Um, has anyone actually read what I have posted about concerning his marrriges? Let me try this one last time,
HE DOES NOT EVEN SUGGEST IT WAS ALL HIS EX'S FAULT(S). HE HAS OPENLY SAID IT WAS A HEALTHY COMBINATION OF THE TWO OF THEM AND THEY JUST COULDN'T MAKE IT RIGHT.
I read all your posts thoroughly... and it sounds like you're supporting his excuses.
A cheating spouse should be shown the door immediately. If they cheat once, they are capable of doing it again. And to remarry with **another** cheater and not recognize the signs? That tells me this guy behaves like a lost puppy with women - they can do no wrong in his eyes until it's damaging.
As far as our relationship goes, nothing has been decided for sure, but his daughter is throwing a fit, all of a sudden, with no warning. As soon as her dad grounded her for something she did that was against the rules, now she has a problem with me and him being together, and he and I agreed from the begininng that if it ever became a problem with his kids and us then I would leave....
And if he asks you to depart over this, he's the loser others have claimed he is. This is manipulation on the daughter's part, and once again, an excuse on his part. If he doesn't have sufficient parental control over his children to avoid this situation, then that just reinforces the lost puppy mentality - this time with his daughter.