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 coopmi83
Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 369
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Older women are not about games and know what they want. They are more confident than younger women or women in my age range.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 370
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 10:22:53 AM
the thrill and exciement of new sex, better sex and them being in control and knowing what their doing.
they probably have the idea it will be kinkier and its just a fetish i guess in a way.
Ill never know the appeal for sure though lol
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 371
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 12:32:55 PM
Men want to have sex with older women because they don't tell, don't swell, and the're grateful as hell. lol

In most relationships there is a "balance." Youth has a value, beauty has a value, personality has a value, money has a value. Two equally attractive people of roughly the same age are "balanced."

In most relationships, one has something that "balances" what the other has.

Money=youth, beauty=money, and so forth

Any time you see an old man or woman with a young attractive partner, odds are, the older one has money. Do you really think those models think Hugh Heffner or some of the nasty looking rock stars would be irrestible without the fame and money?
 Sciencetreker
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 372
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 1:02:33 PM

Do you really think those models think Hugh Heffner or some of the nasty looking rock stars would be irrestible without the fame and money?


I don't base my perception of reality on celebrities .
 egowitch
Joined: 6/5/2011
Msg: 373
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 1:35:27 PM
heh- because we're AWEsome ! That's why !
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 374
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 6:15:18 PM
What She ^^^ said
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 375
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 6:32:34 PM
just lookinDFW

It would have ended sooner or later and surely your self respect would suffer knowing you were being kept by an older woman?? It is not normal really for a teenager to want to be with a woman who could be, at a pinch, his mother. What would you have in common? I dont imagine you even went out on dates with each other?
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 376
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 6:34:13 PM
sciencetreker

sure we know that the older uglier rich men buy their women. For me there is no kudos in that. But men seem to think there is.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 377
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 6:37:36 PM
besamemucho

Yes for a fling. T he younger man one way or another usually wants the older woman to pay for him in subtle and not so subtle ways. He doesnt want to date or commit so the older woman is ideal, at least for a while. He would nearly always be seeing other people and getting his sexperience from her.
 Sciencetreker
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 378
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Posted: 4/6/2012 7:18:01 PM
sure we know that the older uglier rich men buy their women. For me there is no kudos in that. But men seem to think there is


That's a low opinion of women.

Don't incude me in the 'we' that know this. I don't know of any ugly rich guys who have bought their women. ... and I personally don't know of the men you think there is kudos in it. Unlike you it's just not part of my experience.

Then again, I'm a mere mortal and live in the real world and not some fantasy portrayed on TV.
 hockeyc999
Joined: 12/21/2011
Msg: 379
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 8:01:59 PM
Ode to the courgar :)

Im 19 and would love to be a playmate/cub for a courgar who had in interest in younger guys. I usually go after older girls anyways. :) Courgars feel free to message me!
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 380
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/6/2012 8:48:33 PM
i've heard less mess less games know what we want out of a man an a relationship have more exsperience in differant areas of life an not just sexually...

an also because some are so curious for somebody grown an more mature..
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 381
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/7/2012 7:27:41 AM
Frankie.....call me hahahaha j/k
 patriciaMcray
Joined: 2/4/2012
Msg: 382
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/7/2012 8:25:21 AM
Am not interested in why--just the sincerity part--seems like since I have been single again, younger men want me. It may be just for sex. So far I have found no sincerity in younger men. It should not be so hard to find honesty, but sadly in this day and age it is. It is no compliment to be played by a younger man, in fact just the opposite, it hurts like heck!!! Come on guys at least be honest with your intentions
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 383
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/7/2012 9:06:41 AM
well isn't that a coincidence. lol
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 384
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/7/2012 9:37:36 AM
Older women might also be in tune with their "inner zlut" so to speak.
They are more likely to allow their sexuality to develop a role as a more dominant source of dynamic energy.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 385
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 1:26:57 AM
darightguy

I think you are right. Whenever there is an age discrepancy there may be ulterior motives as it is not the norm.'
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 386
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 9:33:31 AM

Why do some younger guy want to have sex with older woman?


Hmm, Me thinks the younger guys wants to investigate if "down there" have a plastic surgery too like their smooth faces that looks like 23 years old... Hey ! dont look at me I can think can I...............
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 387
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 2:16:32 PM
@pinkpetal5 sweetheart GO FOR IT an see where things lead.. even if things do or dont workout or even if you 2 end up good friends 18-80 blind cripple or crazy men will be men.. an if you was talking about a 50yr old an saying should i go for it it would be the same questions or issues if things didnt workout only differance is you would exspect the older to more have his s hit together then younger but infact there are older men who still play games are liars cheaters an abusers mentally an physically so age anit to be nothing but a number in the case..


if he's acting like talking like an looking like he's on grown man status then give it a chance being with a guy older then you doesnt ever promise more maturity or less problems hell the older some guys are the more emotional an physicall baggage they come with..
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 388
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 3:20:12 PM
@ domo31 YUP ME too.
 balrog67
Joined: 4/1/2012
Msg: 389
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 3:31:55 PM
I lost my cherry to an older woman. Had an affinity for them ever since. We are the products of our experiences, neh?
 Helloitsmeyourlookingfor
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 390
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/9/2012 11:47:33 AM
Pink

Don't let the "number" bother you. I say it like that, because I think there might be other issues (like him lying until you were in the sack). In addition, be sure that it is only the number that separates you.

Surely do not listen to Leonalioness rants of how it could never work. It could never work for her, not necessarily the same for others.

It can work. Probably not a forever thing, but a long term thing. My story has been told on this subject numerous times.

I was 25 and she was 45. I met her through my job (she was a customer). I asked her out for coffee, ended up at her house, we talked all night long. The sex didn't even happen till the sun was rising. I moved in the next day. That relationship lasted 4 wonderful years. I was the one who broke it off. Hitting 30 and not having any kids (even though I kept telling myself that I never wanted kids) probably was the motivation behind my exiting the relationship. The relationship was great right up until the day I left.

Just like any other relationship.... its what goes on when the sex isn't going on that will determine the success of the relationship.

Enjoy!!!
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 391
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/10/2012 10:02:03 AM

I think its an ego thing on their part in whatever way that may be conceived, its has been mentioned on here that young girls can be cruel. Yes I agree with this. I have had a friends with benefits type relationship with a guy 15 years younger than me.

He wasn't particular gifted in the size of his penis, very good looking and a very caring guy. I think younger girls have been cruel towards him about his size.

I truly believe if he were better endowed he would not have an attraction to older women...?




For whatever reason, (Small****or not) I think young guys who chase or submit to an older woman's advances are generally guys who aren't getting much attention from women their own age. Or they have received too much negative attention from women their own age. Some very young men see dating (slightly) older women as an affirmation of their maturity and manhood.
 marcus_biggs
Joined: 4/2/2011
Msg: 392
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/21/2012 5:03:33 AM
The only way you get better, is by facing a better opponent..

Soo... If **** with an older more experiennced woman in her 30's 40'ss... My sexuall prowess.. Would grow leaps and bounnds.. And onnce that agge gap fiasco ends.. Fair exchange, her experience for my youthful energy.
I can go smash a younger or same aged woman, with those experiencce, knowledge.

Also.. Many women 19 to 29 aarre goofy in general..m and older women learn that **** isn't something to be put up on a pedestal over****. They work together, use'em.
 hockeyc999
Joined: 12/21/2011
Msg: 393
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/21/2012 8:54:50 PM
I find I relate more to older women than younger immature girls; and I find myself relating to older women and leaning towards dating older girls and women. In addition, I personally find older woman very attractive. :)
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