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 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 394
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I was never into the older woman thing. But, when I was younger I had friends who were. What was their attraction? Older women were easy. Yeah, I said it. It was as plain and simple as that. These would be women who were desperately trying to cling to their youth, foolishly believing it when some guy told them they looked younger than they were. Or, they were recently divorced and afraid that perhaps no one would want them now that they were older and had kids. But, the fact remains my friends could dog them out big time. They guys could go to the clubs and strike out and then on the way home stop at the older woman's house and do her. Worse, sometimes they would score at the club and still go and do the older woman. They were always making jokes and laughing about it, too. Some were using the older women just to support them. All in all, it was pretty pathetic.
 sfokorikos
Joined: 9/12/2010
Msg: 395
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/22/2012 11:53:43 AM
Lets face it....young guys want to have someone that can take control and know wat to do. especially in sex young guys want older women bc they are experienced and they know wat exactly they want. My question is why older women dont try to have fun and have a young guy.....they hesitate? who knows
 hockeyc999
Joined: 12/21/2011
Msg: 396
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/22/2012 1:20:50 PM
domo31 Feel free to take a run at me lol, I know i'd be interested :)
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 397
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/22/2012 1:29:52 PM
I blame the "American Pie" series of movies that popularized the term "MILF" and glorified older, sexy, sexually-in-heat, sexually aggressive, knows-what-she-wants & how to get it, women (e.g. Stifler's Mom)

many younger guys might be tired of usually being the aggressor and believe an older woman might more likely take the initiative
 acsmith72
Joined: 12/3/2011
Msg: 398
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/24/2012 12:09:25 AM
Younger men aren't looking for older women. Younger men are looking for ****. Specifically easy ****. Top of the list is anything that has a vagina as young as possible without the possibility of handcuffs. If an older (easy) woman is offering sex, they'll take that. Most of us would. I'm 39 and I once ****ed a woman in her 60s at a swinger's party.
 L,A, Woman
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 399
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/24/2012 7:27:43 PM
It is purely sexual, they think the older are more experienced. They just want to try older. They don't want a relationship with you so be careful if that is what you want. This is from a woman's point of view and from chatting with younger men usually the conversation takes the sex turn and well you get the picture.
 alanstuart
Joined: 12/2/2011
Msg: 400
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/25/2012 4:30:33 AM
younger men enjoy the mystic of an older gal
 largepickle
Joined: 3/26/2012
Msg: 401
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/25/2012 4:41:32 AM
Maybe these guys are really looking for mommies
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 402
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/25/2012 2:14:28 PM
I don't know, this has to be the puzzle of the ages.

It's right up there with that other mystery, ......... why do lions like to eat fresh meat??
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 403
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/25/2012 2:33:20 PM
Younger men dont want to "date" older women. They want to have uncommitted sex. I think that women are hotter for longer nowadays and have the sexperience as well. They feel we are more tolerant and in some cases, willing to pay for them in certain ways. We wont yell, dont tell and grateful as hell. This is a bit of an urban myth..
 zelo-zelo
Joined: 3/15/2012
Msg: 404
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/25/2012 3:21:30 PM
Simply, less drama!
 Helloitsmeyourlookingfor
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 405
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/26/2012 12:27:53 PM

I've also heard men say they went out with girls and wanted to say, SHUT UP


Can't disagree with that statement.

All you people who think it is all about sex are not correct.
Granted there are those that are out for sex regardless of age and looking for the easy lay. The easy lay is just as easy to come by at age 19 as it is for an older woman.

My experiences with older women (4 long term relationships of more than 3 years with women 15 to 22 years older, and currently 7 year difference) have been about the relationship.

Like any relationship... if you focus on your differences, the relationship is headed down the toilet. If you focus on your common interests.... that is a key to success.

so SHUT UP!!!!! lol
 maydecember
Joined: 4/30/2009
Msg: 406
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/4/2012 8:39:20 PM
Older women are smarter(worldly and wise), more fun(more relaxed and sure of themselves), more in the moment than worrying about the future, more sensual(by far), more open, more caring, more sexual(by far, yes, by far!) and some of us just think they are much more interesting and beautiful. That's my life experience and my story and I will never change, until I get old enough to not to be younger anymore.
 cougerluvr
Joined: 3/10/2012
Msg: 407
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/6/2012 6:20:45 AM
ive always been attracted to much older women tend to know what the want with no games
 Troyrunlover21
Joined: 2/2/2012
Msg: 408
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/6/2012 7:12:57 AM
Because the whole thought that women mature so much faster than men is complete BS and outdated. I have been in over eleven relationships with girls from just about every demographic background. And I can personally inform you that dating women 18-26 is usually equivalent to raising a child once you get past the attraction stage of her trying to be fun and pretty to get you be with her.

And the original poster has a strong misconception of what men as a whole find more attractive about older women. In 2012 your average young American female is usually overweight or very skinny. A cougar or (MILF) whom your referring to has a completely developed body and does not have the insecurities younger women have.

Personally, I date women my age but you can't deny the sexual characteristics are stronger on 30-45 year old women than your average teenager. And it's silly to say there are some men who are just more attracted to the idea of older women but it's not just guys. You are ignoring the average age in marriages if you say only guys dated older partners.
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 409
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/6/2012 11:45:16 AM
Uhhh......when i was a young man i'd have sex with anything that had a pulse and 2 legs........i'm proud to say it's good some things never change.....hold on i'll be right back...some old lady is walking down the street...with a slight wiggle..
 BlackJacket87
Joined: 4/13/2010
Msg: 410
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/6/2012 2:52:43 PM
Maybe they like antiquing?
 TheOtherMichaelKeaton
Joined: 5/28/2012
Msg: 411
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/7/2012 8:07:07 PM
Because they know what the **** they're doing!
 firecat2117
Joined: 4/7/2011
Msg: 412
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/7/2012 9:17:45 PM
I have always been atracted to "older women". I think I was born to late, I relate to the hippie types maybe because of growing up in the 80's? The funny thing is older woman are atracted to me. I understand if you put yourself outthere people sense it. I would rather go out with a 58 year old classy lady that a 28 year old Hottie anyday.

ps whens the last time you been with a 20 something that could have muti org and the lay in bed and talk about something thats wasn't about her?
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 413
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/8/2012 2:05:28 AM
cause ver insecure n feel that as ver young ver mre attractive. also older women r mre expereinced n sensitive n can beter guide a inexpereinced male.
 ghostlove36
Joined: 3/11/2012
Msg: 414
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/10/2012 2:23:10 PM
because most older woman have it together and know what they want.
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 415
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/10/2012 6:11:23 PM
Because they watch to much porn.
 blurose
Joined: 7/28/2006
Msg: 416
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/10/2012 6:48:18 PM
I've read alot of the posts here and I am surprised there is very lttle substance....has anyone bothered
to read statitics of successful relationships these days??? Sex is a good thing but it's more then that.

The most stable long lasting marriages/relationships are usually older woman younger man...it is beginning to take over as a rule. 51% of marriages end in divorce but of the remaining 49% 23% is older with younger
this does not include the relationships that never get married. The older woman younger man statistic is growing faster because there is less taboo in society or less concern by the indiviuals.

I am for whatever anyone wants....Kudos to all whom enjoy a loving long term relationship regardless of age or orientation! Hugs!
 Abercrombiecam
Joined: 2/9/2012
Msg: 417
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/10/2012 6:50:28 PM
Because sleeping with someone older than you means they know more than you in bed. I've only ever slept with one girl older than I am and that was when I was a senior in HS and she was a sophomore in college. And yes she knew more than me. Probably due to the fact I was in HS!
 klove2008
Joined: 12/21/2010
Msg: 418
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/10/2012 10:12:34 PM
I think its because they didn't have a mom who was interested in there daily life.
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