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 priesus
Joined: 8/18/2009
Msg: 444
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Ok it'd be wrong for me not to throw in my 2 cents...Back in 2009 I was working a college part time job at a Walmart here in Minnesota and just broke up with my ex of a couple years. I made friends with a 42-year-old co worker and I was 20. We hit it off and fairly quickly we "knocked some out of the park". It wasn't based off of sex but what I discovered was being with an older woman had some very nice perks...for instance, insecurity tends to drift away with age. They do not tend to hound a million questions on you like you're causing mischief like a younger woman would do. Maturity...You can go out to bars and have fun times with them and you're not likely going to have to perform keg stands and hangovers all the time. She also presented with me with great advice. We ended up seeing each other til about 6 months ago (I'm now almost 24 and she's almost 46) and found out the age difference does not always work, which happened in my case after 3 years but I had great times, learned a lot, she was smoking beautiful and ended up maturing myself. And yes, they do know what they're doing...lol
 Eros_realm
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 445
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/14/2012 12:22:04 AM
Most of the older women I know are very open.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 446
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/14/2012 5:10:12 AM
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman? because they are young. Eventually as they get older and wiser they will learn.
 italianhunk75
Joined: 1/29/2011
Msg: 447
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/14/2012 10:10:27 AM
Maturity, experience, plus older woman dont want the money, fancy cars, etc like younger ones. I love older females because they are more serious then younger.
 FisherMane2012
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 448
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/15/2012 8:36:21 AM
[Because we Rock........in and out of bed]
Exactly
 searching4nice
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 449
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/18/2012 11:28:59 PM
lmao I bet it's not!!
 Firearms55
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 450
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 8:22:21 AM
You go Spitfireee...... I have always considered myself to be very good in or out of bed and do know that age has made me better at both....... YES....... we do ROCK !!!
 asiam59
Joined: 1/19/2010
Msg: 451
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 9:12:22 AM
So you want to be a gigolo?
 candy1004
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 452
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 10:30:25 AM
Because they think we know what we want and are more mature. If tht is the case, why don't they stick around.
 bigsexidaddy713
Joined: 12/15/2011
Msg: 453
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 10:32:27 AM
cause you beautiful older women know what yall doing when yall doing it
 lorijade1222
Joined: 7/18/2012
Msg: 454
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 10:48:01 AM
I find that a little harsh....
 Lizbeth56
Joined: 1/2/2011
Msg: 455
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 10:56:56 AM
Because older women can't get pregnant, so there's nothing for them to worry about...
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 456
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 11:01:41 AM
I think you hit the nail on the head with that response Lizbeth56
 Lizbeth56
Joined: 1/2/2011
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/19/2012 11:01:53 AM
Plus they think older women are desperate, so they find it easier than getting women their own age..
 newbie774
Joined: 6/25/2012
Msg: 458
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/20/2012 6:45:35 AM
When I was younger I found older women very seductive.. There is a lot to be said about the way a woman carries and maintains herself..
 thehost3524
Joined: 8/16/2012
Msg: 459
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 8/20/2012 8:50:51 PM
i just find older women more physically attractive. give me roz from frasier any day of the week.
 graham_best
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 460
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/28/2012 9:43:53 PM
I've been with older women. I find they don't want to play as much cat and mouse games and younger girls. they don't giggle as much or about such stupid things. they (younger girls) don't really seem to be comfortable with their bodies and say no about being touched somewhere that you could touch (them) when they had their clothing on. Sex with older women is just plain better. Conversation isn't about hooking up so, conversation seems more friend based then with an younger girl. Again, it's just plain better. This isn't 100% true but it's true enough to make it a workable theory. BOYS KEEP ON THE OLDER LADIES!
 graham_best
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 461
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/28/2012 9:48:48 PM
thats a good question? I don't know, I was with a 48 year old accountant. really that could of worked out great for me. Her son was 9 years younger then me, weirded me out when she was gone. She was my moms age, the thought of her and my mom going out bothered me, and after thinking about it they would of got along. That bothered me too. The nest few times we were together, it started feeling a bit more real. Meaning I thought about these other "cons"
 lilsoccermom
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 462
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/29/2012 11:34:00 AM
I've only been w/younger men my whole life. Older men creep me out, too clingy, too much drama, etc. Young guys are FUN, and most definitely have better bodies :)
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 463
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/29/2012 1:00:23 PM
LIZBETH56 your not always correct about the pregnancy answer as my Dr reminded me. Tho a viable pregnancy would be rare I dont want to find out. Now about the. Young guys. Im glad they like me because I soo like them lol. There are so many reasons. More experience, more open & Wilder in bed. Easier to tell fantasies to or try something new. Better communication. And more. I also have another " theory " it may go back to who excited them when they were young & who they fantasized & masturbated to. Maybe a neighbor, older family member, family friend, grocery store cashier lol. Teacher & the good old librarian thing. Tho most librarians I've seen aren't like the ones in guys fantasies. So they are turned on, even subconsciously, by someone who may remind them of that woman.
 violynn615
Joined: 7/2/2012
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Posted: 9/29/2012 6:53:25 PM
That does have a lot to do with it.
 lilsoccermom
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 465
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/29/2012 7:13:45 PM
LOL! I am a teacher, so this made me laugh
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 466
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/29/2012 10:16:22 PM
If attracting a hotter younger lover is perverse and immature, so be it!!!. As for being insecure, that does not make sense. It would be a feather in a woman's cap to have the hottie in bed and one who can keep up and keep it up. Older men always have to buy a younger woman, one way or another but it is not true in reverse, necessarily. However relationships between men and women who are older, do not usually last for many reasons and society usually frowns on it. However, who wants some old codger grunting and groaning , sweaty and wrinkly, with his jowls dangling and a heart attack imminent. Not me. lol!
 HennyLopez
Joined: 10/2/2012
Msg: 468
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 12/8/2012 9:48:48 PM
I know I hear you, my ex is 15 years older than me. Owns her own business, drives a corvette and a cadillac, has a house on the ocean with a boat. I miss her every morning I wake up lol.
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