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 Michey63
Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 628
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I love a goatee on a man...I find it so attractive, I don't why but I do.
 SNOW1961
Joined: 3/21/2009
Msg: 629
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/18/2009 2:23:43 PM
I luv a guy with facial hair -- the more, the better -- as long as he keeps it clean and trimmed. Don't need to see what he's been eating that day ... LOL
 kaw88
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 630
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/23/2009 12:59:22 PM
Personally I love a man with facial hair. They get my attention first before clean shaven. I am 49 years and have love facial hair since I was in my 20's. I love touching their face. And it makes their eyes pop and they smile more. I just love the roughed look.
 prof48
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 631
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/23/2009 3:06:03 PM
Think about when men over 45 would have started shaving--1960s and 1970s. It was a period when beards were popular. I think it likely that many would continue or return to the habits of their youth.
 Aurelian1960
Joined: 12/12/2009
Msg: 632
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/23/2009 3:20:30 PM
No facial hair for me. The Telly Savalas look is just fine.
 chern51
Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 633
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Posted: 12/23/2009 3:25:00 PM
hiya! just read ur post. guess what!...oh, and Merry Christmas!!
 ea┬«ly
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 634
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/23/2009 8:55:07 PM
I shaved my goatee recently, grew it right back, ...it'll go better with the "natty-dreads" I have planned.
 Blue-Eyes-Shine
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 637
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Posted: 12/24/2009 12:12:31 PM
"stinky animal full of hair that want in the bed with you."

Hmmm...I'm thinking a man with a face full of fur might want to look for a woman who doesn't mind an "animal full of hair" in bed with her.


 FlowerChick4U
Joined: 8/26/2009
Msg: 638
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/25/2009 4:11:16 PM
And, gee I thought I was the only one who noticed many men over 45 have some kind of facial hair.

I'll be honest, it's a sexual turn-off for me. There's nothing fun about kissing a guy (or having a guy kiss you anywhere!) with a beard or mustache, the scratchy scruffy, hairy, sometimes unclean, unkempt, poorly groomed beard. There must be some women who like it, otherwise men would be shaving more often. And me being a very sexual woman, I'm looking to be turned on by my guy's good looks as well as his character and personality. Maybe it's "my experience" with men with facial hair but I find nothing attractive about it at first glance, plus to me it's a sign of "laziness," and laziness to me translates to "boring", "uninteresting," and a man who could really care less about his appearance. And when a man doesn't care about his appearance, I'm not interested. I think the reasons are obvious. It's just a turn-off, sorry. It's the way I'm wired, much like men are attracted visually to women and her breasts. Now I have seen some middle-aged men with facial hair who seem to have an "interesting" look about them, and I may give 'em a chance, but I wouldn't expect a man to change himself for me. I want to fall in love with the person for who he really is, abd a man's hygiene speaks volumes about him.
 WindRoper
Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 640
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/29/2009 11:24:57 AM

I'll be honest, it's a sexual turn-off for me. There's nothing fun about kissing a guy (or having a guy kiss you anywhere!) with a beard or mustache, the scratchy scruffy, hairy, sometimes unclean, unkempt, poorly groomed beard. There must be some women who like it, otherwise men would be shaving more often. And me being a very sexual woman, I'm looking to be turned on by my guy's good looks as well as his character and personality

While I agree about unkept facial hair, and you certainly are welcome to your opinion/preference, I can't help thinking "Spoken like 'a very sexual woman' who has never had her breasts, abdomen, back or inner thighs repeatedly lightly brushed with a man's facial hair." If I wanna get laid by someone with a smooth face I'll switch teams... and that ain't likely.
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 641
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/29/2009 11:28:25 AM

If it was a make or break for a woman that I REALLY cared for and saw that a long term relationship hinged on it, I would shave it. No issues. Until then, I'm keeping it. Besides.....it keeps my chin warm in the Winter.


Fun I think your facial hair is very very attractive. I tend to like facial hair if it is nicely groomed and trimmed. Otherwise I would rather he not have any.. but then again he would probably be lacking in grooming in other areas..

thecatsmeoww
 MAGIC_MARCO
Joined: 11/16/2007
Msg: 642
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Posted: 12/29/2009 11:47:44 AM
What amazes me is threads like this go on and on and on.

Nothing but opinions, and most likely to not convince anyone of anything.
Really, some guys just love huge boobs, and some , just the very sight, makes them wilt.
Nothing's going to change that either.
I would say, if you're a guy on the fence about this subject, I would recommend going with what the experts say about it.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 643
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Posted: 12/29/2009 11:55:30 AM

"Spoken like 'a very sexual woman' who has never had her breasts, abdomen, back or inner thighs repeatedly lightly brushed with a man's facial hair."


this grosses me out no end...

and i've always considered myself to be "very sexual" too...
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 644
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/29/2009 12:15:34 PM

"Spoken like 'a very sexual woman' who has never had her breasts, abdomen, back or inner thighs repeatedly lightly brushed with a man's facial hair."


Or for the matter ever had fabulous hot oil and feather massage!!!

Tingle until your heart's content..

thecatsmeoww
 kari135
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 645
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Posted: 12/29/2009 12:20:43 PM


"Spoken like 'a very sexual woman' who has never had her breasts, abdomen, back or inner thighs repeatedly lightly brushed with a man's facial hair."



this grosses me out no end...

and i've always considered myself to be "very sexual" too...

Gee, and I find it a real turn on. Never cared a whole lot for the whisker burn of the clean shaven, but it all depends on the man, after all. And if we're gonna get picky about it, I prefer the full bushy beards and 'staches, but I've also never had anything to do with any man who didn't keep them clean.
 WindRoper
Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 646
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/29/2009 2:20:22 PM
"Spoken like 'a very sexual woman' who has never had her breasts, abdomen, back or inner thighs repeatedly lightly brushed with a man's facial hair."



this grosses me out no end...
and i've always considered myself to be "very sexual" too...


The actual act or the thought of it? What's the difference between a very light touch of the hand, a feather, or facial hair (granting it is clean and free of dinner crumbs)? Have you never used your own hair to stimulate a man?

I understand that different people have different preferences and that's cool. It's the statements that seem to allude to rest of us being a bunch of perverts that I don't get.

Edited to add: Divine, hopefully you'll notice this. I'm maxed on posts for this thread and can't respond any other way. You cracked me up with the 'forgotten' comment. It made me think "It's been so long since I've had hair long enuf to engage in such activity." (sigh)
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 647
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Posted: 12/29/2009 2:27:09 PM

Have you never used your own hair to stimulate a man?


it's been so long i've forgotten!

 Notdesper8atall
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 648
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/29/2009 2:41:19 PM
"I understand that different people have different preferences and that's cool. It's the statements that seem to allude to rest of us being a bunch of perverts that I don't get."

One persons pervert is anothers sexual match
 Jim in NB
Joined: 8/2/2006
Msg: 649
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Posted: 12/30/2009 2:11:01 AM
How about some pratical comments on facial hair - just got back from walking Jake my dog. -26 celsuis or -17 Fahrenheit out this morning with the wild chill. Really nice to have a beard to block the wind. And it is only going to get colder as the winter goes on. Of course nothing like the Prairies or Artic here but still a beard is nice for these cool mornings walking the dog! As much as the beard is really pratical at this time of year and I enjoy, I think I enjoy shaving it coming spring when the warm winds start to blow from the south again!
 jerrick1962
Joined: 12/15/2009
Msg: 650
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/30/2009 2:22:30 PM
When you are young the clean shaven thing is quick & easy. When you get older shaving daily can get quite irritating to the skin.
 wanting to retire
Joined: 10/30/2009
Msg: 651
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/31/2009 1:17:49 PM
I have had a moustache since 1970, and usually grow a beard in the winter months.Only shaved the beard in the winter, 4 times ,3 times for a respirator fit"work",one time for a woman. ever again for a woman.Just my opinion
 shasta02
Joined: 6/12/2008
Msg: 653
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/31/2009 5:12:16 PM
" I'm over 45 and I have to say I am not a big fan of facial hair on women either. "
Thanks for cracking me up LMAO
 CynthiaMw
Joined: 7/13/2009
Msg: 654
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/31/2009 6:49:23 PM
One man I dated for a year his hair was so stiff and wiry that unless he shaved clean and close he sanded me raw. That pretty much ruled out certain morning activities before he shaved.
Otherwise I'm a fan of soft facial hair. Love to stroke my fishie's face and run my fingertips through his beard. And what would a mustache ride be without the mustache?
 chiefgray
Joined: 11/25/2008
Msg: 656
Men over 45 and facial hair
Posted: 12/31/2009 11:20:53 PM
LoL. This topic made me laugh (apparently out loud). I've been in the military for 30 years, so facial hair restriction have made me lust for the exact opposite. When I retire soon, I'll have the best "Sam Elliott" moustache known to man ... at least for a little while ... just because I can. Af
ter I've satified the fix, who knowes
 purplerocks
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 658
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Posted: 1/2/2010 8:58:41 AM
I agree....And whats with all the nipple hair girls?....You can buy tweezers at the dollar store..I wanna be the only hairy thing in your bed
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