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 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 24
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women don't usually spread their legs to let you know they want sex. (however i have had some naughty propositions and breast flashing).
women love sex as much as men -sometimes i think they love it more. however they want to be the one to give the green light -(not be forced or suckered into it) whether its due to shyness or the feminine gender roll of being with someone they love/trust, they dont come right out and say "give it too me now!", women will give out signals they are in the mood to get busy. -if you don't pick up on the signs -you should stop watching pornos and grab a cosmo or two to learn more about the female psyche stuff. -women really aren't to hard to figure out... (what am i saying) -yes they are...
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 25
Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 7/31/2008 1:34:32 PM

you should stop watching pornos and grab a cosmo


you read cosmo ...and admit it ...blasphemy ,,hope you dont leave them laying around your house ...the only reason to read cosmo is espionage and take it to your grave
 kickingfate
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/31/2008 2:06:50 PM
quoting Rhiannah;
LOL usually it takes 5 minutes for the guy to pick his mouth off the ground and wipe the drool off his face when you try to put a move on them from a porn scene.


Why do I get the sudden Urge to go for a drive To Michigan.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/2/2008 4:39:58 PM
I've only had it happen to me once, that I can think of right now. A girl I had been talking to asked me for my phone number. I write it down and hand it to her. She reaches in her purse, pulls out her birth control pills, and stuffs my number in the pill holder,



I asked an ex one time why she was never the aggressor; and she said it was because I never gave her time. So the next day, she walks in the house, closes the door, says hello...and I jumped up and grabbed her...I mean seriously, how long did she expect me to wait?
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 8/2/2008 5:37:48 PM

When she asks to come over and visit.......is already warm and moist from her thoughts while driving over, takes your hand and guides you up to the bedroom without saying a word......


Um.. sometimes I don't make it to the bedroom... What??? The floor is right there... the couch a little further over.. the bedroom is all the way up the stairs... and lots of chances on the way up!!!
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 29
Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/2/2008 5:40:57 PM
If a young woman walks up and asks, "If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?" does that count?
 bigsexyteddybear
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 8/2/2008 5:48:14 PM
Yes, when I was working as a porn star these types of things happened to me all the time. It was almost like it was all scripted out...

No honestly, I once had a lady call me up told me it was very inportant we meet she needed to talk to me she had a bad day. Met her for a drink then we ended up back at my place. She goes in to use the bathroom and comes back out stark naked and just says F me. I don't think I will ever forget that, I was in pure shock.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 8/2/2008 10:16:18 PM
Just remembered another one. She picked me up at the airport wearing a full length mink, and high healed boots. I didn't get a look under the coat until we got home; and there wasn't anything but a teddy.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/2/2008 10:20:20 PM
Oooo.. I did that.. only it wasn't a mink.. and they weren't high heeled boots.. long down filled winter coat, warm flat-soled winter boots.. and nothing.. not a single thing beyond maybe some perfume and jewellery.. and I walked into his place of employment bold as brass and found him, stupid grin on my face the whole time.. and we walked out together... I think I unzipped in the elevator of my apartment building and gave him a preview...
 grapevine
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 33
Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 5:51:14 AM
Oh, yeah, OP; happens all the time.



Oh, thought you meant does that or a similar scenario happen in real life.

Prolly not.

But I would hope not many women make OVERT sexual moves like that. I am usually the initiator; but not overtly. First I don't need to. And second, just walk up to some guy you are not in a relationship with and squeeze his crotch? Yeah, right!
 kc0301
Joined: 4/24/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2008 7:44:54 AM
Women want sex as much if not more than men. I like agressive women, I dont date wishy washy women, I want one who knows what she wants.Grrrrrrr.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:17:54 AM
no 1 bby, that's just mean! I'll bet you had to chisel the grin off of his face; or maybe just sit on it and wear it off.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:24:48 AM
Windloverr, you know.. I don't remember his reaction at all. Might have been like everything else I tried to do to keep things hot. He was pretty non-reactionary most of the time.. *sigh*... I much prefer a man that responds...
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2008 2:50:57 PM
bby, if he didn't respond to that, check for a pulse. If he has a pulse; you have my official permission to immediately revoke his man card. What you did is the kind of thing guys fantasizie about, that never happen. If he didn't react, just shoot him.
 Blonde_charm
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:20:17 PM
I make my desires known. But after knowing there was interest from the other side (and no, not some guy asking for it lol). I have been turned down (based on their relationship status) but 99% of the time works like a charm.

Being shy is reserved for people who don't need sex.
 dell1st
Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:26:03 PM
I recall a bus ride, quite sometime back, and not only did the woman make the first play, but things got so hot we decide to get a hotel room together.


I guess it depends in what position you place yourself in that would allow for a woman to come on to you.

quite natually if your walking down a "hoe-stroll" you may get you more overt action than you can handle.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:37:37 PM
RE: First post.

Tell me you're kidding... really? REALLY man? Hahahahaha.


P.S. You didn't use the search word "sister" to find that... did you?
 3b83
Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 9/5/2008 11:09:25 PM
We like it as much as you guys do. So we do things like bending over in your face or sliding our nice soft hineys across your lap when standing in a tight space. Ive evengone so far as to let my ex " accidently" see me lathering up my naughty bits in the shower. He really liked that. I acted as if i didnt see him looking and made sure to spend a little extra time on them too. So I would have to say yeah we try to ambush you all sometimes. But all is fair in love and war
 poob schnicken
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 9/6/2008 4:05:20 PM
..................[title here] is realy great as long as i havent been ignored for so long that I go to bed and fall asleep instead.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 43
Women making overt moves to initiate sex
Posted: 9/6/2008 4:22:50 PM

I tend to prefer clips that have a little more setup as to how and why the woman chose to allow the man to have sex with her. Maybe get some tips, y know? :P


To "allow" the man to have sex with her? I think you're coming at this very much from the wrong angle. Would you really want to be with someone who was "allowing" you to be with her, as opposed to someone actively interested? I realize this isn't the point of what you posted, but that immediately caught my eye.

I don't make overt moves when I'm not in a relationship. I take it much more slowly the first time and like to let things happen a bit more organically, rather than actively controlling the situation. I'm sure there are women who feel differently, and I'm sure I know a few.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 12/15/2008 7:54:31 PM
Overt might be too tame a word for me when I want some!
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