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 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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If the woman was responsible of course, but a man would always be out of the question. would you marry a hobbit if it had enough money to burn a wet mule?
 Origam
Joined: 8/9/2006
Msg: 177
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 2:37:18 PM
Yes I'd marry a bi man. I don't see how someone being bi makes them any less worthy of being married or in a serious relationship than someone who is straight.

It's not a guarantee that just because you marry someone straight that they won't cheat, look, flirt, etc. with other people ya' know? Kind of like it's not a guarantee if you marry someone who's bi that they'll cheat on you. A bi friend of mine puts it this way.. "I look all the time, nothing wrong with looking but when I'm in a relationship with a man, I'm straight.. when I'm in a relationship with a woman, I'm gay.. when I'm not in a relationship I'm fair game".
 heyitsdoug
Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 178
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 2:49:33 PM
I'm not sure that it would make much of a difference?
If she's faithfull.....it's more like she USED to be bi-sexual.
If not....she's a cheater, either way, and of course cheaters suck!
 imadarling2
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 179
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 3:40:25 PM
NO WAY!! No time for His identity crisis for me!!
Isn't difficult enough to have a relationship with a heterosexual male or female and the infidelity problem with one oppositive sex?
Bi sexual-double the troubles in every way.
Life is too short...He or she has to make up his/her mind either he is a ''he'' and she is a ''she''.




Edited:If a bi man married a bi woman... Wow!! What a show!!!
 JokerWild
Joined: 8/27/2005
Msg: 180
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 3:44:16 PM
Of course I'd marry a bisexual woman...why? Because if we're married then she'd have no more interest with a woman or cheating on me :)...unless she well cheated on me. Then I'd get a divorce and damn her rotten soul to the bottomless pits of hades!! But cha, I'd marry one.
 Seductionxoxo
Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 181
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 5:54:35 PM
I like my man manly, however if you love someone you love them. I think he would have to be comfortable enough to let me still be who I am. Meaning, all girl acess. Maybe just like someone posted there will be a 3 way marriage lislence and hook me up!! All jokes aside, I think ideally I would like to be able to still be wit ladies, however I am a jelous type so I dunno? I think if I really loved him, and he was uncomfortable with it I could change, but honestly I don't think it would get as far to marriage if he knew this side of me and wouldnt let me just be...but things change everyday.....
 stencilpro
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 182
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 8:27:25 PM
Bisexual women are great! They tend to not have a lot of inhabitions. As long as it's bi and not lesbian in the closet. I've dated a few Bi women and they are a lot of fun and loyalty is loyalty no matter what they like. That comes down to character. Makes for intersting roll playing also! Bi men well no comment there. It's easier for women to be bi then men. With women they can give and take pleasure without pride getting in the way. But with men it would be very hard to let down my guard to try even if I was so inclined. Thats why lions live one male to several females! Thats the ticket! LOL
 imthinkin
Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 183
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 8:41:51 PM
Nope, Id like to think that there would be something missing sexually from a BIsexual woman , that without sharing her couldnt be fullfilled, ill never have breasts or the rest. Its great to think about havin a 3some, but sharing some1 I care about sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. As much thats a fantasy of most men , i dont think the reality could live up to it.
 Robbbyg
Joined: 8/14/2006
Msg: 184
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 9:29:54 PM
I am interested in BI women and i have always wanted to have 2 or 3 in a fulltime relationship, because sometimes one woman just isnt enough
 heyitsdoug
Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 185
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 10:11:01 PM
I may have mis-understood.......I, apparently like some others, thought
that BEING bi-sexual meant actively having sex with both sexes.
I didn't think just being attracted to both sexes made you bi-sexual?
.......hence my "used to be" statement earlier......just like someone in
a straight relationship in the past, and a gay one in the present, used
to be straight? ..........but then I guess they'd be bi?
WOW! I don't like this thread anymore!
 pansatyros
Joined: 3/24/2006
Msg: 186
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 10:36:48 PM

Hmmm, why not... if he would keep his other private life out of our private life. Sex is not only thing people share in their relationship... so if e.g. friendship chemistry would be extraordinaly strong, why not... wouldn't that be just accepting the other person as he is?


Does that mean that...errrrrr...if your man has a keen interest in...errrrrr...blondes...he is allowed to develop a strong...errrrr...friendship with them?

I would not mind at all, let me stress this at all if my girlfriend(s?) wanted to experiment with...errrrr...other women...curiocity is a potent aphrodisiac...


I obviously was ready to let my imaginary bi-man to have his male affairs and not consider them as a threat to myself :p Well, well, you live and learn new things about yourself!


(muttering to myself: she is alive!!! alive!!! alive!!!)
 ][KAOS][
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 187
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 10:58:07 PM
Ummm........NOPE.
 Fly on the Wall
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 188
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 11:42:11 PM
Reading this forum has made me twitch. OF COURSE I would marry a bisexual man, if he asked me to marry him, then OBVIOUSLY it's because he loves ME, and only wants ME.

Being bisexual simply means a person has the capacity to love regardless of gender. There is an issue here presented by extremely misunderstanding heterosexuals thats driving me insane:


NO WAY!! No time for His identity crisis for me!!


It's not an identity crisis, it does NOT mean they don't know their preference and certainly does NOT mean they are confused. Bisexual people are NOT confused about their sexuality, they simply do not let gender decide who they are limited to loving.

A bisexual isn't going to marry someone of the opposite gender and a few years down the road decide they want to have someone of the same sex and leave you. This opinion seems to be completely driven by a heterosexual's fear of being dumped. It is just as likely for a man to get dumped by his heterosexual wife because she wants to be with the hot young pool-boy. In both cases it means one thing: YOUR PARTNER DOES NOT LOVE YOU. It happens sometimes in marriages for various reasons that have NOTHING to do with the partner being bisexual....unless of course their husband/wife is overly paranoid about the issue to the point that it causes friction within the relationship.

If a bisexual marries you in the first place, it means they LOVE YOU, and want to be with YOU. Talking about them not knowing their preference....well, if they choose to marry YOU, obviously the preference is for YOU. Talk about insecurities.

The only people who are 'confused' or don't know their sexual orientation are those that say they want to experiment, you experiment when you are unsure of something, this is not the case with actual bisexuals.

Therefore I personally think that for all those that say they wouldn't marry a bisexual....it's simply because they REALLY don't understand a thing about it, and have fear and insecurites. I read a lot of 'I dated a bisexual before, NEVER AGAIN'......so people are stereotyping now...thats just as bad as saying 'I dated someone of *this* ethnic group before, NEVER AGAIN'

I don't mean to sound like a total B*tch, but I really feel sorry for those who are too closeminded to even date someone thats bisexual, you could be missing out on the greatest relationship with a great person, all because of your misunderstanding of them, and not realizing that dating a bisexual, from the point that they decide they like YOU is that same as dating someone who is heterosexual.
 ][KAOS][
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 189
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 11:57:33 PM

I don't mean to sound like a total B*tch, but I really feel sorry for those who are too closeminded to even date someone thats bisexual

Has ZERO to do with being closeminded, at least for me - I prefer my partner "putts from one side of the green only" - that's called a PREFERENCE.
 tmofedm1
Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 190
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/12/2006 11:58:32 PM
Totally not....I expect monogamy, be it abstaining from other women or from other men.
 Fly on the Wall
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 191
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 12:29:00 AM

Has ZERO to do with being closeminded, at least for me - I prefer my partner "putts from one side of the green only" - that's called a PREFERENCE.


But if his preference is you, then what does it matter if he dated a man in the past? The past is the past, and if a man currently had feelings for you....I don't see how him being bisexual should matter as long as his eyes are on you. :P




Totally not....I expect monogamy, be it abstaining from other women or from other men.



......


Bisexuals ARE JUST AS MONOGAMOUS AS HETEROSEXUALS. Within both orientations you can find individuals who aren't monogamous....you shouldn't be generalizing this trait that some people REGARDLESS of orientation have, to one orientation. A heterosexual is just as likely to cheat on you as a bisexual, there is NO DIFFERENCE.
 julietjuliet
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 192
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 12:34:30 AM
OP: You can you pencil me in as a 'NO' on this one thanks. I'm just not into 'triangles'.
 ][KAOS][
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 193
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 12:46:17 AM

But if his preference is you, then what does it matter if he dated a man in the past? The past is the past, and if a man currently had feelings for you....I don't see how him being bisexual should matter as long as his eyes are on you.

Leara - If you READ the original post - the question was "would you with someone that IS STILL BI.. as in present, not past. So my answer remains, HELL NO!
 Fly on the Wall
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 194
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 7:27:03 AM

Leara - If you READ the original post - the question was "would you with someone that IS STILL BI.. as in present, not past. So my answer remains, HELL NO!


Ok...I'm not aiming this response at you ^^^^^^ Going back it seems a lot of people are confused by this too. So this is in general of people being 'still bi'

this seems to be something else people are confused about. If your orientation is bisexual...it wil always be bisexual, you dont become heterosexual when you are with someone of the opposite sex, people won'[t ever change a bisexual person's orientation....BUT is does not mean they *crave* to be sexually active with people of both genders, it doesn't change the fact that if someone is bisexual and is with you...it's because they chose to be with you becuase they care about you, and not someone of the same sex....I really don't get why people aren't understanding this...if they have been in a relationship with a bisexual that dumped them saying they wanted to be with someone of the same sex, *gasp* it means they didn't love them to begin with. It's the same with a heterosexual couple, if your partner loves you theres no worry, because you trust each other, but if they don't love you, even if their heterosexual, they'll still run off and cheat. It's the same in heterosexual and bisexual relationships, there needs to be trust and love. God, if people are worried about a bisexual partner cheating on them, the bisexual can just as easily cheat with someone of the opposite sex. It really seems to me that people's fear of bisexuals in a relationship is groundless.
 good_eat
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 195
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 7:33:29 AM
A bisexual woman is my preference.
 imadarling2
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 196
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 9:15:55 AM
Msg 202,
I don't believe you can speak for the bi-sexuals. It is an interesting topic to study.:)
Why are they bi-sexuals and how they love? How they feel about themselves?
There must be research on the topic. It can also their genetic map differs than the heterosexual or the homosexual. Just a thought!

 grey shado
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 197
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 9:27:23 AM
actually being bi for over 25yrs i think i can address this..the answer is yes

one other said that bi's can luv tis tru

its just that as a bi and knowing many of like mind its about the other

individual not waht gender they are.

if a bi ladi or male asked me it would only depend on how i felt about them not what preference they have.
 firstladyiam
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 198
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 9:28:34 AM
I'm with you, lonertx63 - I'd say "bye" as well............................
 ][KAOS][
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 199
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 10:21:26 AM

Completechaos, a question between:
when we are talking about an orientation can we divide it into time periods like present, past, future?

I didn't post the ORIGINAL THREAD, and if you READ it maybe you'll get it.

A preference is a preference and without having to get graphic, I don't care if they were forever bi, just decided they were bi, or whatever, the question was "would I marry a bisexual man" and my answer remains NO. Why anyone would try to change anyone's mind on this is beyond me. having said that...

I'm with the above poster on this thread........... BYE!
 t-gurl
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 200
Would you marry a bisexual woman/man?
Posted: 9/13/2006 3:52:56 PM
Well, looks like I came into this at the end but who cares? The funny thing is that both of the major posters on this page (or the last page if I didn't count right) are correct and actually arguing the same thing.

First off, it's been said many times in this thread but I'll say it again. Straight, bi, gay and lesbians can ALL be monogamous. Just as they can ALL be promiscuous and cheat. So there is no point in thinking that a bisexual is going to automatically look outside the marriage. Just as there is no point in thinking that a heterosexual is automatically going to be faithful.

Completekaos stated her preference. And that's fine for her. She can marry whoever she wants.
Gay men are not considered closeminded for not wanting to marry a woman
Lesbians are not considered closeminded for not wanting to marry a man
Straight people are not considered closeminded for not wanting to marry the same sex

Closemindedness comes into play in not allowing others to make their own choices or for berating them or humiliating them for those choices.
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