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 lancewallach
Joined: 4/27/2009
Msg: 374
Is sex as important to you as it once was?Page 6 of 28    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28)
I cant have it three times a night anymore, and sometimes when I have to get up at 6 the next day to play football try to avoid it.
 NASH58
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 379
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 1/26/2010 10:20:11 AM
well i am 60 and lpve sex more than ever and know more than ever can not find a woman to keep up with me Tom
 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 383
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Posted: 1/26/2010 2:10:41 PM
I feel the same about sex but not that willing to pay the price anymore.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 385
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Posted: 1/26/2010 3:39:23 PM

I feel the same about sex but not that willing to pay the price anymore.


^^ Now it that statement doesn't reak of someone who has not healed, I don't know what does! Then again, this is the norm for this poster which is really sad honestly!

Sex more important now? Dayumed right it is. Many of us have spent years in relationships where sex was never really a priority. We missed a lot. I hope now to gain total sexual freedom with whomever I am with. Enjoy it to the fullest. I can't get preggy, my kids are older and I have never been more receptive! Life at this stage is just too damned short
 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 387
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Posted: 1/26/2010 5:21:08 PM
Moonchild..this poster realizes that you know nothing about him and your statement stems from some need to stand over him,or perhaps any man, and judge him based on nothing but your basic beleif that any man who thinks above his belt has a problem. I am used to such holier than thou condescention,it is the norm among your gender and to be expected....other than that have a nice evening
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 389
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Posted: 1/26/2010 5:39:52 PM
Moonie.....Have I told you lately that I have always enjoyed your "receptors"?.....

OT.....Sex has always, and still is always, important to me, and it is one of the foundation builders that must be, in order to have a significant other and real relationship.

The main difference now from long ago, is that I am sooooo much more experienced and understanding of what sex means to not only me, but the one I am with.......

Just as I do not enjoy a body without a brain, I do not enjoy a brain without a body.......so, I need those receptors as well......

cd.........
 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 390
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Posted: 1/26/2010 5:48:48 PM
Friendly...she doesn't have to say it and neither do you,my "many" post denigrating women are based on real world living and experience...not some nonsense that women are somehow morally or ethically superior to men,always innocent and always the victim or at least always motivated by some altruistic if flawed purposes or agenda....care to point out where i have "denigrated" women...or is it just an empty accusation ? and how do either one of you know what i meant by "price"...you don't...perhaps you think sex is or should be some no strings attached sort of thing...i guess i could have been a "real man" and said that.....image ? i care nothing about my image...i will be who i am and say what i beleive and feel based on my life's experiences.
 TryAgan
Joined: 4/4/2008
Msg: 392
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Posted: 1/26/2010 10:31:57 PM
Sex is still very important, but now I'm willing to interrupt it occasionally for a good lasagna.
 Hippiekinkster
Joined: 1/7/2010
Msg: 393
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Posted: 1/26/2010 10:34:29 PM

ReadMeAPoem: You know, I find it so interesting that the Viagra and Cialis commercials show all kinds of true intimacy - snuggling, handholding, looking deep into each other's eyes - and no emphasis on "wham, bam, thank you ma'am." It seems to me that if more people engaged on those preliminaries, there might be less of a need for those medicines. I miss the intimacy, the affection, and the touching - I wouldn't get into a booty call type relationship - I've been through that. Sex would be wonderful if I knew the person had true affection for me - otherwise, I'll just wait.


I have a close friend with whom I was once intimate. The last time we were together, we removed our clothing and took a brief shower together. I had every expectation of having wild, wet, uninhibited and unrestrained monkey sex with her.

It never happened. Rather, we lay intertwined for the entire afternoon, just holding each other and quietly talking and caressing each other, occasionally lightly kissing. I have never experienced such a blissful few too-brief hours. I was content. I was at peace. I was in a place I had no desire to leave. I was unaware of the passage of time and barely took notice of my surroundings. I felt whole, and wholly at peace.

Sublime. At the risk of sounding like an old Hippie doper, I've only felt similarly two other times in my life that come to mind. Both of those times were under the influence of Psychedelics, and were intensely spiritual. Those, like my afternoon with B, were entirely serendipitous, entirely unexpected, and forever cherished.

Having tasted the Ambrosia of the Cosmos, I despair of having naught but bread and water for my remaining days. (yes, yes, I know, corny. My feeble attempt at poetic imagery. )
 DallasSBF
Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 396
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Posted: 1/27/2010 7:59:41 AM
Less important in that I dont deal with men just so I can have it. But if I am in a relationship I think it is just as important as when I was younger. It went from number three on a reason for having a relationship to number 8 or 9.
But it is still number three for considering it a good relationship.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 1/27/2010 3:23:16 PM
oh YES please!!!!



um... what was the question????

 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
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Posted: 1/27/2010 4:05:06 PM
Friendly,had you chose to quote the entire post which apparently you don't have the integrity to you would see where where she quoted me then denigrated me for it.I said i felt the same way about sex but was not as willing to pay the price,she quoted that and said that i obviously had not "healed" and that it was typical of me and that i or it was "sad".I realize that as a member of the sisterhood these are but minor details but in light of your baseless accusations they do matter in this case....it's post 490 perhaps you should read it again.....and you lack the integrity to quote an entire post instead of just part of it
 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 402
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Posted: 1/27/2010 4:11:49 PM
You did not quote the entire post but only what you wanted to in order to make false accusations....sorry you have no integrity or honesty...and the "price" i referred to is in regard to women such as yourself and moonbeam.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 404
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Posted: 1/27/2010 5:54:07 PM
Much more important (if memory serves me correctly.)
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 408
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Posted: 1/28/2010 12:29:48 PM

almost as much fun as nekkied snow angles


we have a fresh snowfall up here - come on up and give us a demo???

 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 409
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Posted: 1/28/2010 1:07:40 PM

I miss bed hopping such a fun sport almost as much fun as nekkied snow angles



...Damn...and all our snow here is melting.


Is sex as important to you as it once was?


Hell yeah. It's at the top of my "must have's" when searching for my significant other.


...mae
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 410
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Posted: 1/28/2010 1:25:30 PM
It good to know "Mae", that you like to be on "top", so to speak......

OT........The sex is just as important as it once was, but what has changed for the better, is that the person I am having sex with is even more important than the sex itself!!

Life and experience has a way of showing this to you, and my motto is that if I do not enjoy waking up to you as much as I did going bed with you, it will not happen very often!!

So, sex is still important, and getting laid really is not that hard if you truly want it, but getting laid by the right person, oh so much harder to do!!

cd..........
 ScotiaGoldenGirl
Joined: 3/22/2009
Msg: 413
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Posted: 1/28/2010 6:19:53 PM
Of course, but now I know the difference between quanity and quality. Okay, I will be more serious.
I think as we get more mature we learn that sex is far more than physical--good sex that is. It is perhaps a production rather than a performance. Oh - those rehearsals can be life long and change as we do. I hope we have learned much about ways to give and receive pleasure. Sexual expression doesn't have to mean intercourse and good heavens, we can even talk about it, enjoy and celebrate it when it does happen.
And--that it is too important to be the most important part of a relationship.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 416
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Posted: 1/28/2010 6:56:27 PM

It good to know "Mae", that you like to be on "top" , so to speak....



...Yes, I think that sex is an important factor in building and maintaining a strong and healthy relationship....and being on top is always the best position to take with regards to this subject.


So, sex is still important, and getting laid really is not that hard if you truly want it, but getting laid by the right person, oh so much harder to do!!


...And that's why remain on this site...hoping to meet that" right person."


....mae
 Nauti_buoy
Joined: 7/26/2009
Msg: 417
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Posted: 1/28/2010 9:18:46 PM
Yes it is !
I dont have to "have" it now as badly as when I was younger, but I guess now Ive matured a bit I appreciate it maybe even more - but I now also live in almost a sexless marriage......
- I saw a saying I liked the other day
"Sex is a bit like air.......it becomes a big deal when you aint getting enough"

 GAGAL1234
Joined: 11/12/2009
Msg: 419
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Posted: 1/29/2010 12:24:53 PM
I wouldn't enter into a new relationship if sex wasn't possible. If I was in a relationship for a long period of time and later in the relationship the man wasn't able to perform then it wouldn't be a problem. We could show each other daily how much we loved each other in other ways.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 1/29/2010 3:27:29 PM
Sure nuff is! But one thing we all should keep in mind as was pointed out earlier in this thread...sex is wonderful but for god's sake don't hang onto something simply because of that. A recipe for pure disaster! But so very very easy to do
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 1/30/2010 12:35:13 PM
In all honesty, my appetite has not changed but the years brought to light exquisite taste for special "trimmings" and also an appreciation in taking time to consume
 MondoVman
Joined: 4/26/2009
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Posted: 1/31/2010 12:42:59 AM
Important enough to tolerate her need for an exclusive dating relationship prior to sex happening. Women are soooo transparent in this matter, while Men are more direct and honest about sex. Either party may not want to accept the other's physical/sexual short-comings/whatever - but Men would prefer to find out sooner and move on.

The best compromise is she'll decide it's a relationship sooner than later so the sex can happen whereby mutual enlightenment about the other's endowments can happen. Women and men are equally capable and likely to call off a "relationship", regardless it's depth.
 amethyst10616
Joined: 7/23/2009
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Posted: 1/31/2010 9:35:33 AM
It is very important to me, I would not enter into a relationship without the possbility of having that with him.

Exclusivity is about is about letting walls down and allowing the emotional connection to be part of the whole experience. It is a necessary element to me. Sex for just physical pleasure is not something I am going to have. I would be wasting time away from the goal of hoping to find my keeper. Let's not forget as well, even with a condom, there are STD risks involved.
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