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 buddypoke
Joined: 11/2/2008
Msg: 201
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1. Change your locale where you are looking for your mate. "birds of the same feather flock together"

2. Do not give up so easy. If you invested enough time to know them before jumping in bed, you should probably spend some time intimately to know them better sexually. Do not kick him out after the first sleepover.

3. How is your attitude during sex? Is it bad/selfish that the man wants to get it over with and leave??
 damechaton
Joined: 8/13/2008
Msg: 202
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 12/20/2008 7:52:43 AM
One word comes to mind, selfish. However, it is all in the way you present your demeanor when engaging in the act. Being in control is all mind set and you can attain your pleasure by being just as self pleasing to yourself.
 jonash2007
Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 203
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/6/2009 3:12:48 PM
Sounds kinda strange to me..but it also sounds like to me you're not very concerned about his pleasure.
 x_johnny_x
Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 204
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 3:25:57 PM
IN REPLY TO THE FIRST POST
WOW!!!
BAD LUCK OR WHAT! ALL I CAN SAY IS WERE NOT ALL LIKE THAT.
 jesseld
Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 205
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 7:42:40 PM

You put a lot into a relationship; then you decide to become intimate. Lovemaking goes well, then all of a sudden he rolls over, pulls out and starts pleasuring himself. What am I supposed to do while he does that? Well he asked me to touch his rear and provide him with anal pleasure. EWWW!!! nasty. I wanted to let him know that sometimes he just wasn't "fresh smelling"; I hated giving him anal; there was no pleasure for me. He called me selfish. I broke up with him, the sex was no fun at all.
So I met another guy, tall and handsome and a real lady killer. Eventually we became intimate and during sex he pulled out, rolled over and started pleasuring himself. Only this man wanted me to kiss his thighs; but it was boring. Again, nothing in it for me. That also did not last.
What's up with this? don't men want a woman any more? You don't need me around to pleasure yourself. Next time it happens I will go watch TV.



ok, I haven't read all 10 pages but I did glance through them and didn't notice this covered.

Sounds to me like your boring in bed, possibly even nagging. Definitely not attentive. Judging by your posts the only thing your in bed for is your own pleasure.

I had an ex that was this way, and towards the end of the relationship, the last time we had sex was pretty much that way. Went on for quite some time and couldn't even get close to finishing. Wanted to try some things and she wasn't into it. She never was through out our entire relationship. I decided right then and there that we'd never have sex again. Pulled out , jerked off, blew my load on her backside, grabbed a towel and handed it to her then walked away, we never had sex again after that.

How's someone supposed to be sexually excited with someone who is only concerned with their own pleasure and not their partners.
 henry1995
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 206
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 7:51:26 PM
Sounds like 2 me you 2 are not sexually compatiable. He is at least into rimming and you are not. At least from my stand point. Good luck in the future though.
 nursecarey77
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 207
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 7:52:08 PM
are you doing it right.......
 henry1995
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 208
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 7:57:57 PM
I need more clarification than that.
 srb272007
Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 209
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 8:05:26 PM
you try having sex with a 53 yr old woman and see if rolling over, closing your eyes, and pleasuring yourself doesn't cross your mind
 ML_Part2
Joined: 11/29/2008
Msg: 210
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 8:14:24 PM
OP ...OMG...Like where in the hell are you finding these dudes at lmao, The sewer?
For starters, after love making, or even while making love, if ANY women EVER put her fingers in my A$$ I'm bouncing with the quickness!

When in the heck did men start enjoying knuckles crammed up their honker, WTF?
Ummm...You really need to open up to the next fella that you meet and say this...
For starters, if we end up sleeping together and you ask me to play with yer A$$ Imma break out with a spin kick across your face, Then tell him the retard Ben is just around the corner!

Sorry folks, I know this is an open forum and we're supposed to respect all comments, But when a Dude is not smelling ever so fresh, Like the OP explained and he's needing knuckles up the knuckle, Ummmm...It's time to flush Mr. Pooper down to pot, Sorry!!!

Op...Whoa...Be careful out there, For real!!!
 420SHYBOY420
Joined: 2/26/2009
Msg: 211
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 9:22:24 PM
im sorry to here that but anal is for exit only no incoming trafic for me
 fn4us
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 212
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 10:17:38 PM
Maybe masturbates too much and that if the only way he can.... You can put that as a qualifier on your profile .... put it down in the "must " section,,,,"Must NOT PULL out and PLAY with self"
 Southern_Cowboy
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 213
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:45:19 AM
First off, I think it was rude for some of ya'll to be saying that "her coochie wasn't all that"

It's not her fault, or the guys if they weren't sexually compatible. How would you like it if some gal said that "You thang is just too small" when really you thought it wasn't.

Sounds like she just needs to find a guy that fits her, or maybe she gets too wet? I have had issues with girls getting too wet and it just takes a little bit longer than normal, which I guess makes me look better and she benefits the end result anyways. But I had the patience t continue with pleasing her, not pulling out and pleasing myself.

Find a guy with a bigger unit and more stamina, then I think you will not have a problem like that.

Just my thoughts....





~Cowboy~
 lost_in_midTN
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 214
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:08:33 PM
Am I the only one who found the reply by srb272007 offensive?!

On to something more constructive, I really have to say that I belive this is something that is probably related to their age, and was their way of either trying to maintain an erection or trying to get hard again after they had lost one. Older or more sexually experienced men are also more comfortable with expressing their desires (for the anal stimulation, etc.)
 Nothin2it
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 215
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:18:18 PM
hmmmz...stroking himself and asking for anal? gay???


I'm thinking so too...either that or they're just so detached and desensitized that sex isn't even sex anymore...sounds to me like both of them maybe were on an ego trip and wanted to see some humiliation from their "partner" for lack of a better word. They wanted to be the star of their own personal porn flick or something.

As far as anal goes and age...the anus is an exit only device...mess with it, I'll find an exit to use quick. But that's me, to each his or her own I suppose...

In some people, at some point, making love stops and sex starts, and further down the road sex stops and usury starts, and after that it's just "do me" ...that's just vain and arrogant.

Who knows why they did it...I'd say though that if you found two in a row, maybe think about what types of guys you are looking at versus what types of guys you want to find? I dunno. Fishing in the wrong pond I'm thinking. (If there's never more than three women in the bar, and two are waitresses...leave alone) :)
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 216
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/7/2009 11:35:20 PM
My gaydar just went up about 10 fold; are you sure you aren't dating clay aikens?

Not getting how the metrosexual guys love anal over regular sex; I think he's more than a lady killer; he's a man killer too. thats' strange.
 KylaKiKi
Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 217
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/8/2009 1:09:01 AM
gotta say ur pickin the wrong men... and if u don't voice ur opinion they will never know
 fruitnut
Joined: 1/16/2009
Msg: 218
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/8/2009 1:20:12 AM
Maybe you are not stimulating him enough to keep guys interest why they find themselves roll over and lck their own balls ooooooooooops not right only dogs and cats do that hahahaha

My point is did it ever occur to you that maybe the problem is you?
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 219
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/8/2009 7:36:38 AM
Okay, I read enough of this crap already! I don't like playing with women's aholes either or them playing with mine. But why are women here so fricken angry since a lot of women have wanted me to lick and fvck their ass. If a guy gave you an hour or more of pleasure and couldn't cum, probably because he was holding off and his penis became less sensitive and he couldn't cum from intercourse. That happens, the vagina becomes too wet and loosens up a bit after a hour. So what's wrong with jerking off after that? Seems women don't like that, is he suppose to go into the bathroom and do it by himself? For some men it's also a huge turn on to masturbate for a woman.
 wild331
Joined: 2/7/2011
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 12:37:57 PM
boy not only did you get some weird azz guy....but 2 of them.....I want to leave it where it was....and I always take a shower before getting in bed with the women I want to be intimate with........
 sexguy2012
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 221
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 12:43:37 PM
Porn style, spoils the fun actually in my opinion even if I know to each their own.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
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I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 1:46:10 PM
is anal pleasure required/requested when you get older?

Not just no but... HELL NO!!
never, no way, not going to happen ever, with hers or mine, nasty!!
anal is for exit only no incoming trafic for me or for her.
 salty_blumist
Joined: 11/26/2012
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Posted: 1/29/2013 2:05:09 PM
3yearsfromnow,

I symphathize with you if he didn't always have the best hygene. I think he was trying to spurn your creativity. He probably got tired and need a breather. He probably wanted to see if you would take the initiative and do something different. Somehow I think he may have been been feeding you a line of bull about playing with his ass. He probably knew it would gross you out. He was probably hoping you would read between the lines and thinking you may be willing to try something else besides that. Like perhaps a bj...lol. The thought of a woman giving me a bj after I pulled out of her is very enticing. The second man you were with I think most definitely would have wanted a bj. But you were to inhibited. Inhibition that way from a woman can be a turn off! I figure if your really attracted to someone then oral sex should always be a go, unless it was real gross for reasons I don't care to go into detail about.
 434handyman
Joined: 1/21/2013
Msg: 224
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 2:51:01 PM
Hey if you ever in Kentucky look me up. If you can't get me off I'll save it when you are ready for round two or three or four.....
 _Meta_Man_
Joined: 7/2/2012
Msg: 225
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/29/2013 3:05:00 PM
the problem is you are selfish. They may be selfish too but you are too self centered and impatient to find out. Sorry...
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