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 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
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1. experience something different.
2. brag to friends.
3. find out if older women are more fun.
4. see if they are more pleasurable.
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/22/2009 10:59:32 AM
Maybe they have a thing for their mommies (want that nurturing spirit they don't get from girls their own age)...maybe they simply find you classier and more together emotionally...maybe they need a woman of experience to teach them what to do sexually so they can then be experienced themselves and try these things out on their same-age honies...
 notjustlove
Joined: 5/19/2008
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Posted: 3/10/2009 11:16:46 AM
older women are just sexier...
they know what they want, take whats available and make it happen.
they already hav been disappointed by men enuff to understand what a real relationship with a man entails. keeping things in perspective is a good thing.
a saying always comes to mind...
"why have grape juice, when there is wine"
 Passionate_Cher
Joined: 6/24/2008
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Posted: 3/10/2009 12:05:50 PM
All I know is that I made a Promise that I would never date any Man "younger" than my Son-n-Laws... or for that matter, my Daughters!!!

 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 282
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 3/10/2009 12:38:20 PM

it won't be a pleasant world until one sex stops fighting to dominate the other. Personally, until that day comes, I'll be sleeping with one eye open.



cw35,
I'm sorry if your mother used to beat you or whatever the hell happened to make you hate women so much in so many threads.


Or maybe, Oohlala, he read the minutes of the last NOW meeting in his area. I just get the impression that NOW's message is that women, to be "equal", need to be superior to men, and it's chief method is to demonize Men, the whole bloc of them, as if the whole gender is some massive colony of superbly organized ant colony. Lol. The only "organization" men have come up with (and that only brought together a tiny fraction of the gender population), was the Million Man March thing, and all its tenets seemed to be concessions, or accommodations (for lack of better words) the abiding, even relentless, points made by it's more militant counterpart. Not judging merits here, in any way, except that I don't buy that men (1) conspire or act in concert to get anything of consequence done, (2) are anything close to demons, or empowered in that way, and (3) that gender lines are helpful tools to improve anybody's condition.


But, I think the reason it's viewed differently, is because of the overarching power structures between men and women.


No offense, but I think you're borrowing someone else's tools here, and I'm not so sure you picked the right ones for the job.

My best guess is an alternative reason for the contemporary upswing (if that is really happening) of the pairing of older women with younger men. The porn industry is the culprit! Lol! Yep, designed as a means to provide continuing employment opportunities to over-30 starlets ("models", to use the industry's term) who for alot of reasons are probably easier, more tractable, more professional, for the film makers
than the "fresh faces". I've read alot of posts attributing men's depravities to porn, and kinda thought that was a questionable tactic, but in this instance, maybe because I can find no fault with older women/younger men, well, there might be something to it.



 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 283
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 3/19/2009 2:50:30 AM
Why would we have the desire to teach a younger man? When I hear men talk about game playing and younger women it makes sense for the older men who seem to love to play games to be with the younger women who love to play games....however, I find a relationship that is based on sex to be unfullfilling and boring, and have heard the line of "older women know what they want" way too many times from ayounger man when he was too chicken to say that some younger men are able to find gullible older women who will have sex if the younger men compliment them and lie about liking them for more than a fwb, etc. I want a relationship with a man who is near my age that is not based on sex. Maybe the younger women have expectations that the younger men cannot meet, and the younger men call that playing games.
 hoffa53
Joined: 6/19/2008
Msg: 284
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 3/19/2009 8:26:47 AM
Speaking as a younger guy who is very attracted to older women there are a lot of reasons. And I have been asked a lot why I am atttacted to older women so I have had a lot of chances to think about it. And I think each guy who likes older women has a different reason. Basically for me it is that older women just tend to be a lot more fun and exciting. Maybe it is that it is something different.

I have definitely found that for the most part older women are less inhibited and just plain know how to let go and have fun more so than girls my age. It isn't true in all cases but it definitely is in most. Younger women often have a certain image of what things are supposed to be like and if it doesn't match that there seems to be drama. Older women seem to just take things for what they are and know how to go with it and just have fun and enjoy the moment. Kind of an "if it feels good, go for it" kind of attitude.

Now I will admit much of this is definitely true in bed which is one of the reasons older women do make better lovers but it really isn't just about sex. All these things are true in every part of the relationship!
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 285
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 3/22/2009 12:08:18 PM
I've always liked women of a certain age. When I was a young man, they were older women. For a while they were the same age as I was. Now they are younger. The time will come when I will be forced to reevaluate, but for now, it's still working out just fine. Maybe if I buy a Ferrari, I can hold off "Adjustment Day" a little longer.




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No, no!! Get a Wrangler. The 17-25 year-olds love 'em. Lol.


That's not the demographic I was thinking about. Though, if I had to chose between someone that young and someone closer to my age, who is trying to relive those years, it would be an easy choice.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 286
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 3/22/2009 12:27:56 PM

Maybe if I buy a Ferrari, I can hold off "Adjustment Day" a little longer.


No, no!! Get a Wrangler. The 17-25 year-olds love 'em. Lol.
 grim skull
Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 287
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/28/2009 5:35:53 PM
well dont know to answer that one with its the other way around older women want me. and not the young ones it kind weird lol.
 zoroozee
Joined: 11/16/2008
Msg: 288
I WANT SUGAR MAMMA
Posted: 5/1/2009 8:13:50 AM
I want sugar mamma , in 40s 50s 60s or 70s .
sugar mama is a reality , not a illusion.. plz sugar mama write me , i will write u back . hug
 grim skull
Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 289
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/1/2009 3:19:01 PM
i just wondering way older women find me more peeling ? not young ones is it something about me?
 Margolyn
Joined: 4/27/2009
Msg: 290
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/1/2009 5:50:58 PM
I agree, us older women, who are in great shape, good health, still good looking and a lot more wiser, do know how to treat a man better now than when we were younger. Me, I wouldn't trade an older man for a younger one, been there done that. Older men are easier I think. They like making love, not just doing it. There is a difference. Now, I can go after anyone, do anything they allow me to do, with no inhibitions. It is wonderful to be an older woman, more of us have got to come out of the closet and start speaking up in the world on many issues. Look out guys, we are on the rise and nothing is going to stop us now. We are STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, WISE AND STILL GOT A LOT OF HOT GOING ON. LOL AND WE LOVE DOING MORNINGS. lol
 Hootch66
Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 292
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/6/2009 9:12:19 AM
Definitely the experience - I imagine sex would be much better with an older woman. I look forward to trying it someday...
 ocean_lover5
Joined: 11/2/2008
Msg: 293
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/8/2009 5:01:11 PM
coooooome on...are you seriously in the dark on the answer to this hun?! ask any younger guy and they will tell you its the fact we know what we want, we dont play games like the 20 yr olds and well lets face it..the sex is probably a helluva lot better since we have experience..
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 294
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/8/2009 9:58:36 PM
because they know they are more experianced and comfortable in their own skin..sex is soooooo... much better
 rhondarhonda20
Joined: 3/11/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2009 11:48:16 PM
us cougars like younger men too he he.and old men want too be boring.we need excitement.
 ocean_lover5
Joined: 11/2/2008
Msg: 296
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:05:31 PM
dregz you are so wrong...its not the main reason..get your facts straight and survey a young male population.....there are some older desperate women out there..that would take anyone, anytime anyplace BUT that would include any age man..not just younger ones..so male chauvenistic of you..
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:47:02 PM
sun: Kind of hypocritical to whine about someone generalizing about older women when you did the exact same thing to younger women a few posts up isn't it? Someone touched a nerve I think. Besides that, almost every older woman in here has no problem generalizing about older men non stop in these threads. It's pathetic how women create these stupid scenarios about older guys to make up excuses about why they want to rob the cradle instead of just admitting that they're the exact same as the so called male jerks they constantly complain about. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why a lot of older men don't want to date women their own age when they're so emotionally abusive and negative towards them all the time.
 redheadlady4
Joined: 11/19/2005
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Posted: 5/9/2009 7:36:05 PM
OH PLease RoadRanger....and you know all this because??? What you are saying is a load of S.......Dont make judgement calls on something you dont know anything about..If a younger guy likes an older woman it can be for any number of reasons, for years and years it has been acceptable behaviour for an older guy to get with a younger woman, so now the tables are turned and I think some people have a problem with it...If I choose to be with a younger guy..its my choice..not because he gives me a few compliments, sorry that doesnt work...u know coz Im "older" and I know better by now. My vanity doesnt need any help at all I am very happy and comfortable in my skin...and If I feel the need to "Mommy" I'll go talk to my kids...So my question to you is..do u have a problem with it????
 Jones0674
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 299
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Posted: 5/9/2009 9:21:59 PM
Ive ofen wondered that myself.
I find myself attracted to older women too. With me its the way younger women handle themselves. These days you see alot of the younger women do some kind of gesture with their fingers that's suppose to mean west side, or some kind of what they call gangster sign, I dont quite understand it, to me its very inmature.
I find alot of older women more in shape, it seems they care more about their body's and their appearence, and I find that very sexy!
Older women know more what they want, and they dont play mind games to get it!
That's my two cents worth! ;)
 ççç™
Joined: 4/21/2009
Msg: 300
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Posted: 5/9/2009 9:25:35 PM
awww..I like older women, they try soo hard in bed...very cute...
 angelfyre305
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 301
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Posted: 5/20/2009 12:39:58 AM
I don't know why but Ive been seeing one for over two months now and we go out for dinner, drinks, and occassionaly watch movies at his place. He pays every time we go out, Ive offered numerous times but he won't any. He treats me with the uttermost respect and vice versa.

Its not something that I'm wanting forever but we enjoy one another's company and have a great time together and thats all that matters.

Why question it..... enjoy
 angelfyre305
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 303
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Posted: 5/20/2009 12:49:25 AM
Its also interesting how Road Ranger, Dregz and a few other members can bash the older ladies every chance they get and yet they cant even put there own picture up of what they look like and yet don't mind putting others down.

Why so bitter may I ask?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 304
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Posted: 5/20/2009 7:14:04 AM

Why question it.....


Exactly. Lotsa folks in this pool are either drowning or getting really tired of treading water. When some kind soul offers a hand, to help you out, take it, don't question it. And ignore the guy next to you who, most probably jealous, questions it "for you", even shouts at you, and expects you to listen. Misery loves company abounds, here, and where ever else.
There's nothing wrong with the younger man reaching out for an "older woman". Life just burns a little brighter in those who breach boundaries to close with another human.
There is waaay to much energy spent on searching for, and priding upon the discovery of, reasons why not to do something, when success only happens when we find the how to accomplish it.
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