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 776877
Joined: 10/13/2007
Msg: 523
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship? Page 30 of 30    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30)
Nothing...................................................................more info? I'm PERFECT!!!!!
 VivaciousVixen2010
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 524
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 11/30/2008 1:53:11 AM
Let him in my life and married him
 sriannaailyim
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 543
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 1/25/2009 4:41:32 PM
I encouraged him back to his ex....

Well maybe it was for the better? Obviously he wasn't over her regardless of whether or not they would work. Everything happens for a reason.
 barbee1970
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 549
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 1/25/2009 5:22:24 PM
Ok, on a few posts I responded to, I mentioned what he did, but I did admit my faults. I know I'm not perfect. For me, it's communication, which to this day I'm trying to break my bad habits. I tend to not be assertive at times.

I was too nice to him and it went unappeciated. I would always try to help a guy out and all it let to is him taking advantage of me.
 arcticdude
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 556
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 1/26/2009 5:07:04 AM
OP, First of all, shame on you for starting this thread without 'coming clean' first!

That out of the way, my first answer was 'Stayed too long.' - 20 yr relationship/marriage.

But I acknowlage that that answer is a cop-out, job interview answer...Like when ever I hear:
Q:What are your faults?
A:Well, I tend to be a bit of a perfectionist.

Or

I'm too accomodating/nice...was a doormat

My BS detector goes off the scale! lol!

Thinking a bit more honestly, since I've given this subject a lot of thought... I'd say: Impulse control in certain aspects of my life. I didn't stay calm when attacked or annoyed, didn't refrain from overeating when stressed. I'm much better at all that now! Actually, Having a kid helped me to get in touch with my inner 'Zen Master' Not soon enough to save the marriage, but soon enough to ensure a calm divorce! No, REALLY! lol

Oh, explosivesheep, post 713, EXACTLY what I was thinking...most people aren't 'listening' to the question! Or their 'answer'. :-P
 WokkaWokka
Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 562
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 1/26/2009 1:47:19 PM
everything, just ask her
 funksoulbrutha
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 567
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What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 1/26/2009 2:40:11 PM
I was seeing a woman for 2 years. Ok, watching her. Same thing right? RIGHT!?!?!?!?!?!
 Cogie36
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 570
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What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 1/26/2009 3:14:25 PM
I'm a woman so obviously I did nothing wrong.......it was all him....


( calm down its a joke)......
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