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 scottey63
Joined: 3/8/2008
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Never mind why. Where are these babes?!?
 Minau
Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 730
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/3/2010 6:55:56 PM
As per my previous example with the hot girl and not so hot nor nice guy...it wasn't money...when we were out...he was the one that initiated getting shots...and then he left her with the bill...not until later for the second round she had to push him to pick up the tab...and you can see in her face she was a little frustrated...and why do not so attractive guys who were fortunate to land a hot babe...then think they can get any hot girl...evidently he started eyeing the attractive girl beside them while dancing with the gf...really really...just so disrespectful, ***hole move and no the other girl was not the least bit interested...he just really wasn't an attractive guy...he was below average but his personality probably amplified my negative opinion of him...she could have gotten a much better guy...not to mention much hotter..easy! Actually I find hot guys are better...they're secure and more confident with themselves...don't need the attention of women to fill their ego...they've had it all their life...it's no biggie and hence don't need it nor crave it. On another note...when guys eye another girl and are being very obvious about it when they're with their gf/wife...it shows poor character and a huge turn off and pretty much zero chance...why would I bother with a guy like that! Really?!?! I hope other women don't entertain these men...don't encourage them or maybe some attention needy women do..hence these men's bold behaviors...it's just embarrassing behavior.
 hereindixie
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 731
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/4/2010 6:12:44 AM
ugly is in the eye of the beholder. boy aren't we glad. i do look at looks we would be lying to say any less, buy for me if your not funny and sexy forget it. thats what it will that to set me on .
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 732
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Posted: 11/4/2010 6:50:57 AM
After thinking about this question some more, I have decided that it's all about the great sex.

Mystery solved.
 hereindixie
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 733
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Posted: 11/4/2010 7:18:42 AM
icon how could i have ever lelf that out. add that to my last post please!!!!!!!!!!!
 1eastshore
Joined: 11/3/2010
Msg: 734
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/7/2010 3:37:59 PM

I wouldn't date a man that I consider to be physically unattractive. Regardless of money, personality or any other traits.


Exactly.
 jezebellpgh
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 735
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/8/2010 10:02:05 PM
Specific:

Heidi Klum is loaded financially, she doesn't need Seal to make it. She could date a much more better looking guy and she hasn't there is a reason and its way more than the sex.
 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 736
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 6:04:34 AM

It's funny how you keep stating that celebrities don't count, yet for the second or third time uses Donald Trump as an example.


rush...

I have seen your posts, your not dumb. Your pretty smart. Do you HONESTLY beleive that if Donald Trump was a manager at 7-11 making 20 grand a year he would be landing supermodels?

Part of why women are attracted to Donald Trump is the power factor. Im not gay, nor could I judge a good looking guy or not. I can (for example) put Tom Cruise next to Donald Trump and figure out which one women would go for looks wise.


Heidi Klum is loaded financially, she doesn't need Seal to make it. She could date a much more better looking guy and she hasn't there is a reason and its way more than the sex


Wow, do you know her? How do you know its not the sex? How do you know she doesnt need him to make it?...Hell, for all we know Seal could have a third leg hanging down there...
 1eastshore
Joined: 11/3/2010
Msg: 737
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 7:05:55 AM
Heidi Klum is loaded financially, she doesn't need Seal to make it. She could date a much more better looking guy and she hasn't there is a reason and its way more than the sex.


Money may not be the only reason why she is dating him. But it could be a factor. Some people who are well off financially will not consider someone who has a significantly lower income or is from a lower social status. I personally know some women who are like this. They are doctors, lawyers, businesswomen etc who make more than 100K/yr. They told me that they woud not date any man that makes less than 100K/yr or doesn't have some type of social power / prestige.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 738
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 7:33:37 AM
Donald T. is not even a bad looking guy, and he seems to have a good personality. I saw him in The Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air once, so I know he has a sense of humor.

He may not be able to land supermodels if he was just an average Joe, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't be able to land physically attractive women.

Donald T. isn't remotely ugly, but that is just my opinion.
 Ineedyounow35
Joined: 9/20/2010
Msg: 739
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 7:36:06 AM
"Wow, do you know her? How do you know its not the sex? How do you know she doesnt need him to make it?...Hell, for all we know Seal could have a third leg hanging down there..."

According to her he does .... Per what one of my talk show junky neighbors stated after seeing an interview with her and talking about Seal. I asked my neighbor why Heidi would go after Seal and she said Heidi stated herself, because he has a large you know... Anyways I have lots of other useless info and advice for threads such as this one. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some women state the Rolling Stones are attractive afterall....
 sweetlikesugarcane
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 740
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 4:03:54 PM
I have not read the other responses but I remember when I was a child hearing my aunt and mom talking about men. They stated that ugly men are good to have because they treat women very well. It was an observation that they made and they named a few people who experience those types of relationships. (Ugly guys also cannot help that they are ugly so it isn't fair to hold their looks against them if their personality and body are okay.

If you are uglier than your girlfriend you are more likely) to put up with any fault that she has whether physical or other. She knows that you have to do things to keep her and she takes advantage of that. This may sound bad but it is a fact of life. Like older men and younger women.

Look at all the gorgeous female celebrities who have been cheated on or abused by other attractive men. I don't want to be offensive and mention any couple by name but why else do you think there are so many mismatched pairs?

Unfortunately, ugly men are less likely to satisfy their women in bed (google for references) so the girl has to take a trade-off....
 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 741
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/9/2010 8:04:32 PM

If you are uglier than your girlfriend you are more likely) to put up with any fault that she has whether physical or other. She knows that you have to do things to keep her and she takes advantage of that. This may sound bad but it is a fact of life. Like older men and younger women.


Does this apply to fat chicks?...ugly men?...fat chicks?...same thing?
 jezebellpgh
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 742
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/10/2010 4:45:35 PM
Sweet:

Hmmm I agree with the first half of your response. My 1st ex-bf was good looking (6'3", 200 lbs) and he had plenty of sex partners before me, he was my 1st and even as a virgin I knew he stunk in bed. Get a guy who doesn't watch porn regularly.
 sweetlikesugarcane
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 743
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/10/2010 4:46:11 PM
Ugly men is what the article was about.

And obese women (which you call "fat chicks") is the complete opposite situation. Did you mean obese men?
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 744
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Posted: 11/11/2010 3:00:59 PM

Why do Babes dig ugly guys?


Probably because they have bigger and better...

Game than you do....
 ginamontecino
Joined: 9/26/2010
Msg: 745
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Posted: 11/12/2010 8:59:37 AM
Haven't you seen Beauty and the Beast. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Personally, I love a man with personality. A man who has fast wit and can think on his feet. A man who laughs and makes me laugh with him. Fun loving men can be unattractive too.
 lostintheshufle
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 746
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/21/2010 7:48:25 PM
Great looking guys = jerks. Ugly guys tend to not be jerks. Great looking guys put less effort into a relationship, because they know they can get anyone easy.

Maybe its because the ugly guys put the focus on the girl. I've been an ugly guy and dated plenty of models, strippers and actresses. I've been the normalcy in their life.
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 747
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/30/2010 8:02:55 AM
"Has anybody seen how Seal treats Heidi Klum while being interviewed? He is totally into her and treats her like a respected princess, why wouldn't she want him?"


yeah but he really LOOKS like a seal.
i don't consider Klum all that good looking.


great looking women desire ATTENTION more than any other thing, even being with a plain guy. but most gorgeous women are really insecure and when they get old and lose their looks and body they sometimes become bitter.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 748
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/30/2010 1:02:04 PM
Haven't you seen Beauty and the Beast. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

That's a feel good movie for people who are ugly. :) Okay, it's a sweet concept we all like, but no, nobody wants an ugly person.

And no, beauty is not entirely subjective (purely in the eyes of the beholder). Nobody should believe that feel-good comment. Ever. The eyes of the beholder tip the scales here and there somewhat, and despite some people having oddball fetishes here and there, the subject matter is the masses, the trends, the predictability --> people are very much on the same page in beauty when it comes to "ugly" and "prety". Otherwise, you'd see random people being the suitcase models in Deal or No Deal.

Great looking guys = jerks.

Not at all correct. Not any more than babes = b!tches. Both are incorrect.

Ugly guys tend to not be jerks.

Again, another wide-open stereotype.

Great looking guys put less effort into a relationship, because they know they can get anyone easy.

Okay, closer to the truth -- because they don't have to. Same with Babes, though. Why would the Babe go for an ugly kid if it takes little effort to get a great guy? Or the best looking guy who's not a d!ck (whether the d!cks are good or bad looking)?

Bottom line:
Babes don't statistically dig ugly guys. Women are into looks just as much as men. When it comes to settling down, one can say other factors play into it more, most notably women who want to be provided for in the long run and are currently looking to settle down... but they won't go for the ugly ones -- said types may take an Avg Joe with a good personality (doesn't have to be grand), who has a fat wallet over a better looking guy who makes middle-class money.

People tend to misinterpret trends. They see a cutie hanging with an ugly guy -- that doesn't mean they're going out. They see an older (middle aged) couple where the gal is much better looking than the guy, it doesn't mean it started that way... and if the guy has a ton o' money, that answers that right there anyway (but rich people don't affect trends amongst all people).

Good looks gets you more dates, more chances at success. It's the cold hard truth. Don't blame me, I'm just a messenger of the obvious. :) Just learn to live with the fact that an Avg Joe will have a very tough time landing an emotionally-stable, fruitful Babe for a sustainable amount of time. He will just need a lot of at bats, and to improve himself to the point where he's not an Avg Joe in particular look-categories that some Babes will hone into.
 DTFan88
Joined: 6/8/2010
Msg: 749
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/30/2010 1:31:59 PM

great looking women desire ATTENTION more than any other thing, even being with a plain guy. but most gorgeous women are really insecure and when they get old and lose their looks and body they sometimes become bitter.


I read something really interesting on the nice guy website. It mentioned that older women don't really choose the nice, stable guy to marry as their first choice when they are done dating the bad boys in their youth. Because they are older and have a tough time competing with the younger females then they "settle" for the nice guy. If given a choice they would still go for the bad boy to marry if he is available.
 FunkTheMillenium
Joined: 7/11/2010
Msg: 750
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Posted: 11/30/2010 3:13:13 PM
^^^^ no argument there.
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 751
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Posted: 11/30/2010 9:53:03 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^i agree wholeheartedly.
 GOLDBERGG
Joined: 4/27/2010
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Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 11/30/2010 11:35:40 PM
ok here is my 2 cents......


i dont conceder myself sexy nor do i conceder my self ugly......looks are like wrapping paper they change but the real gift is whats inside a person and how they treat others..i have worked in a bar as a bouncer for 13 years and i have seen guys who think they are hot sh5T try to pick up this hot woman only to be shut down and the go talk to a guy like me...i mean im 6'6 325lbs.im not what ya call a small guy eather....
 DTFan88
Joined: 6/8/2010
Msg: 753
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Posted: 12/1/2010 8:28:35 AM
^^I'm trying to get the 6-pack look. I think it looks good as long as shoulders,arms, and chest have some muscle on them (basically the V-shaped athletic look). It is hard to develop the 6 pack abs though (I can't seem to completely quit drinking sugary soft drinks which doesn't help).
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