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 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 2
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Someone once said she was really dumb. The other said: "Perfect"
 jackstrawno7
Joined: 9/14/2004
Msg: 3
Re: Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 9/23/2004 11:21:35 AM
if she's hot i'll take dumb any day.
 oldskooler
Joined: 9/11/2004
Msg: 4
Re: Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 9/23/2004 10:53:51 PM
Ok. Thanx to everyone partisipating in this discussion!

but... WHERE ARE GILS/WOMEN? Auuuu!!!!
 Madelaina
Joined: 5/23/2004
Msg: 5
Re: Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 9/24/2004 6:54:34 AM
hmmm.....intelligence to me is my greatest turn on
if the guy is stupid, even if he looked like Johnny Depp, forget about it....
i get more turned on at what i hear rather than what i see
 Virgin Lip Service
Joined: 8/24/2004
Msg: 6
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Re: Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 9/24/2004 11:38:39 PM
i prefer a playmate who is at least as smart as me...after-sex talk is impossible with someone who is incapable of putting words together to form sentences...even better is someone with intelligence and a great sense of humor;)
 oldskooler
Joined: 9/11/2004
Msg: 7
Re: Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 9/26/2004 10:02:47 PM
that was funny :)
 oldskooler
Joined: 9/11/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 9/28/2004 9:47:58 PM
Anyone else wants to give his opinion?
 Spirited_Wolf
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/9/2004 6:01:07 PM
im attracted to intelligent men so for me it has to be an intelligent man with me
 wolfkin77
Joined: 7/4/2004
Msg: 10
Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 11/9/2004 7:02:16 PM
this will sound really bad...but i had to comment. as long as im getting some...who cares? lol

but seriously...love either way
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 11
Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 11/13/2004 8:44:55 AM
to me sex is sex it has nothjing to do with your brains but some girls feel lower with someone very intellegent.. they feel they dont compare wich isnt a good match.. unless there non judgmental!
 Spirited_Wolf
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/14/2004 4:36:31 PM
lol at longte - such a wise man

"There is an intellectual function in us which demands unity, connection and intelligibility from any material, whether of perception or thought, that comes within its grasp; and if, as a result of special circumstances, it is unable to establish a true connection, it does not hesitate to fabricate a false one." (Sigmund Freud, on dream analysis, in Totem and Taboo)
 stepupward
Joined: 7/20/2011
Msg: 13
Re: Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 11/5/2011 3:10:44 AM
I completely agree. Intelligence of a guy means much more to me than his looking.
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 14
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Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 11/5/2011 5:41:27 AM
I think intelligence itself is irrelevant except for conversation, so that would at best mean someone "might" be a decent friend, but doesnt necessarily reflect on the sexual aspect of an interaction

The way someones mind on the other hand DOES massively impact on sexual compatibility and quality, but those people who excel in that area can be either academically gifted or as academically challenged as a rock

The same also applies to common sense, theres tons of academically minded people who lack any degree of basic common sense, some who do have lots of common sense and people who are academically challenged but overflowing with common sense and some people who lack both
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 11/5/2011 9:44:39 AM
I HAVE ALWAYS , had serious relationships with intelligent women,the few times that I did not, the sex was well... bad
so in my opinion Intellegencs equals great sex
Also intellegence really has nothing to do with education
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 16
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Posted: 11/5/2011 10:24:32 AM
intelligence and wit are very important in changing "hot chick" into a desirable woman. I like someone who is in tune with current events, one who doesn't get her opinions straight from jon stewart or rush limbaugh, but can form her own opinions independently. If a woman knows the name of the guy Kim Kardashian did the x-rated video with but can't tell me the name of the vice president of the USA then she's an airhead and not worth my time.
 cjcgirl
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 17
Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 11/5/2011 12:07:46 PM
There is nothing sexier than an intelligent, somewhat arrogant man!
 hoyos
Joined: 8/16/2011
Msg: 18
Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 11/5/2011 5:09:14 PM
Considering this thread has been in hibernation for 7 years until today it's nice to see not much has changed.
 LargoMaNonTroppo
Joined: 6/23/2011
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/5/2011 10:32:50 PM
Sure intelligence is important- but Im guessing most of the guys saying this here still are going by looks first. ;) (and half the women)

 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 20
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Posted: 11/6/2011 12:22:01 AM

Would you prefer to have intimate relationship with clever/smart person or average/dumb?


I think clever/smart is sexy. Very. Average intelligence works ok too. But dumb? Why would I want that?!?! It does take some common sense to be good in bed.
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 21
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Posted: 11/6/2011 4:42:47 AM
Dumb men bore me senseless and I am not sexually attracted to them.I enjoy good conversation and unintelligent men have little to say on anything that matters to me. Good sex also requires a good understanding of a woman's body; unintelligent men just think "in out" constitutes knowing what a woman wants. So, yes, give me an intelligent man every time.
 just8thnx
Joined: 10/29/2008
Msg: 22
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Posted: 11/6/2011 5:06:15 AM
Everyone on this site goes by looks first, job second, looks third and so on. In the final analysis is doesnt really matter what you know or how you present that intelligence, if you dont have the looks you better be bringing the cash. I know that sounds jaded, but you can say that smarts turns you on, and that may be true if you never want to meet or need a late nite sexting partner, but long term if he aint cute you arent sticking around to hear what he has to say.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 23
Intellegence vs Sex
Posted: 11/6/2011 5:30:34 AM

There is nothing sexier than an intelligent, somewhat arrogant man!


Hmmm, I know alot of women are initially tuned on by arrogance. But I find that it gets old quickly, and then is seen as nothing but obnoxiousness. JMO.
 bbwlove2012
Joined: 10/14/2011
Msg: 24
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Posted: 11/6/2011 6:52:37 PM
In order for me to consider anything beyond social conversations, you need to be smart. Not book smart even just smart, I want someone who can carry on a conversation because if we make it far enough together for sex, we need to be able to converse as well. I am not a hit and run kind of gal so I need that person to have the potential to continue with me.
 CCsMom
Joined: 4/9/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 11/6/2011 7:17:38 PM
Intelligence is sexy! I can have sex with a dumb person but it sucks. Never feels good, physically (cuz they cant pick up on cues) or emotionally (b/c you cant connect with a stupid person and there's nothing to talk about).
 SuzySeashore
Joined: 10/18/2011
Msg: 26
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Posted: 11/6/2011 8:31:52 PM
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......I'm platinum blonde and I don't consider myself stupid.
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