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 weekdaylover
Joined: 2/22/2006
Msg: 655
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In my case a few years ago, I found older women to be more confident, more clearly communicate what they're after, are not self-conscious during sex (which makes it MUCH more enjoyable for both of us), and of course........experienced. Teenage girls & early twenty-somethings are up for any type of experimentation, but then become more reserved for many years for various reasons. 40+ & 50+ year old ladies seem to lose those reservations and seem more comfortable with themselves & their sexuallity.
 gofurguy
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 656
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 12/12/2012 12:05:25 PM
even at my age i still enjoy a older woman, i have been with younger and at times much younger but have found being more satisfied. i believe younger women have preset expectations and older ladies just let it happen
 born2bwild1900
Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 657
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/15/2013 9:17:39 PM
coz they have saggy boobs and miss the wrinkles
 MaryEllen70
Joined: 9/21/2012
Msg: 658
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/16/2013 1:03:49 AM
Perfectly worded!
 scorprockscorps
Joined: 12/25/2012
Msg: 659
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/16/2013 3:25:31 AM
Hmm everything I can think of has probably been said already. Generally though, I like older women because they go much slower in relationships. They don't expect or demand so much of you other than taking care of yourself and your responsibilities. They're usually more emotionally and mentally stable. Imo you can connect on deeper levels of understanding than you can with younger women. They don't play games, they say what the mean and mean what they say.
 DANQQ4DA1
Joined: 1/6/2009
Msg: 660
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/16/2013 4:07:26 AM
Mary Ellen, could it be that more older women "need" younger men now?? :)
 FitnessGuy33
Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 661
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/16/2013 8:42:59 AM
Older women are more experienced (life and sexually), play no head games, more sophisticated, successful, more independant.
 _Lucian_
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 662
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/16/2013 3:58:46 PM
Older women are more sane than younger women.
 Gracizdad
Joined: 9/24/2012
Msg: 663
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:01:46 PM
The answer is simple really! THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR EXPERIENCE!!!!!!

Nuff said!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 664
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:31:38 PM
Because a Mature Lady Knows what the Hell she's Doing!!

Young chicks are pretty, and all...but a Lady of about 40 or more...
will send you to MARS!!
 Lucky...13
Joined: 12/28/2012
Msg: 665
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:55:02 PM
Because the cub likes having the Cougar pay for his meals, buy his clothes etc. And this bothers you?
 AquaLinda
Joined: 12/12/2012
Msg: 666
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 5:03:56 PM
sunderlandvak - these days a lot of young women are already out of shape, overweight, smoke, and wrinkled prematurely from excessive sun bed use. I;m in my forties and I'm in better shape (figure, skin, health, tightness) than a lot of girls half my age. I have never gotten any complaints from younger men, in fact, most don't even believe me when I tell them my age. And I'm sure I'm not the only "older woman" who can easily compete with younger ones in the looks department.
 Sandybeaches69
Joined: 12/23/2012
Msg: 667
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 7:00:39 PM
Love this post!!!
 Ted_tspark
Joined: 3/10/2012
Msg: 668
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 7:08:13 PM

I thought men were visual and how can you find a woman say 20 years older than you (wider, saggier, wrinkled) attractive? Doesnt the difference in skin, hair, body, face ect turn you off?


Ummm...lets try an analogy:

Brand spanking new Porsche with all the bells and whistles....

versus....

The Camaro SS from the movie "Better Off Dead"...yeah...that one.

Some...not all....simply get more beautiful with age and experience.
Some...not all...take excellent care of themselves.

Its all relative and equally applies to men and women.
 Sandybeaches69
Joined: 12/23/2012
Msg: 669
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 7:09:20 PM
I,m 60 & have been in the sun & sunbeds for many years.There are many things besides tanning that make awoman look old....old hairstyles & outdated makeup & clothes, old attitudes.I don't feel I have to compete with any age woman! 40 or 20!!!!! lol Go sixties....
 kjay41
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 670
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 7:34:51 PM
They want the experience, some want the less inhibited; all kinds of reasons, but I don't give a younger guy anytime of the day when they approach me in public....I am 47 soon to be 48 and it's uncomfortable for me to have a young guy my son's age to talk to me in that manner.
 AnotherWestSider
Joined: 12/27/2012
Msg: 671
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 9:27:25 PM
Older women are so much more fun. I could give you reasons, but they've already been posted. I want a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it. And a mature woman does.
 AquaLinda
Joined: 12/12/2012
Msg: 672
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/25/2013 2:36:20 PM
sunderlandvak - Thank you first of all ;-). All younger men that I have dated have actually stuck around longer, have been more respectful and communicative than men my age that I have dated. They have expressed feelings for me, whereas again the older ones have been very guarded. One of the young men I dated even proposed to me after one year of knowing me, but I told him no, because he is really still just a baby. But we are still good friends. Most young men I have dated so far have always stayed in touch after having sex, being very sweet and polite, whereas guys my age have turned out to be total jerks, without exception, sadly. Actually, I have been the one several times who has held the young guys at arms length when it came to having a relationship because I feel they should still be out sowing their wild oats, even if it hurts my feelings. The last young guy I met turned into more after just one "meeting". He wanted to stay in touch and I really fell for him. He is out of the country for the next 7 months or so (military), and there has been some drama with another girl, so I know he is not ready for a real relationship. But he still is sweet, tells me misses me, can't wait to see me again, etc. So who knows, only time will tell. The bottom line is - I've had zero luck with guys my age as far as relationships. They really ONLY wanted sex from me, whereas the younger ones were much more open to more than just sex. Go figure.
 434handyman
Joined: 1/21/2013
Msg: 673
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/25/2013 2:44:11 PM
Because all the older women have had it with balding, overweight, no teeth men. Most men have ignored their wives sexually and when the divorce is final they jump on the cougar bandwagon to make up for lost time. the young men love it, and I hate it because I was born 20 years too early and am missing my calling because I have always been attracted to older women. The young guys like older women because they are WAY better in bed sexually than the young women. Older women are begging for young men and this is a fad that will probobly not go away because older men continue to ignore the needs of women, and continue to get fat, ugly, and basically disgusting.
 434handyman
Joined: 1/21/2013
Msg: 674
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/25/2013 2:47:26 PM
Cougars don't want a relationship. They are looking for sex! I do not count cougars that are 10 years younger than their mate. Some relationships are fine there. What I am talking about are 50 year old women having sex with 25-30 year olds. That's what I classify a cougar as. If he could be your son, and you are ****ing his brains out, then welcome to cougarland.
 Sandybeaches69
Joined: 12/23/2012
Msg: 675
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/26/2013 2:47:46 AM
Poor pitiful older women....just accepting what younger men choose to give them! Mommy pleasing...give me a break! I don't want to take care of him, I want him to take care of me.If he can't ,he's outta there! Bahahaha!
 Sandybeaches69
Joined: 12/23/2012
Msg: 676
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/26/2013 2:48:13 AM
Poor pitiful older women....just accepting what younger men choose to give them! Mommy pleasing...give me a break! I don't want to take care of him, I want him to take care of me.If he can't ,he's outta there! Bahahaha!
 LOVETOSTICK
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 678
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/11/2015 7:35:36 AM
THE OLDER THE BERRY THE SWEETER THE JUICE AND THE OLD BERRY DON'T MIND HOW ITS BEING EATEN
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 679
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 6/12/2015 6:51:32 AM
Several possible reasons. They think older women are easy or desperate. They think sex with an older woman will be better. I had sex with women that were 15-20 years older than me. But their age wasn't a factor for me. They were reasonably attractive and available women that happened to be older. If anything, some of these women were cougars.
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