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Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 120
Guys who want to hang out spur of the moment at the start of a relationship...Page 11 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
You are coming off as a rather pompous intellectual Mr Snap Happy and I don't know who will bother to read this long diatribe but I would suggest you use Spell Check. Call me a pedant lol!!
Joined: 6/10/2014
Msg: 121
Guys who want to hang out spur of the moment at the start of a relationship...
Posted: 11/30/2014 4:54:59 PM

Just noticed OP was talking about first few dates.

Yes, Dear, now please take out the trash...
Joined: 5/20/2013
Msg: 122
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Guys who want to hang out spur of the moment at the start of a relationship...
Posted: 12/1/2014 5:52:01 AM
Who bumped a thread from 6 years ago? How does that even happen? If you're going to have rules keep in mind there's always exception to the rule, not all guys are monoliths. I've been spontaneous and invited a girl out 20-30 minutes beforehand because I felt like it, I wasn't doing anything and was going to go somewhere and thought it would be nice to invite someone instead of going out by myself.

I've had girls come by my house on a first or second date because they wanted to, I slept with some of them and didn't sleep with some it just depends on the mood, it's not something I have planned because sex is something I never have planned. It's most spontaneous unless I'm in a committed relationship then I can plan on having a romantic evening that leads to sex.

It's reasonable but also pessimistic to assume so much out of men you don't know and when it kinda goes both ways, those guys don't know you either, you're a total stranger as well and there's a chance they could be cat fished or dealing with a sociopathic killer etc.....
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