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 fellfromheaven
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 26
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Hmmwellnow..youre a trip
 PrincessLayOnYA
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 27
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 8:56:17 AM
Why should pretty people intimidate anyone?? Just because someone is pretty doesnt make them a better person than you. And whats pretty to some aint to others
 tiffi78
Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 28
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 8:56:22 AM
momentarily i am, then i feel sorry for then for a split secont. must suck to be considered unaproachable because you are just to good looking.
 SweetKristine
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 29
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 8:59:55 AM
good answers everyone :)

*hoses down blonde and 7* ;)
*and mane and irish*
lol


agstang...why george? fred is a much better name


ot: im working on not being intimidated by pretty people...but i think its an insecurity i have..this totally hot guy emailed me and i kept going uh did he have the right email? lol...i mean look at all the geourgous men and women on here who are single...just like me lol
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 30
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:15:32 AM
don't be intimidated by anyone! easy advice to give but hard to follow, i know.

i think i'm a pretty person. i get looks, i get admired and i get both sweet and nasty comments.

what intimidates me is sophisticated, highly educated people. i am a simple country girl. i'll drink beer from a can, curse and i can bait my own hook.

don't ask me about food, wine or cars that cost over $12,000 but i can throw down and handle my liquor.

besides, i think everyone here is cute too. just in different ways
 indigo rose
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 31
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:15:50 AM
I sit and sketch people at cafes or the mall....sometimes a face just mesmerizes me !
I love to look at the pretty's
 Pandy
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 32
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:20:04 AM
<--not intimidated by anything but chickens :D
 Lippyblonde
Joined: 8/7/2004
Msg: 33
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:22:08 AM
I only get intimidated if they have nicer shoes on. Then I go shopping.

On the serious note, I have always been told that "I thought you were so stuck up and a ****, but you are the opposite". So that goes to show you it's only a package. I am the same as you, you are the same as me, and if you are happy with your INSIDES, then there is no reason you should feel intimidated.

OH and! ever see a really "pretty" guy and say he looks like an ***hole? 9 x out of 10 he is, but then again ... Haha just kidding! I joke I joke!

 jared1075
Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 34
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:22:22 AM
Not in the least bit. Well...she might intimidate me a little^^^....no I'm good...
 Lippyblonde
Joined: 8/7/2004
Msg: 35
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:31:01 AM
^^^*shivas*
 fellfromheaven
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 36
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:57:16 AM
@Pandy.. I thought I was the only one..Chickens intimidate me too When I see a KFC Im crossing the road LMAO
 Breifne
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 37
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 10:08:06 AM
If I jump on this thread now, can I still be one of the 'not so tough to look at guys' too?

The word "intimidated" is a little too strong to descibe how I feel around pretty people, but I am more guarded and I'm more likely to ignore them and focus on 'real' people. That's also true in a different (but similar) way for smart pple, witty pple, really big guys at the gym and ultra successful people - people who have that. "I'm the real deal" aura. I'm not sure whether it's resentment or envy or plain old feeling inferior - but it happens. I find the best way to overcome that feeling is to address it by addressing them. Like the Chinese proverb that says, "your fears will vanish if you face them bravely." I often find that in talking to them, even if only for a moment, two things happen: 1) I discover they are not as imposing as I thought they were (is that a pimple I see?), and 2) I recognize that I am things/have done things they are not/have not. It's amazing what a little eye contact can do. When you look at that pretty person you are seeing their strongest asset, compare it with YOUR strongest asset and watch as the scale balances.
 mainegrad
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 38
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 10:08:42 AM
^^^ he intimidates me...so hot and so smart....



 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 39
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 10:10:03 AM
yes. but then sometimes i think its funny to be embarrassed so i just dont care
 Breifne
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 40
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 10:12:31 AM
Thanks Maria. If we can't be pretty we can at least be compassionate.
 Scottislovinlife
Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 41
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Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 12:24:31 PM
aww why do all the lovely ladies have to be outside my area
 Scottislovinlife
Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 42
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Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 12:25:40 PM
hey marinegrad ill be there but are clothes optional
 gurlznotgrey39
Joined: 12/12/2004
Msg: 43
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 12:28:28 PM
I am really not intimidated by too many ppl, except for people who are highly intelligent, who can kick my ass in a conversation........


as far as pretty people....nah....(Just like me they are gonna grow old, looks don't last forever, trust me I know!)....... scary people yes!
 eviledante
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 44
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 1:10:56 PM
im definately intimidated by pretty girls because when it comes to girls you never know who there gonna be ive had beautiful girls tell me to **** off and ive had beautiful girls tell me im extremely attractive,its come to the point where i wont even go up and talk to a girl i think is really pretty and if they talk to me i think there just being nice,so i guess everybody has some kind of hang up..
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 45
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 1:16:08 PM
I am not intimidated by pretty people, just irritated by people who think they are hotter than they are...
 Pandy
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 46
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 1:21:56 PM

sometimes i think its funny to be embarrassed so i just dont care


I have a growing appreciation for men who blush
 luvinlittleyellowjacket
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 47
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 1:30:39 PM
No I'm not intimidated by pretty people cause
I know they are not any better than I am.
 luvinlittleyellowjacket
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 48
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 1:33:52 PM

I am really not intimidated by too many ppl, except for people who are highly intelligent, who can kick my ass in a conversation........


Ok... I'm definitely intimidated by those people also.
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 49
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 1:34:55 PM
Thanks, Nina...you're pretty, too. And welcome to the forums!
 SweetKristine
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 50
Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 6/14/2005 1:38:43 PM
bre---i have a feeling lots of ladies are gonna like you on pof ;)


Always feel confident about yourself and other people will feel that about you and therefor the intimidation part of you will disipate very quickly

^^^i think thats a great point....confidence is something for me anyways that takes a lot of work..i know i have a great personality..just didnt get the package i always wanted ;) hehe...i have noticed when i hold my head up high..and like me...others do too




..In the end beauty comes from presonality. And if some one has a pretty personality you wont have to feel intimidated


^^^also agree w/that point to...ive always thought...looks come and go..but personality shines though...although it helps to be attracted to someone :)
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