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 leonarddream
Joined: 10/1/2008
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the answer is no,it wouldnt be right to begin with,I say be what the creator meant for you to be plain and simple.but I do respect anyones preference if that what truly makes them happy.
 Chocolatebrowne
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 277
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/9/2008 11:40:33 PM
No. Bisexual men tend to be "problemmatic". At least that is what I have heard from the gay men and straight women who have been involved with them....
 MzBigNSexy1
Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 278
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/9/2008 11:43:21 PM
I am kind of a hypocrit , being a bisexual female , I would never marry a bisexual man nor would I marry I bisexual man . It'll have to be 100 percent straight man or 100 percent lesbian female . I want a long lasting relationship and I have been jolted one too many times by other bisexuals . Doesnt anyone beleive that monogomous also includes not having relations with a same sex partner!!!
 MzBigNSexy1
Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 279
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/9/2008 11:47:53 PM
As a bisexual male I get really pissed off when I tell someone whom I am in a relationship with my orientation and they immediately get insecure, thinking I'm gonna cheat or that I have an STD. It's not like that at all! I'm simply attracted to both and could love either, I don't NEED both to be satisfied!
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AMEN!!! Preach on my friend! But you gotta see that a majority of males and females who ARE bisexual really do need the best of both worlds which gives the rest of the GOOD and TAMED bisexuals bad Name when all we are is open minded for love with one or the other . Not both. Its not like me are metrosexul . Now THAT is different...
 Dempcey
Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 280
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/10/2008 2:33:28 AM
Well this is an easy one for me. Hells No!
Not date, not marry, not flirt, nada.
The whole idea of a umm male member having been in a male area just kinda kills the mood.
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 281
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/10/2008 3:17:37 AM
Hey as long as it ain't turning into a "party trick" I still don't see what the problem is.

There's plenty of straight and gay people that cheat on whoever. Hell there's plenty of "good christians" that cheat, plenty of atheists that do the same, fat people, thin people, ugly people, pretty people, there's someone out there for everyone to screw around on their partner with.

I think if you're having trouble with the bi-sexual people you're dating, it's more likely the type of person you're attracted to, rather than their sexual orientation or lack there-of.
 Must Love Snakes
Joined: 8/26/2008
Msg: 282
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/10/2008 5:08:46 AM
Whoa I'm sorry, I didn't realize I stepped back into 1950! Must have took a wrong turn at Ignorance Ln and Idiot Way..

I'm bi. I have never cheated on a partner or left a partner for a member of the opposite sex. A bi sexual is just as likely to cheat as a gay or straight partner. Just because there are more options, doesn't mean I crave sex from a female or male, depending on who I'm with.

Jeez people. Seriously?
 kranks71
Joined: 3/11/2008
Msg: 283
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/10/2008 10:24:09 AM
"Can you say flipity flopity"
From personal experience, they just are not sure who they want to be "Bi Women that is"
and their is always confusion. Now in my ex I had two lipstick women, but the jealous factor
was so high on the other womens side it was like she was stalking every moment.
 Drobot
Joined: 5/3/2008
Msg: 284
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/10/2008 10:45:48 AM
Not only would I, I did.

My wife and I have been married for almost 18 wonderful years. Neither one of us have cheated on the other and everything we do is with the other person's consent.
 tonyyarusso
Joined: 6/12/2007
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Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/25/2008 11:46:38 PM
Sure. A past girlfriend of mine has actually since come out as bi (long after our relationship ended), and I don't see why it would affect a relationship with her. Obviously once in a relationship and when married you would expect fidelity, but that's no different from anyone else. The only difference is that there's twice the competition to get to that point! :P

It should be noted that it is somewhat common for someone to consider themselves bi as part of the process of concluding that they're actually gay (I think it's easier that way), so you'll want to take enough time to find out if that's the case or if they are actually bisexual and are going to remain that way. However, this should be pretty easy since if you wait a reasonable amount of time before taking the step into marriage this will take care of itself.

Also, a large number of posts in this thread make me very, very sad and angry. Grow up and learn about the world around you. That's all.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 286
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/26/2008 8:10:45 AM
No. I just don't feel like I could ever completely trust where they were. Isn't it hard enough being with one type of person? LOL
 JulieC29
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 287
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/26/2008 10:11:41 AM
Would I marry a bisexual man? NO! Not only would you have to worry about women he was looking at or looking at him, but I'd have to worry about men, too.

There are also seem to be a number of these people who go one way or the other for awhile, too, and I'd hate to get stuck in the middle with someone who wanted to pull a 180.
 Rob7899
Joined: 10/12/2008
Msg: 288
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/26/2008 10:15:17 AM
Ya thats a tough one, the primal man in me screams of course I would lol but my more civilized frontal lobe knows there would likely be issues...
 xtina-novelista
Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 289
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/11/2009 8:17:53 PM
I don't think its fair to say that just becuase you marry someone bisexual that they might stray to the sex thier not with.

Bisexuality is not about getting away with ****ing both sexes, it means that you have the possibility of having a relationship like any straight/gay couple with either sex.

I would expect fidelity either way.

I am bisexual and I would not use that as an excuse to be unfaithful. I don't need both to make me happy. It doesn't matter if u are male or female, its about the feelings the other person creates, and i would not destroy a great relationship just to indulge in phyisical contant with the sex i decided not to be with.

I my opinion its the same as any other couple. Cheating is cheating, and faithfulness is faithfulness.
 Level_42
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 290
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:20:24 PM
No way......if a woman wants to go down on another woman, insert fake penises or fingers into each others twats , french kiss, or in any way act like they are in love and wanting to have each other sexually......NOT MY TYPE OF WOMAN.

However, it doesn't bother me in the least if a woman has a female snuggle buddy on the side..just so long as the romance sexual part is for me.....and the snuggle part as well....I can't have the sex without the affection. But I'd never begrude a woman who needs a little affection from another woman...so long as she was a bit discrete about it and never loses the affection for me.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 291
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/11/2009 10:52:09 PM
OP; not in a million years; so many people cheat and they are just into one sex; can you imagine marrying a girl and her not being able to be with a woman when she wants too? no way/

not in a million years.
 PioneerValleyWoman
Joined: 7/26/2008
Msg: 292
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:57:59 PM
No! Most women are taught by their mothers that there really is no such thing as a bisexual man. Their girlfriends reinforce that teaching. Most socalled bisexual men are just waiting to come out of the closet. Just saw the documentary OutRage where the bloggers and journalists who narrate the movie say when a person is in the closet, he is living a lie and can not be trusted. I agree.

As for men who date bisexual women, well, all I can do is ask why? My former boyfriend dated a woman who lived life as a lesbian until she was 35. While he admitted their relationship was largely unsatisfactory (and he documents every penny he ever spent, so I knew that they had sex fewer than 40 times during the two years they were together, based on his condom purchases), when she decided to end the relationship (largely because they had not seen each other face to face for three months), he had trouble letting her go.

She had talked it over with friends and her therapist. She was a musician about to embark on a six week tour. Since she wouldn't be around for a long time, she thought it better to make a clean break of it. He was angry because she had spoken with others. Well, why not? He only talked to her on the phone. Trying to break if off made her more attractive to him but from the letters she wrote to him, begging her to leave her alone, I could tell he made life hell for her.
 jersey-girl84
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 293
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:13:59 PM
ugh, NO! no offense to the bisexual ppl out there, but thats just not my thing. personally, i'm pretty repulsed by the thought of 2 men doing each other...especially if it was someone who I was with who was coming home to get in bed with me!! I agree with some other posters when they wonder if there are really bisexual men...most people have always told me that men are either gay or straight...not into both. but who knows.
 Arabianangel
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 294
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:44:25 PM
Nope...a total turn off for me...there is something so un-masculine about a man that enjoys a penis...
 2Irish1
Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 295
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:16:37 PM
Wouldn't be interested.....now...if your just talking about watching two women....my bad...
 Q-Daddy
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 296
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:30:41 PM
No,I wouldnt marry some that is Bi...they would never be happy or fullfilled
 JimClassic
Joined: 12/3/2008
Msg: 297
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/26/2009 12:06:10 AM
I'm not sure.
My girlfriend is bi, and she's pretty damn loyal to me. I view it as a matter of trust, and I trust her.
But then again I'm not ready for marriage; whether she's bi or straight.
 monalee1
Joined: 10/22/2007
Msg: 298
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Posted: 10/26/2009 12:30:27 AM
hi... I would have to say no... I am totally straight and I seek the same in a mate... it is important enough to me that I ask potential dates if they have ever had any desire for men because it is not something that I would venture into if they did.. blessings
 Arabianangel
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 299
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Posted: 10/26/2009 12:50:44 AM
I think you'll find more men are open to the idea, more than women..
 BlueEyes1712
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Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 10/26/2009 7:19:29 AM
About 25 years ago when I was in my late 20's I had worked in a hotel doing maintence for two years and recieved a room as part of the compensation of the job. There was a very good looking women always walking around my view and smiled a lot at me. One evening she called me on the phone system(room to room) and said she was bored and wanted to know if I was up to some board games she had. I agreed and about an hour afterwards she wanted to do more than board games so we ended messing around. It was about two in the morning she said she had to leave. I found out the next day that she was checked in for a month with another women and it turns out they are lovers and I was used as a one night stand. She was cheating on her girlfriend that worked the night shift. I had no idea, and the fact that she liked **** as much as I did was not a turn off but realizing she would want a women over me a man was something I just couldnt compete over. I dont feel discusted by her choice, cause women can be very loving and giving individuals, what I had a hard time with was the blow to my manhood of a women wanting a women over me.
As for a marrage, I personally dont think I, a heterosexual monogomous male, could have enough confidence that I could filfill a bisexual womens needs to take the step to marrage. I would always have doubts in my mind that her needs are being unmet by me.
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