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Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 48
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I'm so sorry it turned out that way. I think deep down you knew something wasn't right, or you would have never posted the question. We got to learn to listen to our intuition.
Good Luck, trust me.. he didnt 'deserve you anyway!
Joined: 4/1/2008
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/16/2008 4:55:21 AM

Op, I think your missing the point here, he didnt find you sexually attractive, pure and simple.

If he didn't then why did he try to have sex with me last week & I turned him down?
Joined: 4/1/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 8/16/2008 11:17:10 PM

He was not an ***hole in the beginning. No wonder you were confused.

Or so I thought..he was cheating on me the ENTIRE time with his ex. Oh
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 8/17/2008 2:19:11 AM
Well (no offense Whack) for once I have to agree with Whack. Although I don't think that it has to be bitter and jealous women only who can figure this out.

Sorry OP, but you weren't "the woman" as Whack said, you were the "other" woman. Be glad that you found out sooner then later and that you didn't sleep with him. He obviously wasn't the right guy so look at it as a learning experience and move on.

I still think that it's good to meet a guy that doesn't push intimacy immediately, and that there are those who do this because they are gentleman and not just using you. The only way to know is trial and error. Don't get bitter tho, that makes for an unhappy life. Good luck.
Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 8/18/2008 10:49:22 AM
If he was a "typical guy" he would have been banging you from the beginning, but for what it's worth, seemed to like you and spent time with you that wasn't sexual?

I mean his EX was providing the sex so he was seeing you for something other then sex...right?

Sorry he was two timing you though because I know you were hopeful.
Joined: 7/5/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 8/20/2008 2:19:11 PM
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 54
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Posted: 8/20/2008 2:43:35 PM
its all said in the KISS.
if there is no fireworks, no passion, no excitement. -you will be disappointed with your relationship. -if he hasn't even kissed you by this time, you should make the move. -just go for it and see what happans. -if he doesn't get your engines revvvvved up. move on.
he may be comfortable, reliable, practical and always there to get you where you want to go. -however the same can be said about a mini van... -and who wants to be stuck with one of them all the time
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