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Should have stuck to the orignal plan, no contact don't answer the phone. Everyone on this fourm was right. Just a moment of weakness and loneliness. Doctor gave me some happy pills maybe start taking them....not going there yet.
Another heart in desperate need of repair
Posted: 10/25/2008 8:48:44 PM
I am just going to get over it! I need to move on. Time to man up.
 exiss
Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 79
Another heart in desperate need of repair
Posted: 10/26/2008 5:06:33 AM
Jim, I guess at some point in time you just have to. I once felt the same towards someone as you did to her, but like in your case, she chose a different path. Somewhat different circumstances and even tho I would have done anything to go on with the relationship, I knew deep down that I would never be able to totally trust her, and would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Perhaps that is the bottom line....
The term "move on" is somewhat interesting, and the common thread in the relationships i've been in, is that they all have moved on..... some before ours was finished, others shortly after. In that connotation moved on meant finding someone else.
In my case it meant giving my head a shake and trying to find acceptance.....
Another heart in desperate need of repair
Posted: 10/29/2008 11:55:40 AM
Just had to write and tell everyone that I feel great today. Thinking of her is not bothering me at all. I don't know what gives. Nothing has changed, I haven't see or heard from her in almost two weeks. But I am finally getting some stuff done.
I sure hopes this lasts. Have I turned a corner or when I run into her will I crash again?
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 81
Another heart in desperate need of repair
Posted: 10/29/2008 12:01:25 PM
Jim, it's hard to say what will happen when you run into her, but if you live in a small town, you KNOW that's gonna happen, so just keep telling yourself "she chose another man over me,and being her "back up guy" is just stupid."
Cindy O
 A REAL ROMEO
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 82
Another heart in desperate need of repair
Posted: 1/9/2011 6:34:46 PM
Yeah, it's like this one woman I met online. I was thrilled but just not convienientloy available to get to her location to meet her... So I spend the next couple years in reclusion, just flirting online but not really putting forth any real effort to meet anyone. She gave me hope that I had found my one and omly, then she just went POOF! Gone from existance....
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