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 LongAfterDark
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 176
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I didn't know this was such a trend. Playing with yourself while someone watches can be a lot of fun.
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 177
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 3:07:22 PM
I have never met a man like that! I would like it if he pulled out and got himself off! It seems to be all about him!
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 178
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 3:09:49 PM
Wow...

I guess sex is ALL about YOUR pleasure, right? Screw what he wants, right?
 biker4babe50
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 179
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/22/2008 10:55:19 PM

Yes, they were older: The first guy was 59; using Viagra. The second guy was 51; he denied using meds.



can older guys comment on this.... is anal pleasure required/requested when you get older?


Absolutely unequivocally NO is the answer to anal being required by older men. Actually I would venture to say that is the younger men these days that are always trying to take a slide up the hershey highway. Or at least that's what I hear most of them talking about.

As far as pulling out and masturbating rather than having an orgasm inside the woman, some women like watching a man finish himself. I would say that would be between the two having the sex. But then again I doubt that most don't even ask their partner what they like or would like, they just "wing" it and do things as they themselves prefer to go about it.
 JusTME723
Joined: 9/17/2008
Msg: 180
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:35:16 AM
OMG....WOW.....SPEECHLESS.....UMMMMM TWO GUYS....It's never happened to me....Never met a guy who had enough energy to pleasure himself after I was done with him.
 janalta
Joined: 11/14/2006
Msg: 181
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:37:56 AM
Yeah, no...can't say as I've ever had a guy suddenly pull out and have to jerk off to finish either.
Very odd.
 catabrie
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 182
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 5:00:53 AM
3years, I recall this post shortly after it first appeared, but refrained from adding my 2ยข worth then. Now that others have 'spoken up', and the penny is pending a make-over, I hate it when a woman would rather go watch TV than discuss what she'd rather we do instead of a variation on the SOSO, even though this can't be beat for a finish w/ whom I love ...besides lust.

I have to agree w/ many that the men you describe are unusual, but then our actions often reflect the company we're keeping. I'd have to agree w/some of the women who suggested that your hoo-hoo isn't all that you think it is, and not just for your most intimate body part, but what else you bring to the B/R for making a man make it his 'home' too.
 JTinAZ
Joined: 9/13/2008
Msg: 183
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 5:11:07 AM
So how do you think guys feel about giving oral? nothing is in it for them except the fact that women love it. You have to love giving the other person pleasure or else you don' know what sex is and you need to grow up.
 clearwaterfish
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 184
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 9:27:51 AM
something i dont under stand !!!! and i am a man, I agree with this statement 100 %
 James_in_SD
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 185
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Posted: 9/23/2008 1:22:46 PM

Next time it happens I will go watch TV.


What if there's nothing good on TV at the time?

Watch something bad.
 gourmetchef09
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 186
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 1:41:37 PM
lil brooker is spot on...its happened to me..altho i didnt ask for anal...
 catabrie
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 187
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 7:38:27 PM
Disclaimer, disclaimer... msg 225 is not me but my SO... he shares his computer with me and well, didn't double check who was last signed on in the forums... I'll be sure to sign out completely from now on... sorry for the digression & possible confusion.

But now that I'm here guess I should put in a word too. No, OP, this has never happened to me.

cata
 mpaulag
Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 188
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 7:58:40 PM
Well if you liked the guy why didnt you offer to help him out. Go down on him or give him a hand job for crying out loud. If it happened everytime you were in bed together then I would ask him what would be more pleasing for him, different postion, etc.. If you like him then you would have worked it out and found out what the deal was. Pleasing your partner should be as high a prioity as being pleased yourself. It is give and take, you are old enough to know these things. ;) Obviously neither of them were interested enough in you to work it out either. Better luck next time.

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 rioisk
Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 189
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 8:09:52 PM
That is one weird and HILARIOUS situation!
 SVImager
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 190
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/23/2008 10:15:08 PM
HAHA!!!

Too Bad...

I heard this on Howard Stern Show.

Some retarded guy won sex with a girl from the Bunny Ranch.
Her instruction was: " When you come see me, DO NOT Masturbate for 10 days in Advance."

"Why?"

"Because Masturbation is such a strong Habit forming condition, that it will take 10 days of not doing it to break the conditioning."

I am paraphrasing of course.
Now she is a professional and she can't break the Masturbation habit without special instructions.

Don't feel bad... That Guy with Anal is too creepy.
 solemn_hypnotic
Joined: 9/18/2008
Msg: 191
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 9/25/2008 4:06:58 AM
"Nothing in it for me"

That's a terrible attitude to have, and probably why you aren't having as much in bed as you should be. I mean if that was ALL he wanted, then maybe. But so what? Wanting to give your partner pleasure should make you happy, and get you even more wound up. It's all about the journey, not the destination.
 tru e
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 192
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 10/6/2008 1:10:05 PM
bj during the movie? where the hell do i sign up forthat type of woman?
 irishrover4lass
Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 193
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 10/7/2008 1:16:18 AM
Hmmm I missed the shower thing somewhere...you'll have to clue me in

I find mutual masturbation sessions can be very erotic, I'd especcially like to help with the finish!
 f4nboi
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 194
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 10/7/2008 2:36:18 AM
Omg I've never heard of any guys like this, I can't decide what I want to do first laugh or vomit.....you just got a few bad apples. good luck
 Padawan61
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 195
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 10/7/2008 11:06:11 PM
You put a lot into a relationship; then you decide to become intimate. Lovemaking goes well, then all of a sudden he rolls over, pulls out and starts pleasuring himself.

So I met another guy, tall and handsome and a real lady killer. Eventually we became intimate and during sex he pulled out, rolled over and started pleasuring himself

Yes, they were older: The first guy was 59; using Viagra. The second guy was 51; he denied using meds

LOL ... you really can pick 'em. Must be an old guy thing. Next time ... try some younger stallion and you might have better luck.
 stormwolf545
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 196
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 10/7/2008 11:21:00 PM
I see your problem it is the term whats in it for me. When I make love to or have sex with a woman I am more interested in her pleasure than my own as you should be toward your lover. I sometimes like my sexual partner to watch me masturbate it turns me on and if she is not a selfish lover she will do it and enjoy my pleasure.

For example I love making women have an orgasm orally whats in it for me you say. Simple her pleasure is my pleasure because I am not a selfish lover. So your problem is selfishness not something he did.
 edvis1
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 197
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 12/19/2008 10:48:58 PM
Sounds like they are pornn addicts and just doing what they've been shown they should do by the porn industry. They can't let it happen naturally.
 entrepreneur08
Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 198
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 12/20/2008 12:48:38 AM
That is some really funny stuff lol.

Did you ever know that you attract the most what you think about the most even though it is something that you don't want?

Let me explain. When you don't want something to happen even though you don't want it but your subconcious mind is real powerful, and in your subconcious it is there and the more you want to not want it the more you attract it. Why? Because you are putting your thoughts and energy into it eventhough it is in a way that you don't want. Just quit thinking about it and it will go away. Put Your energy and thoughts into attracting what you want rather than what you don't want and You will attract it.

This is all true in life for everything. Relationships, Money, health, happiness ETC ETC. One must put energy into attracting what he/she really wants rather than what he/she doesn't want.
 LiaLane
Joined: 10/14/2008
Msg: 199
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Posted: 12/20/2008 1:48:00 AM
Are both men .. um small by any chance? Maybe there wasn't enough friction and they needed a death grip to get off. A lot of men who are used to jerking off find that they need that extra squeeze to finish.

As for the 'anal request'... ok that can be interesting, but if he just finished taking a sloppy dump and he's not clean, HAIL NO!!
 jetfuel1975
Joined: 6/18/2008
Msg: 200
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 12/20/2008 7:32:57 AM
I think i've got it! i was in an auto wreck where my sciatic nerve was torn (right leg), now there's a medical school saying: "s-1, s-2, s-3, s-4, keeps the pecker off the floor" the s's are nerve extensions from the sciatic nerve to the****muscle. since it's my right leg, the right side of my "wang" (Leon Phelps), is partially numb. I've only been with a few ladies since the wreck and with each one It takes me forever to get off due to the lack off feeling! it's easier for me to just jack off yet tiring and humiliating as it is. yes i take meds, or have taken meds to harden the once much livelier "wang" , as "The Ladies Man" calls it, good movie... So maybe what you need to do is just get on top and rock that****into yourself..! Get yourself off on him, then give him a hand-job/blowjob until he cums. problem solved. what I'm coming to understand is that it's totally not unsatisfying because I can't feel as much to manipulate sensual gyration, so i've read up on how to go down on women the way they like and am just patiently awaiting some lovely clean female who will let me first me satisfy her..!
best of luck my dear!!! :)
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