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 StarreGazer
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 65
Gut Instincts in DatingPage 4 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)

Msg: 5 -- The thing that makes me most wary of someone, is when I mention my pet bunnies and they then make a comment about rabbit pie/stew....


Uhh, STEW? Woof! In THAT situation I can think of myself as being ONE **OF** the rabbits, ENJOYING **ALL** of that SEX!!!!

In many ways, animals have it SO MUCH better than us so-called "humans".



Msg: 7 -- 6/ She brags about how many men she has slept with !
Need I go on ?


I think not. That sufficiently describes an undesirable woman.
 StarreGazer
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 66
Gut Instincts in Dating
Posted: 10/28/2008 4:28:32 PM


Msg: 10 --1. The ususal pushing for physical intimacy too soon.


Hmm, "too soon". I disagree with the concept of "too soon", but I WILL agree with your implied premise of INCOMPATIBILITY. If the expressed desire of intimacy from one party is not ENTHUSIASTICALLY embraced by the OTHER, then they ARE incompatible and SHOULD seek other mates.

There is NO SUCH thing as "pushing for physical intimacy too soon". There is only compatiblity and incompatibility.

There is ONLY **ONE** solution for incompatibility; DUMP, RELOAD, meaning drop the incompatible one and search for someone more to your liking.

If both of you are compatible, there is NO "too soon".
 CHAOTICBEAUTINESS
Joined: 9/22/2008
Msg: 67
Gut Instincts in Dating
Posted: 10/28/2008 5:23:52 PM
I often get gut instincts about people that post on here. Some are happy alone. Some aren't happy alone or with anyone. Some don't want others to be happy. Some are happy making others unhappy. Some I wonder why they post. Some I am thankful that they post and know why they are in a happy relationship.

Right now my gut is telling me that my current relationship seems to be going well. But if it goes down hill, I am not sure how my gut will feel.
 StarreGazer
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 68
Gut Instincts in Dating
Posted: 10/28/2008 5:25:20 PM

Msg: 43 -- Everyone has offered reasons to back away, escape, run, shout NEXT


Yes, and I may have been one of the most prolific of the posters you have mentioned. But, my point of stress has ALWAYS been compatibility. Signs of incompatibility have ALWAYS been warnings to hit the "NEXT" button for me. I am not ashamed of that. I post no lies.

I WANT a submissive slave girl who is in tune with my desires, and I state so in my profile. I have NOTHING to hide, so if a woman who is interested in me is repulsed by this, then let her be repulsed. She doesn't want me and I most assuredly have NO desire for her. She hasn't the capacity OR desire to satisfy me.





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