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 sugarstwisted9
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 106
Starting to get turned off with shaved womenPage 5 of 23    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23)
I can't speak for every woman but personally I do not *shave to impress* any man. It has just become habit, like the legs. After a while if you don't shave it itches like a bit*h,
and if your starting to get turned off by it, find yourself some hairy woman.....
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 107
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 8/12/2008 12:07:50 PM

Wow-again I want to point out...why do men feel the need or right to voice an opinion on a woman's pubic area?

It blows my mind!


With all due respect GoneSailinBabe, if I am sticking my fingers/tongue/penis in a woman's pubic area I have a right to an opinion on its condition. I have no say on it. Just a right to an opinion and preference.

My preference is personally for a closely trimmed nether region, but I have been known to enjoy all kinds. After the initial unveiling and "entry" it all becomes a blur often anyway.

I don't know why anyone can't express a preference here, or for that matter there own theories, whether right or wrong. Indeed this is a forum. "Can't we all just get along?"

Sorry it blows your mind. We would hope that other bodily parts are being "blown".
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 108
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 8/13/2008 3:00:02 PM
As Steve Martin said:

"I decided to give my cat a bath the other day. It was going well, but I ended up with a lot of fur on my tongue".

Not directly related, but I thought it was funny.
 bandsman1
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 109
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 8/31/2008 4:36:08 AM
I also wish women would not shave down below it shows they are a proper natural female I just love rubbing my hand through pubic hair-so please lets have some natural women instead of these barbie doll yuk!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 110
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Posted: 8/31/2008 7:56:35 AM
shaved is a real turn off,trimmed is in
it just looks like a very very young girl, i am happy this fad or rather fetish is on the way out
 Gaelyn
Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 111
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 8/31/2008 8:42:26 AM
Wow dude, you like scratching her's, she likes scratching yours. sounds like a purrfect match, so why do you give a sh*t how the other half lives and what are you doing on a dating website if you have this oh so hairy wonderful woman?
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 112
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 8/31/2008 1:55:21 PM
i myself like it bare...no hairs to be pickin out while your busy
 TxSippiGal
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 113
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 8/31/2008 3:48:10 PM
When I went through cancer 12 years ago I lost all hair all over my body.. I didn't like not having my bush because my underwear rubbed against me and it bothered me.. I found that I would get creamy all the time.. which in itself isn't bad but.. I just didn't like it. Then it would itch because it was so wet down there.. heat spots I guess.

So now my hair has grown back.. not as thick as it used to be.. but it is back now and I like it.

I have tried to shave before but find it chaffs and I get ingrown hairs by the bazillion and it itches...even when I try to keep it trim..
 superbadzzz
Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 114
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 9/1/2008 6:09:59 PM
how about a compromise? maybe a smiley-face merkin.
 the_write_stuff
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 116
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/2/2008 6:36:08 AM
I have never found it attractive or appealing if a woman is completely shaved "down there." In fact it's a downright turn off. I don't particularly look forward to finding an unkempt or unsightly jungle growth upon discovering the promised land but I'd prefer hair to no hair by far. Ideally, for me, the woman would have and maintain a neatly trimmed "landing strip." Contrary to popular belief bald is not beautiful. At least not to all men!!!
 the_write_stuff
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 117
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/2/2008 7:40:59 AM
Amen, SusieQ. I agree one-thousand percent. It's not an attractive sight at all.
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 10/2/2008 12:25:07 PM
Fad? It actually INCREASED our sensations-I know, everyone's different, but, go with what you desire-if you think it's a fad, then avoid or at least bring it up (although I don't know how you'd bring that one up casually...-HA!)
 the_write_stuff
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 119
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/2/2008 5:54:10 PM
It's hardly ridiculous if that is how a person feels about it. Way to minimalize someone's opinion. Perception is reality and my perception is a very uncomfortable feeling when seeing a completely bald ****. Not to mention I find them visually gross.
 Herb1953
Joined: 10/13/2005
Msg: 120
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Posted: 10/2/2008 7:55:39 PM
Hey how about a little life-rune over the pubic bone and silky smooth below?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 121
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/2/2008 10:14:17 PM
Join the Army. Be all you can be! You're gonna love Iraqi women.
 willlickyou
Joined: 9/28/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 10/2/2008 11:27:07 PM
I have never liked the shaved look.I think natural is the best.I mean if a forrest strats to grow then trim it a little of coarse.But it is so much sexier to see a Woamn as God intended.He knew what he was doing.Women have beautiful bodies.I love to lick a **** all night long.The shaved look is too much like they're too young.I want a woman not a little girl.I don't care for the landing strip or other unnatural looking grooming there either.Hell what about a flying v or some of the other attempts at shaving.Also when it's starting to grow back in it poked your face and crotch.Don't care for it at all.Give me the natural triangle of hair.It's way hotter.
 the_write_stuff
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 123
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/3/2008 2:38:42 AM
You can (happily) call me Captain Caveman because I'm not going down on a totally bare muffin. What's wrong with a neatly-trimmed landing strip? If women can't understand some men are completely turned off by bald p u s s y then tough s h i t I guess.
 SuzukiSamurai
Joined: 9/23/2008
Msg: 124
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/3/2008 7:17:04 PM
You don't think Iraqi women shave down there??
Seriously, I can go either way; landing strip/buckwheat or bare. Personally, I prefer bare. Likening a shaved kitty to a child is just RETARDED. But, fellows, the ladies have something to this shaving thing. I keep myself neatly trimmed & I do the jewels & under my arms. Yeah, I know what your thinking 'cough"freak"cough.' But there is a method to this madness. Not only does your business "appear" bigger, but personally speaking, I find that without the hair down there and under the arms, there is little to NO body odor in those areas. Now who in the H#ll wouldn't want that? I hate smelling tuna when I'm down there with a lady. Clean and fresh is the only way to go. I keep it that way because the ladies like it. No-one wants to have to use industrial dental floss to get stanka$$ pubes out of their teeth. Besides, the ball$ac and under the arms are loaded with nerve endings. Much more pleasureable when there is no hair there. SO LIGHTEN UP Y'ALL!
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 125
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/4/2008 7:17:51 AM
This topic was actually on a show recently called "the Ex List". The 20 something woman decided to shave all her hair and her bf wouldn't have sex with her. Then she went out and got a toupee but attached it the wrong way and couldn't remove it. He explained it that he was brought up in the age when Playboy had women that were fairly natural and neatly trimmed and he couldn't get turned on by her being bald.

It's funny to me how some people think it's cleaner if you are bald. I guess for thousands of years everyone was just a bunch of filthy primates who don't know how to bathe and never should of had sex. The whole bald phenomenon is pretty recent and there's nothing dirty about having a little something something down there.
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
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Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/4/2008 11:06:32 AM
Yea, who wants to say,"Excuse me,sweetie, I have a hair in my mouth..."-what a mood killer!! To each their own...wouldn't stop me, though!!
 Arianda
Joined: 9/22/2008
Msg: 127
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Posted: 10/4/2008 11:52:51 PM
Alright, so I don't know if this was said at all I got bored after the first few pages, but I wanted to make a quick point.

With all the men and women out there saying its "cleaner" to shave, they're not actually correct in this one. The hair is there to help keep the area clean and free from germs, not to annoy(although we all know that it sure is annoying). Sure it may look cleaner because you can see everything and people associate hair with dirty, ex underarm hair and leg hair, but this is incorrect. And also I did catch someone saying that the people who like hair need to get with the '90's and that they are hiding something... seriously wtf? *shakes head* Thats all I can say about that.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 129
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:20:27 AM
IMHO, I think some women shouldn't shave completely. (Here comes the can of worms ) I used to work in the adult entertainment industry. I've seen what other vaginas look like besides my own, (which is perfect if I do say so myself ) , and lets just say, all are not pretty to look at naked and all out there, so to speak. Even in the sex industry, some of them should have something to cover their ladybits. I mean I've seen more deli meat that posed as vaginas than I care to remember. And this my friends is why I am straight as an arrow. I don't know how some men do it. Okay, let the flaming begin.
 the_write_stuff
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 130
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:51:23 AM
Here is one man who says shaved p u s s i e s look child-like AND are ugly to look at. I said that before. Both reasons make a completely shaven one totally off-limits to me.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 131
Starting to get turned off with shaved women
Posted: 10/5/2008 9:54:38 AM

OMTWF...I laughed so hard internally that I think I heard nerve endings snap rofl. I just kept gettin' this image of a twa.t rug and lost my farkin' mind...


Here you go. I present to you, the Merkin. This is the scene after the girl attaches it wrong, then tried to get her friend to remove it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9IGYqAi794
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 10/5/2008 10:51:24 AM
wow..I started this thread on a whim a long time ago.........who woulda thunk it would still be going.

If anything, it solidifies my position that women need to know that not all of us guys are influenced by the "in thing' we all see on the internet/porn sites etc. I know I know, not one woman here will admit to shaving because their peers do, but that is nonsense........we all know through common sense that a lot of women watch porno stuff now and see the so-called porno stars shaving and think they too must do that to please us guys...........Wrong!

Women underestimate most of us guys and that pisses me off sometimes..........we really aren't as shallow as some of you think..........pubic hair doesn't bother me in the least and in a lot of ways gets me aroused much more........but that's just me......

Do I get paid cash for this thread?....hahaha (just kidding mods!)

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