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 iburns75
Joined: 1/1/2009
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That is a question by itself. The doctors can remove the appendage and give breast implants. So if you picked up a Shemale that you think is a she, you get intimate, to a straight guy, what do you do when you find out? Do you punch it in the face, run away, or scream like a girl lol. I just hope that never happens to me
 Blk_Archangel7
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 152
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 2/28/2010 6:53:26 PM
HEEEEEELLLLLLLL NOOOOOO!!! I'd rather burn in hell than sleep with that, or it.
 greenbean70
Joined: 11/14/2010
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Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/17/2010 11:36:33 AM
Yea, sure I would if she was my type. I don't know why POF doesn't put transgendered in as a search parameter. Although most sites that do end up with a lot of escorts/hookers. Maybe that's why.
 OpenItAndIFillIt
Joined: 6/10/2010
Msg: 154
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Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/17/2010 12:26:39 PM
I feel sympathy for those who are born that way. They had no choice and to be treated as normal it is going to cost a lot, plus the mental anguish of having to decide to go male or female.

Those who are in the transition from one sex to the other, I do not feel anything for.

Even so, I would not sleep with one. Whether he/she has breasts, having a tool that allows them to pee int he snow is a deal breaker.

On a related note, I would not sleep with a man who got an operation so he thinks he's a woman.
 OpenItAndIFillIt
Joined: 6/10/2010
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Posted: 11/17/2010 12:30:26 PM
ABM said:

If I was mislead into believing they were a female; I'd be fairly angry. I put that on the same level as "Oh, wait, so you have kids??".

I would equate it to, "Oh, wait. You have AIDS??"
 sexyisback!
Joined: 9/14/2010
Msg: 156
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/17/2010 1:29:48 PM
a shemale is a MAN, just with different outside packaging

however it looks on the outside , it is packing a PENIS and has no vagina, what exactly would you 'do' with it? suck it off, let it suck you off, ,bang its ass or spread your own ass cheeks to be banged?

so why not just ask if you would sleep with a man, (ie. are you bi, or gay, for a male..) ?
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 11/17/2010 10:16:16 PM
If I ever found a willy hiding in a woman panties, my departure velocity would suck the feathers off the Roadrunner.
 TravelingLight
Joined: 12/3/2009
Msg: 158
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Posted: 11/18/2010 12:03:21 AM
No, since they are males, at least partially, with a penis left. Not being homosexual, I wouldn't be too inclined. If the body and face look great can I still be tempted..who knows

Not the same as a hermaphrodite, however.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 159
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/18/2010 2:15:16 AM
First off...I've never seen one fool me in person! I can always tell "something" isn't right so for one to not only fool me but for me to find them attractive would be an incredible longshot! I doubt it would ever happen...

Second, I'm not a big fan of blow jobs or anal sex so that leaves them with nothing to offer!
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 160
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/18/2010 5:06:20 AM

First off...I've never seen one fool me in person! I can always tell "something" isn't right so for one to not only fool me but for me to find them attractive would be an incredible longshot! I doubt it would ever happen...


I think it's the voice that gives them away. Most men, try as they might, cannot duplicate the female voice. I went to a drag queen show recently, and it was very entertaining, and I saw alot of talent. These men looked absolutely gorgeous. I had no idea, that a guy could look better in a sexy dress than I do. They spend alot of time achieving that look. They shave and wax from eyebrow to a$$hole, and it takes hours just to get that part done. Of course, they are also taller and bigger boned than most women, but the trick/talent that foold people is in the makeup and dress. It draws the eye away from their body size. Like an optical illusion. Don't be so sure you couldn't be fooled by boys with boobs, or chix with dix.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 161
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/18/2010 7:42:14 AM
met a girl named Yolanda she was visiting her grand parents down south from Chicago when I was in my teens ..and she seemed truly like one of the boys ..she was big framed ..athletic ... even masculine ..she hung out with guys ..she could drink most guys under the table ..we poked fun behind her back ...called her a dyke ..the way teenage boys will do ..but most of knew she could whip our ass if she desired ...well one night while drinking and giving her a ride home in my car ...stranded by a flat tire ..I found out just how much woman Yolanda was ..It was one hell of a summer ..most guys kidded me for having a dyke for a best friend..even asked me if her dvck was bigger than mine ...but after the rest of them went home or passed out Yolanda and me fvcked like minks till daylight ...she moved back to Chicago after that summer ..God how I'd like to see that girl again


I met her in a club down in old Soho
Where you drink champagne and it tastes just like cherry-cola
See-oh-el-aye cola
She walked up to me and she asked me to dance
I asked her her name and in a dark brown voice she said Lola
El-oh-el-aye Lola la-la-la-la Lola

Well I'm not the world's most physical guy
But when she squeezed me tight she nearly broke my spine
Oh my Lola la-la-la-la Lola
Well I'm not dumb but I can't understand
Why she walked like a woman and talked like a man
Oh my Lola la-la-la-la Lola la-la-la-la Lola

Well we drank champagne and danced all night
Under electric candlelight
She picked me up and sat me on her knee
And said dear boy won't you come home with me
Well I'm not the world's most passionate guy
But when I looked in her eyes well I almost fell for my Lola
La-la-la-la Lola la-la-la-la Lola
Lola la-la-la-la Lola la-la-la-la Lola
I pushed her away
I walked to the door
I fell to the floor
I got down on my knees
Then I looked at her and she at me

Well that's the way that I want it to stay
And I always want it to be that way for my Lola
La-la-la-la Lola
Girls will be boys and boys will be girls
It's a mixed up muddled up shook up world except for Lola
La-la-la-la Lola

Well I left home just a week before
And I'd never ever kissed a woman before
But Lola smiled and took me by the hand
And said dear boy I'm gonna make you a man

Well I'm not the world's most masculine man
But I know what I am and I'm glad I'm a man
And so is Lola
La-la-la-la Lola la-la-la-la Lola
Lola la-la-la-la Lola la-la-la-la Lola
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 162
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/18/2010 7:47:45 AM

If I ever found a willy hiding in a woman panties, my departure velocity would suck the feathers off the Roadrunner.





OP: I'm not bi-curious, but if I were a man I'd be floored if I expected a 'gina and there was a pecker between their legs! A person would have to be VERY OPEN-MINDED to entertain this scenario.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 163
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/18/2010 10:30:51 AM
I think it's the voice that gives them away.

However, some women don't have very girly voices either, especially as they get older. Another fairly reliable giveaway is to look at skin tecture on a person's face. Men generally have larger pores and the skin is not as smooth. I'd look for as many clues as possible, since no single feature is going to always be a giveaway.

If I ever found a willy hiding in a woman panties, my departure velocity would suck the feathers off the Roadrunner.

By that time, therapy might be required.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 164
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 11/19/2010 11:05:57 AM
I think it's the voice that gives them away. Most men, try as they might, cannot duplicate the female voice.

Yes they can... I lived out in Honolulu for a while, and some friends visited for a vacation... we went to a bar, and I didn't know there were a lot of trannies running around.

Particular Asians can pull it off very very well. Especially when they show their (fake) boobs and touch each other's in the corner of the bar. OMG! Jackpot, right? One of my more quieter friends left with both of them -- we were jealous yet happy for him. The next day he didn't have good news. They were both dudes, but he didn't find out until after they did pre-game warmups with his pee-pee while they were half naked.

I was there for a while before they left the bar, and I gotta say -- it was TOUGH. Their voices weren't strange. Now, I wasn't on ready-5 about trannies in the area, so if I were I probably would have built a little suspicion, especially if I was leaving with both of them in a brand new Jag like he did ("Okay, what's the catch??").... some of them out there, yeah, you can tell... others if you pay good attention... others? Tough.
 CheshireCatalyst
Joined: 9/14/2007
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Posted: 11/19/2010 1:33:31 PM
It's not just the voice - it's also the mannerisms.

Transsexuals spend a lot of time incoporating the movements and mannerisms of a typical Las-Vegas showgirl or pageant queen in order to be believable as women. They use the same techniques as magicians - using these mannerisms often distracts the observer from some of the characteristics that might be less believable.

Good transsexuals are often more feminine than many women, which is what often makes them so appealing to men who would never consider themselves homosexual.

Cheers
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 166
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Posted: 11/19/2010 2:58:04 PM
Good transsexuals are often more feminine than many women, which is what often makes them so appealing to men who would never consider themselves homosexual.


I saw Jahna Steele several years ago in Las Vegas when she performed in the "Crazy Girls Revue" at the Riviera on the strip. You can google her. She was the most beautiful woman in the show---highly feminine in voice, appearance and mannerisms. I absolutely couldn't tell she was a transsexual, and normally I can tell right away. I was completely shocked when she was "outed" as a transsexual and kicked out of the show a few years later.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 11/19/2010 5:25:35 PM



If I ever found a willy hiding in a woman panties, my departure velocity would suck the feathers off the Roadrunner.


a bald roadrunner - a kojack P|_|$$Y?

I had a really great BJ from a Philippine girly boy/shemale!

yeah yeah we did it all! I would do it again.
even the "ersatz vagiina" felt good

then there is the benefit of the feminine touch with the male sex drive!
 rferg101
Joined: 12/31/2008
Msg: 168
Shemales: The Other White Meat? (so would you sleep with one?)
Posted: 7/6/2012 7:12:15 PM
what goes on behind closed doors is really no ones biz...as long as it's two consenting adults ...what does it have to do with you or what you thimk about it ..the main concern should be that no one is taking advantage or hurting the other with out thier consent. I don't ride thaT WAY, MY CHOICE AND THAT WHAT IT COMES DOWN TO IS CHOICE...THAT WHAT MAKS US AMERICANS AND IN THE LAND OF THE FREE...YOU CAN DO WHAT EVER THE HECK YOU WANT..AS LONG AS IT DOSN'T EFFECT THE PERSON OR PROPERTY OF ANOTHER...RIGHT...RIGHT...i AM NOT ONE TO CONDEM ANOTHER FOR THEIR CHOICES....NOW THAT MY KEYBOARDS STUCK ON CAPS, IT LOOKS LKIKE I'M SHOUTING THIS OUT...OH WELLL
 andrewwebb25
Joined: 3/4/2012
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Posted: 7/6/2012 7:27:21 PM
ive always like shemales and dont care what anyone says ill sleep with a shemale any day of the week they are so fun and dirty just how i love it
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 170
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Posted: 7/13/2012 12:22:23 PM

If you find someone both physically and mentally attractive then whats the problem?


That's what I believe!

If I'm attracted, I'm attracted

Whatever, it's all good
 Bondageguy420
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 171
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Posted: 12/28/2012 10:38:21 AM
Would so go down on a shemale. Excited just thinking about it
 paulajenel
Joined: 1/21/2009
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Posted: 12/28/2012 6:14:36 PM
Are you talking about Transsexual Women or Shemales because there is a difference. A transsexual woman is a woman born with a congenial birth condition. All mammal fetuses start out female and a hormone wash during the first few weeks of gestation set the gender identity (brain) and a second one sets the physical sex (body). If these washes do not happen as they should you can have a non masculine brain in a male body or a masculine brain in a female body which results in gender dysphoria, commonly known as transsexualism. There are also inter-sexed conditions such as Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome which results in am XY individual that is born female body. The only way anyone will ever know is if this person goes in and is tested which often happen because she can not become pregnant. There are also people born XXY, XYY, XXX and over 75 other combinations.

A Shemale is a creation of the porn industry that caters to a very specific fetish of miss matched body parts. The feminine looks is the result of surgery. Some may take a very low dose of estrogen but not likely as the therapeutic levels a transsexual woman needs to takes. Estrogen along with androgen blockers will render a transsexual woman impotent and with in months dramatically shrink male genitals along with a dramatic decrease in sex drive. While a shemale falls under the transgender umbrella very few are actually transsexual. Most are actually gay male performers that have feminized their bodies for the adult industry.

So to answer your question as a bi woman yes I would date a transsexual woman, pre or post op because she is a woman. I doubt I would a shemale as it is not likely that person would be attracted to me.

Through advocacy work I do you should know that the term shemale when used to describe a transsexual woman is very derogatory, on par with using the N word to describe a black person.
 kjay41
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 173
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Posted: 12/28/2012 8:57:01 PM
I met this girl that looked like a guy and realized after a few minutes that it was a woman; I was attracted to 'him' but after finding out it was a woman, I felt disappointed and a little pissed because I felt 'she' shouldn't have called herself a male name and not tell me, even though we only chatted for a few minutes at a holiday function; in short, I was not happy.
 paulajenel
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Posted: 12/29/2012 11:10:58 AM
I met this girl that looked like a guy and realized after a few minutes that it was a woman; I was attracted to 'him' but after finding out it was a woman, I felt disappointed and a little pissed because I felt 'she' shouldn't have called herself a male name and not tell me, even though we only chatted for a few minutes at a holiday function; in short, I was not happy.



Is it this persons fault you mis-gendered them? As for names you use Kjay here. I assume not your real name but I associate the name Jay with a male name but your picture is obviously female. I've gendered you female but unless I take responsibility to ask you I have no way to be 100% sure.

Not trying to start shit but unless we all take responsibility it is our own fault. This person was under no obligation to tell you anything just as you aren't.
 christop37
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 175
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Posted: 12/29/2012 2:03:21 PM
I am bisexual, so the answer is yes, I would. I would enjoy it too.
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