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 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 16
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Teasing is why God invented sex.
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 8/21/2008 2:38:03 AM
Guys, try this one, next time you and your SO are making love when she is about to cum, pull out and just leave your knob on her engorged clit, just moving it ever so slightly, the heat will drive her crazy and when you go back in take your time and she will likely multiple for both of you, just a thought
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/21/2008 4:47:06 AM

I thought all men knew to do stuff like that? Hmm...


Yes.. but not all DO IT. It's one thing to know about it.. but you have to actually DO IT for it to be effective. Hehehe..

My lower back and hips are a touchpoint for me. Makes me crazy when my guy puts his hands on the top of my hips and just gives a little squeeze... or lightly brushes fingertips over the bare skin of my lower back.. I get super sensitive and when I'm *on* he can barely get within 3" of my back with his mouth and I'm squirming.

I've been on my knees facing the back of the couch and had him drag his fingertips all over my body, but avoiding all the *hot spots*.. finger tips dug into my inner thighs and along the underside of my bum cheeks right where the nerve bundles lay..

Pleasurelimits.. you're evil... .. pure, pure evil..
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 19
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Posted: 8/21/2008 5:29:47 PM

Your on the "Yellow Brick Road" Mary ``` it is Magical, isn't it?


Yes, I sure am-and I add in my own lil tidbits of magic for good measure!! I hear so many people saying they've lost the 'spice' in their relationships-but I don't think they've really lost the spice as much as they forgot how to have fun and be playful with their mates.

I hope I always can be playful and mischevious with my lover-I couldn't imagine any successful relationship without it!
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 8/22/2008 5:09:35 AM
Something that has taken me lately, new for me and stimulated by my love for my woman, is writing a story to her making her the lead player, the intent is to make her wet with the thought and wet for me as a result, prefer it to poetry, hope it is working
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/22/2008 5:17:35 AM

LOL...yea, I imagine I'd have a tonne of fun with someone like you then

I'm a toucher/teaser. It just makes sex that much more enjoyable. Quickies have their place too, but the teasin'...you can't beat it.


Yeah... I'm tons of fun... he gets me gasping and squirming, twitches and squeals come later.. He thinks it's pretty cool that he can hold his hand about 3" off my back and I'm arching and pulling away from him because I can feel the heat from his hand.


Oh.. I'm sure it's working Pleasurelimits.. I like it when that happens too. Sadly, most of the men I've known recently are seriously lacking in the imagination department... at least when it comes to writing.
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 22
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Posted: 9/6/2008 2:56:59 PM

The best is when you're tied up and gagged (or silenced under the condition you won't get sex if you talk), therefore unable to interject, add, or influence the situation, but have to be completely receptive.


*evil grin* yeah what he said!!
 raxarsr
Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 23
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Posted: 9/6/2008 3:16:31 PM
i love to tease.my favorite way is to circle her clit......or nipples with my tounge..very lightly.....without quite touching it......slowly.endlessly.........stopping every so often to run my tounge up and down her outer lips..then back to circling...........i love to get my partner right to the brink of orgasm........then hold her there..not letting her climax......not letting her calm down ............at least not till after the second or third death threat
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
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Posted: 10/1/2008 2:21:07 PM
As always, depends-time factors, work factors-teasing , when it gets too prolonged, leads to that "Blue Bal*S" disease we guys all dread! ( ) Hey, if you have the time and like it-get the tease on!! Ha!
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 10/6/2008 10:13:18 PM
I am all for it...tease away!
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 10/7/2008 5:13:15 AM
All I know is if you want something bad enough you'll teach..direct...or suggest what you WANT so your LOVER will get it! I've always said if a man can stimulate my mind than my body will follow----that is a HUGE turn on for me.....it just adds to the fun.

I never thought a few text messages could get me riled up...but dang......they sure do!! When the manfriend is in the mood he says ( types ) all the right things to inspire me. I guess the fact we've been long term lovers just makes it easier to visualize all the things he has planned. The intense build-up makes the actual coupling so much more intense.


Yeah---sexual teasing is the bomb.....and I'm so glad the manfriend has learned all the skills to turn me on...hubba hubba hubba!!!
 bulls eye annie
Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 10/7/2008 5:37:21 AM
Women operate differently than men. Men can quit literally drop their britches and go at it at in a nano sec.

However, as a single parent, I have constant interruptions with work, children's issues, errands, chores, and 87% of the time that's were we are, constantly working on the "list of things to do." Now that does leave 13% of the time where we are not "there."

Speaking for myself, I like it when my man has finesse and experience whereby he can tease with words, actions, attitude, behavior, and duh, drive me crazy physically. By all means, keep the home fires burning!
 ImAHotMess
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/7/2008 9:25:07 AM
I have to say I would LOVE this if it were to ever happen to me. Tease me all you want. Just remember, I can do it to. And I will. I can leave all of my clothes on and take you on big time. :) I think it would be healthy and beneficial for the relationship personally. Get ready mister, it is going to be a long ride. :)
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 10/7/2008 12:09:53 PM
Teasing is an "art" that takes time to develop, and one must have the personality and style to "pull it off"......so to speak.......

The important thing to remember about teasing, is when to" stop" and when to "follow through", because the tease alone can end up being nothing more than frustration, and a mind control issue, and nothing to do with foreplay.....

Just my opinion......
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/7/2008 12:26:53 PM
When I was younger I used to visit strip-tease clubs with friends from time to time. The interest was in the complete show. Costumes, timing, and teasing. Often not even revealing beyond panties and pasties. Nowadays the dancers rush to get their clothes off as fast as possible .. where is the fun in that. The tease is gone.

In personal assignation too I enjoy both being teased and teasing. The slow and erotic build up makes for a far more satisfactory outcome in my humble opinion.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/7/2008 5:04:55 PM
oh I so agree w/ ya Camper.....the art of the strip tease is long gone in the clubs...
but there are still some of us that utilize it in our personal lives....

teasing can come in many forms....and I enjoy every last one of em!
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/8/2008 7:07:30 AM

Every woman should try, at least once, to greet her man at the door only wearing one of his suit jackets buttoned only in the middle, one of his ties around her neck and high heels...it is a huge tease and one with guaranteed results


Now that scenario is the perfect tease. Damn you're good.

And of course even writing it for us to share is the perfect tease, as visions of you at the door float through our heads. Damn!
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/8/2008 9:57:08 AM
I used to have a gf who lived in a condo right across from my office. She worked crazy hours, and sometimes in the days, she would call me and say "look out your window!" I knew where to look. She would be wearing everything from lingerie to nothing. She'd then retreat from the wiondw and tell me what she was doing. What a tease. Sometimes I had to nip out of the office to "run an errand".
 BrianfromBurgh
Joined: 12/11/2013
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/17/2014 7:29:31 PM
I stayed up ALL night on a first date, in a car, "star gazing" was the premise. Kissing, holding, nothing past 2nd base. But she has me going crazy for 8 hours, just teasing. Her tongue just now and then slipping past my lips.... she found how sensitive my nipples are and she made me moan. she held my "boys" in her hands, teased them, but did NOT let me fully enjoy. she kept me going crazy all night long (literally). I would have agreed to any dirty little fantasy could of named - she had incredible power over me with just 10 fingers and denial..... loved it!
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 35
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Posted: 3/23/2014 8:12:21 AM
yep teasing is a must if your going to knock her socks off....love long kisses and foreplay....most woman dont get that.....and the build up is great!.....lol
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/28/2014 4:27:14 AM
I tease a woman to the hilt....lol....love to see her squirm and sigh during long foreplay....starts earlier than that with light touches in certian areas...stroking...its the meaning of good relations.....lol
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 3/28/2014 9:43:01 AM
Depends upon the person. The woman who deflowered me loved to tease in public--but I knew that when we got home, she'd follow thru. I enjoy the foreplay leading up, but then, I love the feeling of sensuality--the largest sex organ is the skin, the second is the brain.

Other people want their sex fast, passionate, animalistic--they want to feel so desired, their partner cannot remain a gentleman and hold back.
 YoureInMyDNA
Joined: 4/20/2014
Msg: 38
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Posted: 5/16/2014 8:35:08 AM
I think men handle the teasing much better then women when it comes to being denied at the end!!!
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 5/16/2014 1:45:08 PM
^^^practice makes us men perfect :)
Sexual Teasing...
Posted: 5/17/2014 10:23:57 PM
According to how teasing is defined here, what's being meant...I never thought of it as teasing, or a special technique or practice, and thought it was just part of normal sex. This makes me think of, say, simply inducing medium levels of stimulation, and hovering around that level or maintaining it, etc. In other words, just enjoying that place for what it is and staying there, and just gliding along for a good while in a sort of heaven, not needing to, wanting to, or thinking about taking it to a conclusion anytime soon. And then just punctuating this with violent spasms of urgency. But it's never crossed my mind that this is "teasing".

I guess this is like the problem I had for so long concerning the word "foreplay" and "sex". For a long time I was confused by how other people talked because I didn't realize that when they said "sex", they didn't really mean sex, but they meant intercourse specifically. And everything else that I always thought was part of normal sex, they called "foreplay". No wonder they had so many problems, and were bored with sex, and argued over whether or not foreplay should be engaged in...because apparently everybody was just getting straight to the intercourse and 5 minutes later were done. Geez lu-eez.
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