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 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 12
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Don't you just love these dudes? 18 years old and think they've been around the world a 100 times.
 billybob600
Joined: 8/7/2004
Msg: 14
Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 9/24/2004 6:01:05 AM
Dont need anyone to take care of me, I enjoy older women mainly because the conversation tends to be far deeper than what a 20-24 year old wants to talk about. I just cant get excited talking about clothes, make-up, shoes, or the non stop gossip.
 JustMe1819
Joined: 12/18/2003
Msg: 16
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Posted: 9/24/2004 9:35:26 AM
ok KAATA. You said you mainly date older women or whatever then what does that make you... Does that mean that you can not find a women your own age I mean what is the difference between a man that dates older women and a women that dates older men. I dont think there is one. And yeah like you really have any clue what you are talkin about. OK you are 18 you have not been around. Hell Im 22 and I havent either. But I do what works for me. Yeah maybe that is how some men are but not all of them. Anyways I just thought that some of what you said was kinda funny I dont know I guess comin from a youngin himself.
 JustMe1819
Joined: 12/18/2003
Msg: 17
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Posted: 9/24/2004 9:36:14 AM
ok sorry your 20 but still way to young to make that call for all men. Sheeeesh
 ItAllGoesWell
Joined: 8/5/2004
Msg: 18
Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 9/24/2004 10:24:55 AM
It totally depends on the person. I have met mature, down-to-earth 18 year olds, and childish 45 year olds. Personality can overcome a pretty big age difference.
 JustMe1819
Joined: 12/18/2003
Msg: 21
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Posted: 9/26/2004 10:42:17 AM
yup I agree with you guys. I thik there is a limit but a lot depends on maturity. there is a big difference in ppl not only in age but in maturity. But I still like older men
 JustMe1819
Joined: 12/18/2003
Msg: 22
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Posted: 9/27/2004 6:50:39 AM
Nah Kaata. I just think that there is something wrong with your point when you say that it is wrong for a older man to date a younger women but it is ok for a younger man to date an older women. I mean your age doesnt make that much differnce other then you are really not old enough to make that kinda call. I mean you can go with what you think is best for you but everyone lives there own life. And everyone has there own preference. I dont think that just because you date someone younger then you means that you cant get someone your own age. It just means you are interested in the person. Once you hit a certain age. The whole age difference thing doesnt matter as much anymore, well to some ppl.
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 23
Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 9/27/2004 10:31:33 AM
Kaata, in your very first message you come out swinging in a condescending, arrogant manner throwing around the first insult, in an attempt to come across as being mature: "All of you women in your 20's that have this idea that 35 year old + men are so mature, get a grip."

You close off that message with: "Two words for the men. GROW UP."

Subsequently, many posters here take exception to your "Derogatory Attitude and Mud Slinging" and prod you back a touch to let you know that your heightened "Sense of Altitude" and "Offensive Mis-Information" is really not appreciated.

Perhaps you haven't been around the block long enough to realize that cutting down other people gets you into "Hot Water". In turn, you get shot back at by those who have little love for your insults masquerated as "Maturity".

Consequently, if you are not "too full of yourself" or excessively "thick", experience should teach you a lesson which will assist you in growing up.

On another note, are you saying I have given up on trying to stand up for what I believe in and hoping for a lucky lottery ticket? Any more Falsehoods and Generalizations forthcoming?

While you are rattling on about maturity, all we have seen here from you so far is painting "All of you women in your 20's" and "35 year old + men" with the same brush.
 forthebeauty
Joined: 7/14/2004
Msg: 24
Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 9/27/2004 11:44:33 AM
WWoooooo hoooooooooo this is getting interesting! Go ticket, Go gator !!!!!!!!!!!!!
 MysticinVA
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 27
Guess KAATA decided to leave us...
Posted: 1/15/2005 10:40:40 AM
only to emerge from an ugly chrysalis into another fugly flutterby...aw shucks dont ya just hate that...Like gettin a huge greeny/yellow spot on the end of ya nose ...Just as you go to walk out the door on a date...Bugger...what a bummer.....

aaaaany way back on topic....I love this one...coz..I WONT date women my age or within 10 yrs of it....(I'm 41....why....) because I been there dun that...and It's like dating my Mum....cant explain why just how I feel....and...I have a choice anyway...so I choose not to...I have friends that age and we get on well but not dating sorry...thats a no-no....

I have and will countinue to date girls 17, 19 & 20...and I have the time of my life...as well as really interesting conversations...whether its because they feel more supported in sum of their issues I dont know....whether its the fact I can answer from a different perspective than a guy their age...who's head might be stuck under the bonnet of a car or in a beer glass...or up his arsse I dunno...but its working for me....so..I'm enjoying life here....

Maybe younger girls feel more secure with an older guy who is soooooo sad and desperate that he wont wander off.... maybe he feels sooooo lucky he will stay coz all of his ships have come in all at once.....

I used to think that "when my ship comes in....with my kind of luck......I will be at the airport...." ...but thats not the case....

KAATA....did have it wrong...

MISSIE1819....best of luck....it's not gonna be easy with 3 kids...but hey...you know that already....Aroha to U....

 MysticinVA
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 28
Yes I have friends....
Posted: 1/15/2005 10:58:04 AM
Well OK just the one....

and the $20 a month I pay her to be my friend is not a bad rate eitrher...so there........
 harryarse
Joined: 9/15/2004
Msg: 30
elwood -
Posted: 1/16/2005 11:05:09 AM
DOESNT MATTER AS LONG AS THEY BOTH KNOW WHAT THIER DOING
 knight2016
Joined: 9/24/2004
Msg: 31
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elwood -
Posted: 1/16/2005 11:28:07 AM
I'm dating a girl who is 21. I'm 32. Most of the time it's ok, but sometimes she seems a bit immature to me.
 knight2016
Joined: 9/24/2004
Msg: 32
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elwood -
Posted: 1/16/2005 11:31:21 AM
I say that's up to you.
 knight2016
Joined: 9/24/2004
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elwood -
Posted: 1/16/2005 11:45:15 AM
I would go as young as 18 if I were you. But I'm not you.
 evilprincesstera
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 34
Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 1/16/2005 3:05:04 PM
depends on the guy. i married my ex husband and he was 16 years older than me. Of course, from that I learned age does not necessarily mean maturity.

I use my brother's age as my guideline. if they are the same age or younger than that i have to pass. I also won't date anyone in my parent's age bracket. too weird to do that again.

so i guess mine would be from age 21 to age you, so about 4 or 5 years on either side of me.
 evilprincesstera
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 1/16/2005 3:05:26 PM
ha to age 30* wtf is to age you?

desperately in need of a nap
 HAHANOW
Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 39
Re: age differance and dateing
Posted: 3/13/2005 7:58:26 PM
Jimi, I have to agree 10 years would be fine. I still get the 18 year olds too. Geeze ! Do I look like a school teacher?
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 41
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Posted: 3/14/2005 4:20:55 PM
If you concentrate on age you ignore far to many potentialy beautiful possibilities. I had an ego problem as a younger man, or at least a much bigger one than I do now. I ignored younger women, speculating they couldn't satisy the body without the intellect. Took awhile, but I learned Intellect, and subsequently maturity, had nothing to do with a number on the wall. As adults we are all the same age between the sheets, experience is always trumped by character.
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 43
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Posted: 3/14/2005 5:55:31 PM
"I'm younger than that now." Need a hiking buddy there J.Johnson?
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 44
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Posted: 3/14/2005 6:02:54 PM
I bet I can't message you because of your no dating criteria. I'd change it, but that would be a game now wouldn't it? Would love to hear from you! Peace, Johnny
 Morpheus!
Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 45
elwood -
Posted: 7/9/2005 3:19:50 AM
Long Term Relationship :)
 jg65
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 48
age differance and dateing
Posted: 8/29/2007 2:08:24 PM
Age Shmage
if there is a connection, it does not really matter
been with 51 yr old woman when 33
been with 22 year old when 39
last was 5 years older than me (her 46, me 41)
if it works, feels good, ok
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