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Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 4
My guy wont go down therePage 2 of 3    (1, 2, 3)

You say he's been down there ( I assume you mean licking your clit) but you are not clear exactly what he's doing or NOT doing that is displeasing you. I mean, I am getting the sense he might be from the clit licker finger f*cker club. If your man watches porn you generally see a lot of close ups of guys licking the clitty like a lolipop but rarely do you see him licking from the clit down the slit to the ass-it's all zoomed in on the clitoris. Some guys just seem to focus on your clit believing they are 'eating' you out in reality they are just licking the love button.

If you are concerned about his lack of oral skills-tell him what you would like-or simply ask him why he isn't spending enough oral attention that you desire. I'm not big on having my pu$$y eaten for a variety of reasons because it's been my experience that some guys lick a lot-few really dive at five and dig in to the WHOLE thing. If a man says he's eating me-he better come prepared with scuba gear and have no issues with TMJ-if he does I'd prefer he just stick to using his fingers and his c*ck. If you want him to eat you and get you off-give the guy some directions.
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 5
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 4:45:44 PM
Well, just stop letting him do amything at all until he does what you want or leaves.
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 6
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My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:19:21 PM
"" but has givin it to me ""

A few of us, based on your whining, are assuming you were actually trying to say "He isn't." (as in : is NOT) or "has NOT been giving any to me."

I don't understand why he would say he loves doing that and then won't do it with you - unless of course your claim of washing it once a day leaves it a bit skanky after a few hours - some women just are. In that case why hasn't he either said something to that effect or thrown you in the shower, given it a good scrub himself and then enjoyed the feast.

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 10
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My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:34:03 PM
OP you are in the wrong relationship - this guy is not respectful of you or your desires! Like his abusive behaviour (your previous posts suggest) - none of it is to be tolerated! Move on to someone who is there for you in more ways than one!
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 12
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:55:38 PM

Men are not naturals at licking p*ssy.

Oh, I don't know about that. I've always thought it seemed like it ought to part of sex, even the first time I had sex.
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 15
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:03:46 PM

he really doesn't know what he is missing!i mean going down on a girl is the best experience that a guy can ever get!i mean the taste is U\NBELIEVABLE and the taste of a female is the best in the whole world!

I wouldn't go quite that far. but it does beat McDonald's.
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 21
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My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:36:24 PM
I don't like sexual intercourse but love giving oral and rimming myself but I do like to know the woman first.
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 22
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:38:38 PM
No muff too tough...........any man who refuses to "go down" on his lady needs to be ****-slapped! Grab him by the ears, pull his head down there and tell him to do his job or get the f@#& out!!!!
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 23
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:41:42 PM
Why are you asking such an intimate questions to people that don't know you or him. I know you are young but talk to him. If he doesnt' tell you then your in trouble anyway. We can't read minds and I'm shocked when people ask such intimate questions online when you need to ask the person you are with.

This is a question many women like to ask but if you have a guy, why don't you state that on your profile? I dont see it anywhere.
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 27
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:09:34 PM
Ask him what the problem is and if he won't discuss it and doesn't do it, I'd send him packing,

If you're worried about the taste, search a few threads for suggesetions of different foods and drinks to avoid or consume beforehand.
Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 29
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:49:06 PM
msg: 1: ~Ashie~wrote: i mean i am clean and everything ...shaved completely and wash everyday ........
Washing down there once a day when there's a chance some one is going to give you oral pleasure is not enough. You (women an men) need a trip to the bathroom right before this is to happen(wash your crack too). An I'm not talking wipe it with a dry rag. Wash it and rinse and wash and rinse and be sure to get under each layer an make certain nothing is left behind.
Something else you might consider. Not all guys will do oral for you even tho they expect you to do it for them. Some guys talk all big and bad like they are the TongueMaster or something but really they are just telling you that to hook you. If I was you I'd not be giving him any oral if he didn't plan on giving you some too. Make him do it first. After all, it's obvious he's not giving you everything your wanting or you wouldn't be posting here.
Joined: 6/29/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 8/11/2008 6:18:35 PM
ashie, I'm shocked to hear that. If you still have this issue, send me a message, I'll take care of you. I'll try to help you make up for all that lost time.
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Joined: 8/6/2008
Msg: 33
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/11/2008 7:01:43 PM
He won't ???
He apparently doesn't know what he's doing and what he's missing !!!
I get great pleasure from pleasuring my lady...completely !!!
Joined: 2/18/2008
Msg: 39
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/11/2008 11:33:42 PM
Ashie, Stick your finger in there and see what it smells like and also lick your finger. I'm being serious. If you don't find it pleasing nobody else will. Before sex I scrub the whole undercarriage and am trimmed/shaved really short.
If a girl is really clean or the guy has some hang up or something there is NO WAY he shouldn't want to go down on you and get MESSY. Or he's into dudes. Just my 2 centavos.
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 8/12/2008 7:20:17 AM
I agree with most of what people say here in this post. You need to have a talk with him and explain to him what you would like for him to do. Communication is very important in any kind of a relationship.
He may not have never given oral sex to a women before. Also he could have what i call a religious block. What i mean by that is all his life he was told it is a nasty thing to do and etc.
I myself find not a thing wrong with oral sex. As long as she keeps herself clean. Past lovers have told me that i am good and take my time.
Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 44
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 8/12/2008 10:06:48 AM
Show me a guy don't go down on his lady I'll show you a guy that I can take his lady away from him. He is a fool; hey wanna go out
My guy wont go down there
Posted: 9/4/2008 2:32:05 PM
Bail him. Or keep him. I wouldn't personally want to be with someone that scared of the nany if I were a woman. You are young...but not that young. He should be crack snackin by now.
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