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 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 504
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" I guess thats the reason I am on here now, had a girlfriend of almost three years. started off great but the sex life backed off to once a week sometimes once every two weeks . When I asked her about it she said she felt that sex was all I cared about......."

Sex slows when other thing are lacking is my opinion.
 haywiresue
Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 505
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/16/2010 4:11:18 PM
Interesting question, and some very good answers. For me intimacy is more important than just getting laid. I was once told that intimacy is a dance and intercourse is the bow/curtsey at the end, and I have used this line on numerous occuassions.

Relationships change as time goes on and by the time people are noticing that intimacy has evaporated, means the relationship is in trouble. I have found through my past relationships that not all people are interested in keeping the home fires buring and believe that doing work to pick a mate and then get married is the end of it. To me relationships need to be tended to as one tends their garden. I have always believed that if you want love to endure, you must make it endearing.

This is one of those moments, where one gets smarte wih age. Good luck to everyone.
 URXO2
Joined: 8/27/2009
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Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/21/2010 9:19:42 AM
It's important, but not as immediate a need as it once was..what I'm saying is I'd prefer to keep it within the confines of a relationship with someone I've become close..
 Hippiekinkster
Joined: 1/7/2010
Msg: 513
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/22/2010 8:55:16 PM
@Hollis: Dude, I'm almost sure her avatar pic is a good 20 years old. Tell me why I think this.
 ThirdTimeAround
Joined: 12/31/2007
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Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/22/2010 9:50:10 PM
yepper !!!!

i think as we get older we appreciate sex more.

the longer i am single and the older i get, the more better quality sex i want.

i also feel sexual communication is vital.

no quickies for this lady.
 dd3va
Joined: 11/18/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2010 12:44:43 PM
It is in the sense that I enjoy it more now than ever because I understand it more now that ever. I know what I like and am comfortable about expressing it. As hot as a good throw down is, isn't love better? Love and great sex, does it exist?
 lateā„¢
Joined: 2/1/2010
Msg: 516
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Posted: 2/23/2010 1:02:07 PM

Love and great sex, does it exist?

Most definitely, and these two things when nurtured and expressed with mutual purpose and harmony tend to increase the intensity of the other.

i also feel sexual communication is vital.

To quote Marshall McLuhan, "...the medium IS the message."
 Rythmn
Joined: 1/21/2006
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Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/25/2010 12:17:51 AM
only hot, writhing, endless, sensuous sex is important! the rest? i can take it or leave it. alas, it does start with what is between the ears and ends with "who exactly?" is under the sheets!
 StevieCashmere
Joined: 4/22/2009
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Posted: 2/27/2010 6:30:23 AM
'sex' is a 'chiche, 'making love' is where it's at

~sc~
 dangit1961
Joined: 10/26/2007
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Posted: 2/27/2010 10:09:48 PM
I like the way you think Baby Girl! For me,we can be good friends, laugh together, enjoy being in each others company, but if we are not good in bed together, the relationship as as good as gone.. It is very important that we enjoy each other's touch. And the way we kiss together is equally important. Usually one can tell by that first kiss.
 dancindeny
Joined: 11/4/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2010 11:31:48 AM
i like your answers to Is sex as important to you as it once was.i think it is very important to a good relationship. i believe foreplay is the important thing.i am a Scorpio so i love sex and more important is the closeness. i look forward to hearing from you.
Denny
 charlie_girl_2
Joined: 1/2/2010
Msg: 536
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 3/2/2010 7:42:26 AM
ABSOLUTELY!


Excuse me, but in my view, that is a very dumb question for any healthy and consenting age group. Is it everything in a relationship? No. But without it, most relationships are doomed to fail.
I hope I never tire of it. That's making love with someone I care about -- not just for the sake of having sex, or with just anyone.

Charliegirl
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