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 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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For me.......it starts w/ mental stimulation.
If I don't connect with you mentally in some way.......then none of the "physical" is going to work in getting me horny. Doesn't matter how good looking, how great your body, how much money you make, how you kiss or touch me, it's not going to happen unless you have stimulated my brain first.
A sense of humor will get my motor running alot faster than a 6pk ab.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 49
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/8/2009 4:46:40 AM
alot of good girls out there saying they don't

(they lie )

if you asked 100 women "what really turns them on? you'd get 100 different answers

smelling great and kissing her just the right way gets your foot in the door, it's up to you to figure out the rest of the way to get her to choose you
 Mayonia
Joined: 1/20/2009
Msg: 55
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:09:21 AM

I also think younger women in the early twenties tend to go for the physical stimuli and the more mature ones in the thirties and up lean more on mental.


WOW! This is so totally untrue for me! When I was younger and didn't know what I liked or wanted, and was more insecure, it was all more mental and emotional for me. As I got older, it became so much more about the physical.

I could just watch porn and do myself, it is also so enjoyable. Seeing an endowed man masterbate and ejaculate is enough to make me cum just rubbing my legs together! That was SO not me in my 20s!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 57
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/16/2009 7:17:59 AM
This is easy.

"Is that your large wallet, or are you happy to see me?"

That usually does it.

 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 58
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/16/2009 12:15:41 PM

we really don't give a crap about the men we ogle.


So you admit that you ogle?

We are just pieces of meat!! Right.

 Celtic Heart
Joined: 9/30/2007
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What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/16/2009 8:49:31 PM
I agree with you Cape Breton, a little imagination and some decent conversation have always helped me...not being the Brad Pitt type and all, lol.

As a guy I'm not above being stimulated simply by a woman's look, but if I'm attracted to her mind as well, the possibilities are endless, lol.
 MusclePower
Joined: 5/26/2009
Msg: 63
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/16/2009 10:45:27 PM
In a nutshell.
it's this.

Safety and Trust.
Security and Motivation.
Creativity Sprituality and a Unique sense of adventure.
an ability to express yourself.
Being The Prize of the room and the kind of man that her friends would Envy her for.
Confidence, Leadership POWER and Authority.
Cultural and Emotional Commonalities.
A sense of depth passion equal vulnerability and mystery
(this one's a little harder to explain i know but i might be able to put it into words by telling you a very interesting story)


And finally. Liking her for who SHE IS. and not necessarily what she looks like.
showing her that you recognize something SPECIAL in her that attracts you to her.
Being Passionate and Sensual. Not just sexual.

For example...



The downpour strong as we nestle in each others arms under the halo of that umbrella on that cool summer's night.
as i take it away and you feel those drops fall
cool mist caressing your skin as we look deep

Into each others eyes as you feel that first wet kiss of lips on sweat on rain.

My body warm to the touch as i lift you up.
Trowing you against the side of my car as i bite your lower lip.
kissing down to the side where your jaw meets your neck.

and you feel that soft bite.
as the cool night's summer rain.
envelops us.

The POWERFUL grasp of my arms protecting you.
Squeezing you Tight as I pull away.

TEARING your shirt off your body as the rain falls down to your chest.
Drenching you in cool sensual energy and heat.

You feel each warm passionate SAVAGE Animal like kiss.
As you grab on tight to the back of my neck and i squeeze your body
Pulling it toward me as my lips clench the tight rock hard nipple of your breast.

Chewing on it gently as my tongue runs soft round your areole.
and you feel that thick powerful pulse

PUSH. deep in. As the rain drenches our bodies on that cool enticing passionate
Summer Night.



get it?
hope this helps.
 luv69141
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 65
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/18/2009 8:40:38 AM
whats wrong with just sex
 Green Eyes In Florida
Joined: 12/17/2007
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What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/19/2009 10:42:10 PM

When I am in a committed relationship with someone that I have loving feelings towards , everything arouses me. The sound of his voice, the sight of him, the smell,
his touch. We don't have to be in the same room, an instant message, a phone call, and email can all push my buttons. Daydreaming or a night time dream can turn me on.
When I am in a monogamous, exclusive dating relationship I pretty much live in a state of hyperarousal. It does not take much to make me wet. Just the anticipation of his coming over.


widowsdesire: Ditto on that!!! You summed it up right there for ME too!!!

~~Beth~~
 majyk1
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 69
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 6/21/2009 12:48:10 AM
Men are VISUAL and most women are MENTAL. Damn that was HARD
 TheGoodGuy714
Joined: 5/9/2011
Msg: 70
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/10/2011 2:16:17 PM
Thank u for completing the last piece to my puzzle.
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 71
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/10/2011 3:07:57 PM
I would say a combination of both
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 72
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/10/2011 4:24:43 PM
Intelligence, class, r e s p e c t, manners, chivalry and how well he can Slow-dance!!
~Y?/N?, Ladies..??
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 73
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/10/2011 5:24:09 PM
Ladies, when you see a handsome guy with a good body, how many of you automatically think, "wow, I would like him on top of me giving me a pounding like there is no tomorrow?"


Count me as one who does think that very thought. Lock up your sons. lol
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 74
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/10/2011 5:33:00 PM
^^^...I'm gl;ad My son is another 660 miles further away.....
****
I can balance a Bowling Ball.........
...on my Tongue..!!
 Ayazel
Joined: 2/1/2011
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What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/10/2011 5:35:43 PM
Totally true!
In many cases, women need/like/want to be emotionally stimulated as well. For a lot of women, if we know it's going to be an emotionless endeavor, we can't/don't respond sexually very much if any at all.
 Ayazel
Joined: 2/1/2011
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What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/10/2011 5:40:04 PM
Making it easy would be pointless. Make 'em work for it! And I'm not talking with roses, gifts, and champagne. Those are nice gestures, and probably related to the strictly perserving-the-species-biological-impulses (this person would be a good provider, etc.), but they don't do anything for me.
The chase is ever-important, especially after the "hunter" catches his "prey" because if he can't keep up, the "prey" isn't sticking around for long.
 1osubuckeye
Joined: 1/12/2011
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What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/12/2011 9:04:48 AM

And, this past year I have figured out that if I go out for a run or take a really hard aerobics class that after my workout, I am incredibly horny. It is amazing. I think that guys must walk around like this 24/7. It only lasts for an hour or so after I leave the gym, but what an amazing feeling. I size up every guy I walk by wondering if he would be good in bed. My personal trainer told me that when girls work out, it temporarily raises their testosterone level. I have no idea whether this is true, but it would make sense. Too bad I never have enough guts to act on it.


Now you know. Most women generate this due to a slight bump in testosterone and growth hormone causing DHEA sex hormonal release. The cliche extra endorphin and dopaminergic release does this as well. On that note, you know how men like to stalk their prey now all day long.
 Rose_Dagger
Joined: 5/12/2011
Msg: 78
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/12/2011 6:50:45 PM
Seeing an attractive guy is obviously a turn on, but I would never actually approach someone on looks alone. Charm is a huge factor too. If you're attractive AND can hold my attention with your wit? Look out!


Angie
 Artzgrl93
Joined: 1/31/2011
Msg: 79
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/13/2011 3:27:15 PM
Personal experience. After I really stared liking the guy, I was considering all of this. And I've also some girl friends about what they like to, and we were able to agree on some things. Start gentle, then if you know its okay with her get a little rougher. A lot of girls have ear fetishes. Breathing in my ear and nibbling on it drives me crazy. Most sensitive to touch. Run your hands down their (bare) backs. It'll give them the chills. Kiss them gentle on the neck, and even gently bite. Just learn what she like and work from there. If you do it just right, well, nuff said. :p good luck!
 recreator611
Joined: 1/29/2011
Msg: 80
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/14/2011 5:03:37 AM
Unless a womans fickle....known a couple and its rare....most need mental stimulation...their not like men[dogs in heat]....they like to be massaged..talked too....kissed...all of that....
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 81
What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation?
Posted: 7/14/2011 10:32:40 AM
A bit of both wouldn't hurt....
Seeing a guy...wearing very light nylon boxers...with a 9 x 2 pointing Straight up....
and then getting a couple Hand-fulls of it would probably do the trick..!!
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 7/14/2011 11:09:54 AM

lonelyheart04:
It is physical and mental for me. i have looked at a guy and thought "i would love him deep inside me right now". i however get extremely turned on by all the romantic stuff too. when i man puts his hands on my face and looks deep into my eyes right before he deeply kisses me is a big turn on and will have me melting.


Damn, I think I'm in Love! Will you marry me? Or at least move to Texas and date me?
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 7/14/2011 11:32:04 AM
HERE IN MY CITY, IT WOULD HAVE TO BE HOW MUCH YOU MAKE, lol
 mtazman
Joined: 3/12/2009
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Posted: 7/15/2011 9:53:43 AM
If I can make you cum without touching you, I'd say it's mental!...
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