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 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 288
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?Page 19 of 19    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19)

in other words..... trash...

Everyone does have their own opinion. What if you meet someone and she doesn't tell you the truth when you ask the number. What if you have no information at all to tell you how many people she has been with but what she tells you? You date her, you fall in love, one day you marry her. She never tells you and you never find out. You're officially married to a whore/slut/ho. Wouldn't that be a unique thing in your world? It could happen.

~OT~ I have never had a FWB or a FB. Just not my thing. I don't begrudge those who do, however. JMO
 Casper66
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 291
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 3/21/2011 10:29:58 PM
#412 I am nowhere near that range, so that makes her a SLUT in my book. Since she doesn't care about numbers, I'd be more than willing to sign her guestbook. However a serious and committed relationship would be out of question. I am not in 'save a ho' business. Thank you....
This is so hypocritical, you wouldn't consider her for relationship but would do her and then try and convince yourself you are superior and a decent human being. Then resort to childish name calling, this isn't highschool anymore, grown-ups have sex and it's no one elses business what a person has done sexually in their past. If you have to ask how many partners your SO has had, you better be prepared that you might not like the answer, at least she was honest about it and if you can't handle it, then walkaway, you are not compatible sexually. You are the only one who can decide if it is a relationship deal breaker, if you accept it then never bring it up again.
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
Msg: 298
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 3/23/2011 1:18:24 PM

how do you guys feel when your woman tells you she had lot's of casual sex and f-buddies before you met? [70-100]


I feel that she's "easy." I also feel like I want to direct to to the nearest clinic to be tested before I try hitting on her

 cpl_dvldog
Joined: 12/25/2008
Msg: 305
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/9/2011 1:26:19 PM
I would think the context of how the information came about should be considered. Did you drag the info out of her? Did you use deductive reasoning to determine the number? Was she bragging about how many "conquests" she has had in her life? Was she bragging about how easy it is for her to find a guy to take home? If you asked, and she told to give you an honest answer then you need to decide if you can live with her answer, without holding it against her.
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 308
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/11/2011 6:04:36 PM
I may have posted on this thread way back when, but...

I'm not likely to ask how many partners she's had as I don't much care so long as she wants to be with me now and we both agree to the same level of commitment for each other.

I lost my virginity 37 years ago. More than half of the time since then I've been single. I've had more than 30 partners yet have still had long periods of celibacy. Any woman I connect with is likely to be somewhere near my age range and may well have a similar history. Or not. What matters in the OP question is the love. If that's shared, the rest is just the long overgrown path that got us to where we are today.

Now if I met a 53 year old virgin, THAT might be cause for concern...

dave
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/13/2011 11:43:41 PM

Now if I met a 53 year old virgin ,THAT might be cause for a concern... dave



LOL!!! If I were a man I would be concern too..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/15/2011 10:35:39 AM
^^^^^^^^ You don't cook "cats' You skin them alive in the dark.....
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/15/2011 1:58:01 PM
What's good for the goose, is good for the gander. "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you might find, you get what you need." -Rolling Stones Why would there be different rules for men, and different rules for women? What's the difference? As long as safe sex was practiced, that's all that would matter. People put too much emphasis on sex. Remember.... it's just an act. That's why it's called a sex act. When your in love, it is something else.
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 315
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/15/2011 7:03:09 PM
I can't imagine why a person would even answer the How many people have you slept with? question. I know I never do. If someone wants to dwell in my past they aren't for me. I certainly don't dwell there. Just be glad I know how to do that thing I do and don't ask questions. *innocent smile*
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/15/2011 8:47:17 PM

(2) I'm not embarrassed by anything I've ever done, so as far as Im concerned, it's like asking me where I went on vacations.



So where did you go?
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 319
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/16/2011 5:20:09 AM

(2) I'm not embarrassed by anything I've ever done, so as far as Im concerned, it's like asking me where I went on vacations.


I'm not embarrassed either, it just isn't anyone's business. I would never ask and I never answer. Like I said - why care about what or who I've done - just be glad I'm doing you.
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/16/2011 11:21:41 AM
I'm not embarrassed either, it just isn't anyone's business. I would never ask and I never answer. Like I said - why care about what or who I've done - just be glad I'm doing you.


I respect your privacy. Please don't take this personally, but see your answer is negative meaning you Are hiding something. I am very open I have nothing to hide, because I always tell the truth, and I like honesty. This means I never have to remember the story I told one person, and a story I told another. You should watch Judge Judy. She will set you straight.
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 321
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/16/2011 11:27:51 AM

I respect your privacy. Please don't take this personally, but see your answer is negative meaning you Are hiding something. I am very open I have nothing to hide, because I always tell the truth, and I like honesty. This means I never have to remember the story I told one person, and a story I told another.


I am being honest. It is no one's business. Plain and simple. Nothing negative about it. Hiding something and choosing not to share something aren't the same thing. I'm not lying about my number, just don't disclose it. No stories to worry about keeping straight here. If I say it you can bank on it. I'm too busy to lie and have to waste time to sort stuff out.


You should watch Judge Judy. She will set you straight.


*shrug* I don't even have t.v. That stuff will rot your brain!
 UnixGrand
Joined: 5/9/2011
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/16/2011 11:55:14 AM

*shrug* I don't even have t.v. That stuff will rot your brain!


For some that's true. For others it's not.


I am being honest. It is no one's business. Plain and simple. Nothing negative about it. Hiding something and choosing not to share something aren't the same thing. I'm not lying about my number, just don't disclose it. No stories to worry about keeping straight here. If I say it you can bank on it. I'm too busy to lie and have to waste time to sort stuff out.


Ok.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 323
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/16/2011 12:11:59 PM
i would say ,i just won the
i much rather have a woman that is comfortable with
 Bookbelle
Joined: 10/24/2008
Msg: 324
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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 5/16/2011 2:05:53 PM
I know guys who claim to have slept with around 100 people. By the OP's basis, are these guys never allowed to settle down/get married etc simply because of their sexual history?
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