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 stephaniezowie
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 151
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I really didn't understand what you meant. Do you mean the guy masterbates after intercourse?
Sorry if I seem dumb, but I just don't get what you are saying. And you say there are alot of guys who do that??????
 chivaltree
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 152
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 8/10/2008 10:37:37 AM
Wow, what type of weirdos are you dating. I don't go the anal pleasure, maybe some stimulation, but that is it. I perfer oral stimulation to the point tha ti pleasure a lady twice before I even think about it. As far as pulling out, no I love to feel a mutual orgasasm where I can feel her and she me. This is what is very nice.

As far as kissing the thighs and etc. That is part of foreplay and I like to do that when a lady is blindfolded. It drives them wild.
 3b83
Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 153
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:12:02 PM
I say you get a strap on and give him some real anal I havent ever had this happen and so I cant really say what Id do. But about the not fresh comment Thats what the shared shower is for. that way you know hes clean "back there" Or you can go to the drug store and buy some finger condoms. They are for people in the food prep. business so cuts are covered but Im sure they would work for you
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/18/2008 6:47:55 PM
I am sorry ,my heart goes for you. Sex is like ballroom dancing,energy on energy, if a woman is a bit loose in the tunnel that is a turn off to a man. Do some Keegle excerise, and take belly dancing.... Anal penetration while he was masturbating ? A bit weird to me..
 superbadzzz
Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 155
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/18/2008 7:17:55 PM
i am waiting for the third guy and the punchline.
 sam9sam10
Joined: 9/10/2008
Msg: 156
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/18/2008 9:37:08 PM
but this doesn't mean all mens are the same . there is a lot of good mens have bad luck two . any way good luck withe next man . you also be sure you will meat good man
 annatar1973
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 157
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/18/2008 9:52:10 PM
Those men need to get off their butts and get in shape. No excuses about not having enough time. Make time.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 158
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 12:24:00 AM
Well if a guy did that to me I would get dressed, tell him to enjoy himself and I'd be out the door.

I want a man that wants me back.
 justmewhynot
Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 159
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 1:31:13 AM
Well I'm not going to read 8 pages of replies, but as a 49 year old man, I just gotta say, this is bizarre! I can't imagine why a guy would do that, and for the record, it has nothing to do with age!

2 in a row! Talk about bad luck!
 justmewhynot
Joined: 6/14/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 1:46:31 AM
Were the two guys wearing condoms? Maybe they needed the extra stimulation? Or if they weren't, maybe it is some kind of throwback for them to reduce the odds of them getting the woman pregnant?

The anal thing is definitely different.
 justmewhynot
Joined: 6/14/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 1:52:47 AM
I don't know how to say this delicately, so I'll just put it out there...

Could it be that the OP is just not very tight? In her vagina I mean? So the guys needed to pleasure themselves because they weren't getting enough frictional stimulation?
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 7:44:17 AM
I REALLY HATE that too. The last time I almost had so called sex, which was a month ago, the guy could NOT take his hands off himself long enough to touch me, to try to turn me on. He did NOT ever want me to touch his penis, because, as he said "my nails are too long". Get real, my nails have NEVER hurt anyone . Now, that guy can spend the rest of his life, as he did the last 8 years, doing what he likes best, which is doing and touching only himself. He actually perfers that sick solitary life. No one will be b*tching at him to take his hands off himself so he can touch someone else anymore.
 spiceemomme
Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 163
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 8:28:11 AM
maybe you should just go with it next time....pleasure them the way they want and , start pleasuring yourself at the same time....nothing wrong with a little masterbation session.......relax and enjoy.....or go watch tv...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 9:56:43 AM
Ooh!!! If a two men thinks I am a lousy lay and they'd prepare Mary Palm-mer instead of me, I would run to the adult store and buy all the sex books, I can get on how to drive a man wants me more, more ,more in lovemaking....lol
 0802
Joined: 5/10/2007
Msg: 165
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/19/2008 2:47:10 PM
well as a man myself i think this is an insult to you,he's supposed to be pleasuring you in all ways possible and by doing this will gain imense pleasure himself i know i do,its not always about self gratification her pleasure comes first in my book
 Texwolf
Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 166
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/20/2008 4:24:35 PM
well I hate to break this to you but if the guy is finishing it himself you may need to see if your to loose to give them pleasure. this happens sometimes and are ways to fix the problem. Look on the net for exercise the tighten it up the next guy will really like it regardless.
 wild331
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 167
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/20/2008 5:06:13 PM
you got some porno jerks. Next time one pulls out ask him for a vibrator cuz his thing didn't finish the job. Then when you finish, get dressed and go watch tv.
 loverofrain
Joined: 9/15/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/20/2008 5:12:43 PM
sounds like these men may need to hunt them a man instead of a woman next man u get with ask way before hand what they are into and save urself all this displeasure .also their erection might be getting soft before the the thrill and they pull away to keep from getting embarassed ,with men u never know .
 TakeMeTheWayIAm
Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 169
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/20/2008 6:36:10 PM

3yearsfromnow: "What's up with this? don't men want a woman any more? You don't need me around to pleasure yourself. Next time it happens I will go watch TV."


It sounds like in both cases the guy also wanted to come. If they pulled out of you and started masturbating then I can see one reason for that:

* perhaps your vagina isn't tight enough to press on his penis in such a way that he feels himself getting closer to coming. this might be combined with other factors that wouldn't keep him peaked sexually like: you being distracted/disinterested, the type of condom not giving him enough sensitivity, not enough natural or added lubrication. pulling out allows him to remove the condom, for example.

I wanted to add to that "you two weren't wearing a condom and he had no intention of coming inside you, attempting then to minimize the chances of an unwanted pregnancy" but that's probably not the case here.

When you suggest that you'd rather watch television than your lover masturbate I'd say that's the problem here. You are disinterested in his orgasms. In the history of television there never has been a show that was more interesting to me than watching a female masturbate.
 cindy magoo
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 170
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/21/2008 5:06:29 AM
never know..these two may not have been truly heterosexual..cause that is really.. rare.
 augustaguy64
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 171
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 11:12:51 AM
men dont pull out unless the sex is REALLY bad....REALLY REALLY BAD
 Chocolatebrowne
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 172
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 11:24:41 AM
I had one man do this to me once....his penis was small and thin, and I think that masturbating was the only way for him.....
 Smiles2yas
Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 173
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 1:33:22 PM
If he just wanted to get his rocks off and not worry if you got anything out of it-- I would think ----- What a selfesh jerk. He does not care if your feeling are hurt in the least. He also has no feeling for you even if you think he might. To jerk off in front of you plus have you help him get off and smelling to boot is a real self centered prick.. Guys like him only care about them selfs and will never have the feeling to share with others..
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 2:05:10 PM

In the history of television there never has been a show that was more interesting to me than watching a female masturbate.


No, but Wonder Woman ran a close 2nd.
 MarkyMark03
Joined: 6/13/2008
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 2:09:32 PM
maybe you are crap at sex >>>>??

did you ask them why they pulled out
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