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 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 162
Should a woman buy a man a drink on the first date?Page 8 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
I don't see anything wrong for a woman to buy a man a drink. However, it usually it's a reciprocal thing. Meaning, you're both drinking. If only one is drinking it's not cool. First of all, you both will end up in different wavelengths and never connect. Also, it is usually a mutual thing, not imposed on the other. Many dates that I went out, we bought each other drinks and it was no big deal. But again, it has to be reciprocal.
 Wombat59
Joined: 9/3/2008
Msg: 167
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Should a woman buy a man a drink on the first date?
Posted: 1/15/2009 7:12:31 AM
yes - i think so - i would even expect to pay my share of dinner too - but I would be a bit put off by him suggesting it before i had the chance to offer

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 Cogie36
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 173
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Should a woman buy a man a drink on the first date?
Posted: 1/15/2009 2:38:32 PM
If it was a problem and you thought he was being cheap then why didnt you just leave.....
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 175
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Should a woman buy a man a drink on the first date?
Posted: 1/15/2009 3:35:07 PM
Can't wait for the day a girl buys me a drink and takes me home with her! And she has money in the bank and asks me what I think about that and that she will be in the Pink Cadillac. Let's get gone walk it out.....
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