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 jeffreyucf
Joined: 3/26/2008
Msg: 16
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If it was an attractive person of the opposite sex than that would be a compliment.

An Un-attractive person of the opposite sex or anyone of the same sex would make my skin crawl.

I wouldn't want to know either way.
 grapevine
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 17
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 7/23/2008 3:00:33 PM
Well, it all depends. Let's set the scene here. Are there candles, a shrine, and my pictures involved, along with "C-I-L-L Grapevine -- DEF" cut out from the pages of a magazine, in various fonts, plastered all over his bathroom mirror while he's performing his Satanic "sexual ritual?"

Now, that might make me a tad uncomfortable.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 18
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 7/23/2008 4:14:03 PM
If you feel violated, it's your problem. Unless you want to be a puppet controlled by how everyone ``makes'' you feel, get over it. Nobody can make you feel anything unless you allow yourself to feel that way.
 parry10
Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/23/2008 7:33:44 PM
hmmmmmm.....I need to apologize too:

Judy on "Lost in Space"
Mary-Anne on "Gilligans Island"

Lori Partridge
Marcia Brady

Fast Forward 20 years -----------> J Lo, Madonna, Monica Lewinsky....(lol), Dr. Laura's nude photos......hahaha


 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 20
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 7/24/2008 5:17:13 AM
Geeks/nerds/shy people have nothing to do with what I am referring to


well my compliments ...blue eyed fun ...you are then an refreshing exception to the majority..but you like me are human and i believe no one can have enough lessons in humility ...humility is the easiest thing to forget there is ...but again i was not talking to just you ...i was talking to everyone ...myself included

i get in deep in these forums ...and many times I give an outlook /advice.... and some situation later arises...and it comes rushing back and I have to drop my head and take my own advice
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 21
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 7/24/2008 7:29:11 AM
Wow, I am SOOOO glad so many of the women here said it wouldn't bother them .. because I'm probably gonna masterbate later to each and every one of your pictures! ....




.................
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 22
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Posted: 7/24/2008 7:38:16 AM

Go for it Baldy, you sick puppy :) Drool lots, growl and bark. Grrrrrrrr


Woof???????????????
 One Fish...
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 23
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 7/24/2008 9:01:20 AM
I would feel violated, absolutely.

No one masturbates to me for free!!!
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/24/2008 9:55:54 AM
I'd probably think a woman was crazy for masterbating over me.I won't be offend though.I have masterbated a lot over different women.I would never let them know though.
 Droleci
Joined: 4/21/2004
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/24/2008 10:37:12 AM
I get excited by the concept that I would invoke such a feeling within someone.

My next impulse would be to ask them if they'd like the real thing ;)
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/24/2008 10:53:43 AM
Are you kidding? I can only HOPE that someone would think of me while doing that. I'd be hella flattered.
 WindSongLover
Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 27
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 7/24/2008 12:05:11 PM
It's probably safe to say that most people have masturbated to someone they know that they are attracted too and that excites them.One thing about masturbation is that it is a fantasy , so if someone pleases themselves to you it's their fantasy of who they think you are at that moment which is harmless.

I think it is a compliment to know that someone finds you that attractive . So the only time I would feel violated was if it was a stalker or a sicko, but for most regular decent people I come in contact with that find me desirable it is definitely a turn on and a compliment.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/24/2008 8:24:32 PM
some things you just shouldn't know!!!!
 9inchesforu
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 11/6/2008 3:54:17 AM
Huge compliment and if they're willing maybe she'll let me give her a hand...or tongue ;)
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 11/6/2008 8:04:17 AM
I think it's hot when someone tells me they have masturbated when thinking of me. It happens all the time
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 11/6/2008 5:05:52 PM
OMG It appears there is one girl here on POF that could feel violated. I certainly hope not as it was out of my control, initially, I was asleep, and you told me to anyway. You well know who you is I guess I would feel a bit violated if I found out some pedifile was doing it
 harley good/badboy
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 34
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 11/6/2008 5:53:26 PM
only if the person masturbating over me was a female would i not feel violated
 spitfire6844
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 11/6/2008 6:01:56 PM
Don't mind, as long as it's women using their vibrators while they think of me. I've had women (that I was not dating) tell me that they've done that before. If it's someone who's not a woman, then I don't want to know about it.
 andreu_b
Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 11/6/2008 6:02:19 PM

an attached picture of him jerking off on my picture. But he managed to overshadow that creepy act by sending me a picture of him with a carrot up his ass and weights hanging off his sack


Umm, wow. That would definetly fall under the creepy I am filing a restraining order type of relationship I think.

 luv2lol
Joined: 2/18/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 11/6/2008 7:15:08 PM
Not sure I would feel "violated" but if it was someone I was grossed out by it might make my skin crawl.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 11/7/2008 5:54:30 AM
Masturbate to my pics.......call out my name.....
Hell.....what do I care? I'm not there!
and it doesn't matter to me one bit if it's male or female....have at it!
As others have said.....would give me a little boost knowing someone finds me so sexually attractive.
 CherylCake
Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 40
Would You Feel Violated If
Posted: 11/7/2008 6:56:27 AM
I thought the fave list was just a big wank bank anyway. Is there a surprise here?
If you're hot...
creepy or not,
every guy wants his shot!

I know that guys do that thing to my pix. Makes em happy. Look at how many try to get you over to your email, or a live performance on the webcam.
My puzzlement has always been, why don't they just get a video or a magazine? What's so much hotter about getting a "real womans" picture?
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