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 discrete_contact
Joined: 7/18/2008
Msg: 172
Looking at younger women / girls.Page 4 of 15    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15)


Exactly they want the hot twenty year olds not the old forty year old with the balding heads ,wrinkles , grey hair, erectile dysfunction ,and the paunches. Don't delude yourself that these hot young barely women would ever touch old guys with a ten foot pole . Well maybe if you were loaded, but that's about it.


Well yes I have a 14 year younger women then me hahaha. Cool eh? Why? Because when I was younger I was a loser for you guys. No matter how nice I was and well mannered.....it just didn't f-king matter. No offence but this is called...."game over"-ish for you....or click cancel to restart. So I say bye-bye to my generation of women....and invite them to look up to the 50-60 year old guys. Good luck and enjoy.
And on top of this I run 4 times a week at sunset + 3 times gym/week...do you think I see any 35-40 year women running ?.....Nope. Does not matter you think? Oki doki.

Now its my f-king turn to get an errection towards the ceiling. No Viagra and Cialis needed. No questions asked also.
Yes I will always look for younger women. How about that? FYI.
You can take your ...."toughness" and take some pictures and post it on your desktops.
 discrete_contact
Joined: 7/18/2008
Msg: 175
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Posted: 8/13/2008 3:56:24 PM
My profile does not mean anything. I am not here for looking. I am single that I am not married thats's true. And I will never be. But I have my latino girl, don't you worry 'bout it. Also I did not find her here, it was introduced to me by another latino women. That's how it works in the real world, that's the real deal.....I did not have to do any crap of work for it....just normal stuff.
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 176
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Posted: 8/13/2008 4:10:18 PM
TC-

I didn't call ya chum a pervert-and what I was referring to was my personal experience of OLDER men checking out my daughter. My guess is if ya buddy was watching them walk all the way home he was viewing there backsides-right? My belief, which I stated in my original post seems that ya buddy 'looked and chatted with the young women' to simply piss off his wife.

Yeah-folks look all the time, but some use TACT and other's need to scrape their tongue up off the pavement! Kinda boils down to this lil analogy- what is the difference between a gentleman and a pervert- a gentleman might think it but never says it- but the pervert he'll think it and act on it.

I'm sorry if a grown man gets his rocks off merely LOOKING at a young women is one thing-there are beaches all over the place loaded with em. When a person is doing it to simply upset their mate ( especially purposefully) that is ridiculous-much like this thread.

 davidsauvignon
Joined: 2/6/2008
Msg: 177
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Posted: 8/13/2008 4:23:19 PM
^^^ "what is the difference between a gentleman and a pervert- a gentleman might think it but never says it- but the pervert he'll think it and act on it."

Mary, then by your definition, the dude in the garage was a gentleman as he never said anything and didn't act on it.

(And let it be known, I'm NOT condoning his behavior.)




~ds~
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 178
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Posted: 8/13/2008 4:29:29 PM
DS-

I'm not saying that the guy looking was a deviant-never said it in my orginal reply either. How people interpret things is clearly different. What I was trying to convey is some people LOOK ( with discretion) where as other's blatantly LOOK to a point it's obvious and I dare say obscene. Does that help clear up my poor analogy??

The only thing that seemed to be clear is that he knew his wife was observing, and from what I can interpret he purposefully chatted and looked at these two young ladies in question to upset his wife. I think that is the bigger issue than him 'looking' at the two young ladies in question but rather how it made his wife feel.

And if the OP or his buddy think he was justified in checking out two younger women at his wife's expense- well, I'd say they are both daft! JMHO
 davidsauvignon
Joined: 2/6/2008
Msg: 181
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Posted: 8/13/2008 4:51:42 PM
Yeah, that helps.

My issue with this thread, is the assumptions being made. As if everyone bashing 'garage guy' (GG, henceforth) as well as his wife....KNOWS what he was thinking. I tinker around in my garage. I watch girls, women, couples, neighbors, kids walk up and down the street all the time. And I'll watch them for prolonged periods, as well. I'll say 'hello' to them, or chat with them (like GG did on their initial trip up the street).

I don't have ESP and I presume, GG's wife doesn't, either. So based on how OP described the situation....GG never said or did anything when the girls walked by on their return trip. Had he muttered, 'dayum' or whistled at them, or anything else to PROVE what his thoughts were, I'd be right along side everyone else calling for his head. But there still is a thing called "Innocent until proven guilty".....at least I think there is.

I still maintain the bigger issue of this thread (IMO), is the relationship dynamic between GG and his wife. Again, solely based on the OPost, I can't make a judgement one way or the other. My first post stated I felt the wife was wrong. But I can't come to any conclusions because there just isn't enough to go on regarding their relationship....at least in terms of PROOF. We can all guess, assume, etc.....but what good is that? No one knows what goes on behind closed doors except those who find themselves there.

So, I will agree that this thread is so void and lacking in detail regarding what (I feel) the 'issue' is, that it is "ridiculous" and a "train wreck" as others have described it.





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 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 182
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Posted: 8/13/2008 5:15:22 PM
I think the guy in the garage AND his wife are idiots who need to find something IMPORTANT to fight about.
Cindy O
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 186
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Posted: 8/14/2008 6:31:50 AM
Mary poppins: You think 40 year old men are fossils? Way to criticize when you're almost there yourself. Women that I see look a LOT worse than most of the guys I see at my age. If you're such a perfect physical specimen you should actually post a picture so we can all see what true perfection looks like.

Given the laziness and supreme bitterness of older women, it's hard to blame a guy for wanting to date younger. This thread has turned into a venue for jealous insecure women to spit venom at men because aging is a bitch. Get used to it because it only gets worse.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 187
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Posted: 8/14/2008 6:43:24 AM
phillo: Sorry about that. I probably should have stuck the word "some" in there since I know some great women my age and older. I just hate this common complaint that older men are no fun, lazy, can't keep up, etc. that women constantly make on POF. There are just as many women who fit into that category as well. Eventually everyone will fit into that niche because we can't outrun time forever. I see no need to criticize people and make fun of them because they're old. This horrible view of old/older people in society is hurtful and unacceptable in my opinion.
 nebula22
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 188
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Posted: 8/14/2008 6:54:00 AM
I have had girlfriends that were 30 years younger than I am.. No big deal..
I have turned down gals that young and see nothing they have that a woman my age doesn't have.
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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Posted: 8/14/2008 8:48:15 AM
Can't really believe I'm posting in this thread... my initial reaction was "so what?"
He's looking at someone appealing walk down the street. I think that is normal.

My next reaction was "wow, is their marriage in trouble" Not because he's looking at other women... because they are living an entrenched core argument and with this pattern, unaltered, the only possible outcomes are 1) divorce or 2) living a life of quiet desperation where they continue to punish each other for their perceived failings.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 193
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Posted: 8/14/2008 10:22:13 AM
I guess there are a lot of 40 something women that are complete LIARS if what you just said is true mary, since they all seem to say they have dated their fair share of "hot" 20 something guys. If good looking young women won't date older guys then the same must be true for younger men which means there's a lot of sad women spewing lies on POF from what I've read. Or maybe it's just that all the older women think they're so beautiful compared to the men, nobody can resist them. Delusions of grandeur seem to abound on this site. Personally, I think you're generalizing about who will date who. I've emailed women of all ages and women of varying ages have done the same to me.
 10of6
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 206
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Posted: 11/10/2008 5:57:40 PM
I'd suggest the car-washer file for a divorce. This is a form of abuse, as the guy made no comment or leering gestures. In your story, OP, if true, she displayed no trust, saw no humor, and made no attempt to just chalk it off. How pathetic. Like I've been saying: relationships, especially marriage, are too often wrestling matches over who dominates the other. Sad, sad, sad.

I hope he finds a way to catch her checking out men's butts.
 La Gioconda
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 207
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Posted: 11/10/2008 6:21:13 PM
It's normal reaction of the man to notice attractive young women, whether a man is in a committed relationship, married or not, it is unreasonable to expect him not to notice. I think one of the great answers are in post #25 by actualizing. This man could have made his woman smile and turn this into joke. But in the end both turnout to be immature.
 10of6
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 211
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Posted: 11/11/2008 7:13:16 AM
^^^^^ Your description of your self-image reads as if *I* had written it, my British soul brother...I agree that women vastly overrate their appeal and can't seem to get their minds around the reality; and that is, the anti-male propaganda is just that--propaganda.
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 212
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Posted: 11/11/2008 7:43:07 AM
it's a natural thing to look at and admire beauty, but an appreciation of the way something is doesn't necessarily mean that sex has to be involved or even desired...

if that was the case, it would make it rather difficult to go hiking amidst the glorious autumnal trees... and forget spending time browsing at the national art gallery...

 ntsttln4less
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 213
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Posted: 11/11/2008 7:44:03 AM
I think the real question is, Why is she so paranoid? People are so insecure. Maybe there is more cracks in your foundation than you realize.
 webweebil
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 217
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Posted: 11/11/2008 5:20:16 PM
FWIW, they use saltpeter in the military to lower their troops' sex drive. Sex is one of the most sublime experiences one can have on this mortal coil. There's the mystical tradition of tantra that uses sex as a channel towards divine enlightenment even (although I'm not well-studied in it.)
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 219
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Posted: 11/11/2008 8:54:17 PM
I think looking at 16 year olds and lusting after them is a bit different.

Looking at somebody =/= serious interest, or even any interest. I looked at this wierd creepy 60 year old man wearing a speedo who was in the hot tub talking to me about how nice fake tits on teenagers were. Now he's has issues, however, his hideously tight speedo was attracting attention and I would hardly call that sexually enticing.


Hell today I was at the gym and an incredibly fit, well tanned and well muscled girl working out in what can only be called the most disgustingly sexy outfit I've seen at the gym to date. She kept looking at me, I barely glanced in her direction until I noticed her eyeballin me repeatedly. Honestly, there's little to no chance of her being overly interested in me, particularly sexually.

Besides, he's middle aged, not dead. There's a difference between looking at 16 year olds and touching them. Last time I checked, middle aged women weren't exactly above checking out the 20-something ripped muscle bound men of their youth neither.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 220
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Posted: 11/11/2008 8:55:31 PM
If the guy simply didn't know that it would offend his wife, then when she asked him if he liked look at those 16-year-old girls, he would have said "yes".
If the guy didn't hear his wife speak, he would have said "sorry, I didn't hear you".
If he liked looking at teenage girls, but didn't want to cause a ruckus in his marriage, then he'd do what lots of other men who do, who are happily married, they look, but not when their wife is there.
He heard her. He KNEW that it would bug her if he was looking at those girls. He probably KNEW she was there as well. So he KNEW it would anger her.

She has probably been making his life difficult for a long time, and he is probably not that happy with his marriage. He is just admiring those girls, because even though most guys on POF say that teenage girls are not worth the drama, they would still be LESS drama than his wife. He just cannot afford a divorce, and/or is so used to being in an unhappy marriage that he cannot be bothered to leave her.

This man is sending his wife a message: "Start treating me nicer, or I WILL find someone else, because if even 16-year-olds are willing to talk to me, you can bet that other women will date me".
 WanderingRain
Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 221
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Posted: 11/12/2008 12:43:24 AM
Yes, I would like to be a Mormon or Muslim now, please.
Can I have the complimentary wife and concubine combo package with my membership kit???
 10of6
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 223
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Posted: 11/12/2008 2:24:41 PM
Yes i "look" at other men, i'll even turn around and watch a really good specimen, but NEVER would i do it in the presence of my man.
I believe the man who so many women have condemned to the Inferno of Nagging didn't know he was in the presence of "his woman."


If he liked looking at teenage girls, but didn't want to cause a ruckus in his marriage, then he'd do what lots of other men who do, who are happily married, they look, but not when their wife is there.
That's an intriguing portrayal of "happily married." Sounds more like a military training camp, wherein each trainee's eyes must be "caged" (aka focusing to a distant point, kind of like blinders). Fearfully married, more than likely.
 webweebil
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 224
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Posted: 11/12/2008 2:27:35 PM
I look at all sorts of beautiful things. Some people are like works of art - they are a thing to behold. Men and women, if they are striking and beautiful (or striking and ugly), capture my attention. If a man is beautiful, there mayhaps be a bit more sparkle in my eye...
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 225
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Posted: 11/12/2008 4:22:29 PM

No woman has any sexual power over me and I'm not a homosexual

But you may be atypically asexual.

I can think of many things other than sex actually and they're far more stimulating to entertain.

I'm now fairly certain you are atypical. Or maybe a metrosexual.

Every man would be nothing more than a free roaming erection parading around struggling to secure his way into the nearest available entrance without any regard for anything else at all.
Oh now this gave me a mental picture that I was ROTLFMAO about. Scared the hell out of my cat.

When I was a soldier, the last thing I thought about was sex. If I'd have stopped to cater for a sexual fantasy during a combat situation I would've got every other guy around me killed.

Son, the OT was about a guy working on his car, or washing it , whatever. No mention was made of this scenario occurring in a combat zone. "I would've got every other guy around me killed"?
Whether or not you are, or are not, homosexual,asexual, or metrosexual, I cannot say. But I'm fairly certain you are not bullet proof. The fact that you can forget about sex in a situation where you could get your ass shot off
doesn't prove a whole heck of a lot, IMHO.
Why has this stupid thread come back to life? Why am I POSTING to it?
Cindy O
 massmn
Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 226
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Posted: 11/13/2008 12:20:32 PM
Remember, guy's are more VISUALL STIMULATED THEN WOMEN, it may not be correct but that's just our nature, just because we're looking doesn't mean we want it.

MY QUESTION IS ON MOST PROFILES WOMEN SAY THEY ARE LOOKING FOR MAN WHO IS NICE, HONEST TRUSTWORTHY. SO WHY IS IT THAT THESE SAME WOMEN ( WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT) ARE MORE INTERESTED IN LOOKS AND MONEY! THIS HAS BEEN MY (AND SOME FRIENDS) EXPERIENCE.
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