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 lilmuggy
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 160
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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!Page 8 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
hey steph, the answer is simple. the young guys are avoiding the head games girls their own age play. they hear all about "cougars" and try to hook up with older women who they hear are hot lovers and are hard up for young guys who supposedly can satisfy them numerous times a day.all tthey want is a trophy cougar honey. if you want all night exausting sex they're where it's at. i hope this clarifies everything.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 161
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/12/2009 2:51:34 PM
"Not at all, just that 45 plus just doesn't do it for me, that honest enough for ya!"
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No wonder some men and women go for younger flesh when people their own age aren't good enough.
 big e57
Joined: 10/26/2009
Msg: 162
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/12/2009 11:07:01 PM
well im 19 and from cinci ohio.and i love mature women 30-45 is such sexy ages to me.but to us young guys its mostly about sex and good sex at that.like my self i have not found a mature women that wants a 19yo just for sex yet waiting but not yet.the young ones just dont know what they want in life or what to do.message me if anyoe would like to chat
 ManicMelanie
Joined: 7/10/2009
Msg: 163
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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/12/2009 11:47:01 PM
Let me put a positive spin on this. Younger men and older women are NATURALLY very compatible. Similar energy levels in general and of course, that means sex, too. There are numerous reasons for interest other than attraction, of course, just as there are for younger women who like older men. It takes open minds to be willing to entertain the idea and even the person.

There are great men and women of all ages and even though huge age differences in LTR are unusual, they DO happen. People should simply go with what they're comfortable with, what works for them, what makes them happy and respect the choices and preferences of others.

 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 164
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/13/2009 12:02:52 AM

Similar energy levels in general and of course, that means sex, too.


Younger men and older women are NATURALLY very compatible


this is a new one...Naturally..really?...so is it natural for me to want to bang a 19 year old?

Please state your source where it states that older women have the same energy levels as younger men.

Are you saying that me, a 37 year old man cant have the same energy level as lets say a 24 year old?...OR, I dont have the same energy level as a 37 year old woman?

look...EVERYONE has one thing in common, and that is sex. Would I like to bang a 23 year old chick?...of course I would...would I have a LTR with her?..probably not.
 DruidXpuppyboy
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 165
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:16:31 PM
I just prefer older women straight up. Give me Sharon Stone over LIndsey Lohan anyday. I have no idea why I just do and I generally get sad if an older woman turns me down.
 Forums001
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 166
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/23/2009 8:27:06 AM
These days when men hit 40, women are usually turned off by the age. I have met women in thier 40's over the past year and all they say is that we old men are useless, no fun, set in our ways and unattractive.
Younger women do not date older men nowadays. So when a woman is in her 40's and up, go after the under 30 guys. You will enjoy it, like it and see that we old men are not as good as them.
 4gotnsoul
Joined: 9/24/2009
Msg: 167
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/23/2009 11:56:59 AM
Is it insulting to ladies having younger guys find em attractive????? Thought they'd like knowing they still got it.....lol. Listen, I was attracted to many ladies 10 to even 20 years older than me.....like I say, ladies view the age thing much harsher than most guys....
 sexyn60
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 168
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 1:54:41 AM
Thank u scd! I thought MILF was mature intimate lovely females. I needed that clarification since I'm new to this site and dating. I was contacted by a much younger man and he made it very clear that is was all about sex and being a cutie. At first I laughed, then I was flattered. I've had so many rotten relationships I'm at that point where I just want a boy toy to play with and no commitments. If the feeling mutual why not go for it? It would be a totally awesome experience for me and if I son't give it a chance I will never know.
 ghostryder1970
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 169
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 8:36:47 AM
sigh...I wish I was someone's play thing :(
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 170
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 10:56:01 AM
"41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!"
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Exactly. You're too old for a kid.
 sexyn60
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 171
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 5:20:15 PM
All sexes can offer something . Life is a learning experience. Some young men are very mature while others act their age. Even older men go thru a second childhood.
 Forums001
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 172
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 8:33:18 PM
The thing is, us older men act younger, we are called immature and told to grow up by women our age. Yet women our age can act younger, look younger and feel younger and yet get away with it.
 cinsav
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 173
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/27/2009 9:08:44 PM
Isn't that truth? I went out and bought Call of Duty MW II and I'm suddenly "immature" - yet "she" can go out clubbing (three times a week) with all the teenie boppers and she's just "blowing off steam."
 Forums001
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 174
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/28/2009 11:33:56 AM
The women over 40 complain about how men thier age seem to act old etc. So she says that this is why she finds younger men attractive and dates the guys 10+ years younger, going out to the bars etc.
Now me being 40, if I am seen hanging out with, going on dates with women 10+ years younger, that same woman will say "What a pervert, why doesn't he find someone his own age" and then if I show I am young at heart as well that same woman will say "He needs to grow up, he isn't in his 20's and 30's anymore."

Why is this?
Also ever notice women in thier 50's say men in thier 50's are set in thier ways, boring etc, women in thier 40's say the same about men in thier 40's, women in thier 30's say the same about men in thier 30's. What gives?
 jenava
Joined: 8/10/2009
Msg: 175
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 11/29/2009 8:22:23 AM
I have quite the opposite happen to me. Older gals hit on me. I don't think that is a bad thing, but at the end you have to think about them as well(future wise) can you really be there for them later at that big of an age difference? Sure there is no drama that a young woman brings, the sex is better and if you are the type of guy that's not really the party type then maybe things could work out, for a bit. I believe that at the end you have to stop and think and be realistic, it is a beautiful thing to have someone by your side at the golden age, and even better when you have someone who has appreciation for the experience that you both have lived. So I don't think a woman should get together with a younger guy an expect a true life partner..
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 176
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/8/2010 5:09:42 PM
^^ That's complete bull$hit and you know it. You have fetish for this subject judging by your posts in every single thread that deals with the same or a similar topic.
 24suburbs
Joined: 10/8/2010
Msg: 177
41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this!
Posted: 10/12/2010 7:41:19 PM
I know the OP is gone. But if this bothers anybody, then put an age restriction on your profile.
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