pills will allow
an otherwise impotent man to achieve an erection, it won't increase his libido. These guys were obviously
on the pill, were able to do the deed, but not finish without direct, personalized stimulation. Why didn't
you jump in and help 'em, instead of sitting back and criticizing them? A little selfless effort may
have yielded many pleasant returns, but now you'll never know.
 FndU
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 110
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Posted: 7/9/2008 2:21:39 PM
If you're unwilling to so something sexually unless there's, "something in it for you," then you miss the point and I feel sorry for you.
 FndU
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 111
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Posted: 7/9/2008 2:26:11 PM
Your girlfriend can give you a bj any time, any place she likes and you should feel blessed each and every time it happens.
 LateFall
Joined: 9/29/2006
Msg: 112
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/9/2008 2:58:54 PM
I have to admit, I've actually done this before.

I can tell after awhile if I'm going to get off or not. I think a lot of women think their part involves laying there and doing nothing. Wow...how boring. You mean I've been doing pushups over ya for a half hour and you wonder why I can't get off?!

Scratch my back, rub your hands over me, help guide my weiner in and out, do anything and I can get off. Just lay there, and it just isn't happening.

So what's a guy to do after an hour of stimulation and no cannon fire? I pull out and go at it myself. Under normal masterbatory circamstances, I can shoot two feet but under conditions such as this, it is as much a show for you as it is for me. I hope you don't have stuco ceiling cause that's where it's going.
 Taywhitt
Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 113
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/9/2008 3:04:53 PM
ok if I was having sex with a guy and he stopped at any point to please himself id be done.NO wayyyy
 Snuggler01
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 114
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/9/2008 3:32:13 PM
sounds to me like so far you are only meeting nasty losers. anyone who pulls out and then finishes himself off is just not ok, period.
Before you 'date' the next one, tell him up front what your limits are, ie, 'I wont do anal' or 'i only will do kinky things if you are exceptionally clean and totally shaved everywhere..' its a shame to even have to say that, as it should be obvious, but, some men are just selfish pigs.
 Ear to hear
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 115
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/9/2008 6:48:27 PM
Well....never did that alwasy finished and she was always happy but boy you do have some rotten luck...lol.
 souporjew
Joined: 5/10/2008
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Posted: 7/9/2008 9:09:16 PM
There is a misconception that "aging" (hardly the word for the men in this senerio) dulls the sex drive, that the nerves in the penis lose their sensitivity. It's too broad a brush to paint with -- it might be true of some, but I am 65 and certainly do not find this to be a problem, and I think the majority of my age would look at you and think you crazy if you were to judge all men over 55 by these two loonies.

I have been separated and divorced for 8 years. Jews are not that promiscuous. No, I haven't been "intimate" during that time, nor do I try to set any masturbation records. But if I had the chance to do as these two gentlemen (?) with what must certainly be a willing lover, I sure as hell wouldn't pull an "Onan" but would just let the whole thing ride!

Believe it or not, everything works just great at 65!
 kenny1979
Joined: 4/24/2008
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Posted: 7/9/2008 9:24:29 PM
Hey hun, ARE YOU SERIOUSLY ASKING WHY



I'm not a big enough A$$hloe to tell you well better luck with the next one
 itsasunnyday
Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 7/10/2008 12:25:25 AM
There's a big parameters that women tend to forget, men are extremely sensitive, sexually at least. I mean it takes just a little to turn a men on and just a little to turn him off too.
A look (remember Memoir Of a Geisha?) , words that she desires you (that's a big turn on) a skirt moving in the wind, the side of a breast peaking from a shirt, lots of subtle things can trigger a man into a sexual mode.
On the other hand, a motion less women, a please me attitude, a smelly vagina, a too loose vagina, condoms, condoms can be very difficult for a man, try to caress your cat with latex gloves. A lot's of things are an immediate turn off.
Sorry to say this but if I was aroused in the first place, than I would pull out and jerk off , it would not be for a fetish but simply because there isn't any sexual stimulation to keep it going.
I don't know why that lady didn't ask, perhaps it's that lack of communication that transpose into her physical behavior that turned them off.
The solution: communicate openly and respectfully, that's love.
 GYPSY*QUEEN
Joined: 6/19/2008
Msg: 119
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:55:49 AM
I hate this too IF it is totally self centred...I mean a little self play here and there adds to the spic ebut I can't stand it when YOU KNOW they have played with themselves soooooooooooooo long you are simply there as a human sex toy to ADD at bit here and there for extra stim....hit the road jack off
 davidsauvignon
Joined: 2/6/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/10/2008 6:19:43 AM
LateFall: "Under normal masterbatory circamstances, I can shoot two feet but under conditions such as this, it is as much a show for you as it is for me. I hope you don't have stuco ceiling cause that's where it's going."

Two foot ceiings????! Who you been hangin' with, the 7 dwarves?



~ds~
 TenderheartKC
Joined: 8/26/2007
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Posted: 7/12/2008 2:43:23 PM
I dont know about the anal thing, I sure as hell dont want anything around mine. There are times when I will have a very hard time to cummm. And I will just have to help it along it has nothing to do with her.
 Rhett68
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 7/12/2008 9:06:01 PM

If you're unwilling to so something sexually unless there's, "something in it for you," then you miss the point and I feel sorry for you.
Well said. People have too many "rules" concerning sex.
Okay, you shouldn't HAVE to do something you aren't comfortable with, but I think people are being way too hard on these guys (haha, I made a funny).
 single1965
Joined: 10/13/2005
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Posted: 7/12/2008 9:14:20 PM
I would have to say the guys you were dating are a bit coo-koo!! pulling out and pleasuring themselves thats just not right. Your just having bad luck.
 sahasrara10
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 124
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/12/2008 9:18:02 PM
Listen, all you gotta do for the guy is work your kegel muscles while he is doing you. You have to do them at the right time like right before he hits your cervix. Those contractions inside you will drive him wild. He will not waste time with his hand if you try it.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/13/2008 3:49:25 AM
It doesn't matter why they did it; the issue is that that is what they needed, or wanted, to do to orgasm.

The overwhelming message I'm getting here is that you are an extraordinarily selfish lover. "What am I supposed to do while he does that?"; "...there was no pleasure for me."; "...but it was boring."; "Again, nothing for me."; "Next time it happens I will go watch TV."

Sex isn't just about having pleasure; it's about giving pleasure; and giving pleasure should be pleasurable in and of itself. What was the issue? These guys weren't having their orgasms the way you thought they should. When it comes to orgasm, it's about your partner. If my partner told me she needed me to stand on my head and chew on a pillow so she could come; I'm not going to get pissy because she isn't also pleasing me at that moment; I'm going to be spitting feathers; and enjoying it, because she is.

Sounds to me like you need to interview and pre-screen your lovers; and make sure they can orgasm in a way you approve before you have sex with them.
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