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 ImAHotMess
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 37
Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me???Page 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
Sounds to me like another case of a young girl who drinks a lot...and claiming "all the guys she sleeps" (ewwwww) with try doing her in the can. I would suggest stop getting so hammered and you may meet a guy with some respect. You put yourself in that position, I have no sympathy. I hope to God you are being safe and careful. It would be sad if you become a statistic of something not so good. I am not trying to be mean, it is how you portray yourself. Intimacy/sex should be something talked about and understood. Then you would not find yourself in this situation.
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 9/26/2008 1:09:35 PM
Maybe you should switch from Blokes to Dudes. We Dudes do ask for permission first.
 Sunshyne276
Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 51
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Posted: 9/26/2008 6:31:07 PM
It's hard to say, really... This back door is usually tighter than the front door (since the back door was intended for 'exit only' lol), so... Maybe you are not as tight as the girls they are used to. OR, maybe you are just sleeping with guys who have teeny-tiny d*cks, and that's why they feel they need to use the back door. lol I don't know. It could also be a coincidence, you just end up with guys who prefer anal sex over vaginal.
 Dumpling-Girl
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 9/26/2008 6:38:12 PM
Pardon my ignorance, but shouldn't you use a lot of lube to do anal, so are these guys just going for it without doing that? It doesn't happen to me. I have been asked by several guys, but I've never had anyone just go ahead and try. With their finger, yes, they'll just go ahead and try. Maybe they either look at you and think you must be kinky enough (maybe you have some sort of porno girl look/demeanor) or maybe when they try with their finger, they see how favourably you react and assume you'd like more? Or maybe you are just attracted to a particular type of jerk guy (and keep picking the wrong guys)?
 SeekinTrill
Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 57
Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me???
Posted: 11/13/2008 12:19:51 AM
Well i do have to agree with you sweetie.. guys like myself love the front door but i would love a woman who will open the back door for maybe a finger or something from time to time ..the guys that love back door actions are the ones with Teeny-Tiny d*cks for sure lol .. i'm packing something very nice so don't need a back up plan lmao
 Septimus
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 72
Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me???
Posted: 11/13/2008 10:07:54 PM
There could be several reasons why a man might want to take a detour up the Hershey Highway, which probably have nothing to do with the fact that he may have a tallywhacker the size of a no. 2 pencil. Almost everyone at some point develops an urge to explore the unknown, even a guy with a diminutive dingus. Granted, it is both polite and respectful of one's partner to ask permission before becoming a "rump ranger", but many seem to forget their manners when their Willy Wonka is about to enter the Chocolate Factory. As several others have pointed out, communication is your friend. Best of luck in the future, and if all else fails I would suggest duct tape.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 75
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Posted: 11/14/2008 4:51:23 AM
We all know that this is dangerous if the bowel is not cleaned out and prepared..... It can lead to serious injury to your body at least.... Any man who is reckless about this act is a neanderthal and should be dumped ASAP..... You need to ask yourself why are you attracted to self absorbed low functioning men and allow them into your most sacred space emotionally and physically????
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 76
Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me???
Posted: 11/14/2008 6:39:53 AM

self absorbed low functioning men and allow them into your most sacred space emotionally and physically????


Not certain that I would go so far as to describe an ***hole as anyone's most sacred space emotionally and physically, even this author's (I try not to speak of things or people I have not encountered), but I do not deny the allure, and there can be magic in it, for both. Of course, I would be one of those self-absorbed low functioning (query: what the hell do you mean by this, and where did the OP submit this evidentiary point?] guys hoping to reach her sanctuary, not under the influence of intoxicating substances, but perhaps intoxicated with her and wanting her in every way of the flesh.
 Tim61
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 77
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Posted: 11/14/2008 6:56:39 AM
I'm sorry you have had problems with other guys, but don't tarn us all with the same brush, as with me, what you are talking about, is a No Go Area for Me I'd much rather have Vaginal Sex Im not into Anal At ALL !!!

Tim
 blueeyed_one
Joined: 10/2/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 11/14/2008 3:02:35 PM
Tighter hole?
Perhaps they see you as a naughty girl?
 cfb62
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 84
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Posted: 11/14/2008 3:27:03 PM
From what I've heard/read it's actually very common.
It's so not for me, but I've read enough that when they want to, I don't freak out about it and just tell them no.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 91
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Posted: 11/15/2008 7:39:44 AM

To each his/her own but I can't believe the misconceptions some of you have about the whole issue & from the men it's very surprising to say the least


Ditto!!!! Hey, Red! Told ya we needed your input here. Lol
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 94
Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me???
Posted: 11/24/2008 6:35:30 PM

"god made it to go in one place, that will do me"

All the women who dont like giving oral sex will be really happy to hear that because obviously you dont enjoy that either.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 101
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Posted: 11/25/2008 7:41:10 AM

Well, you know guys will never ask for directions or admit they're lost.




Well done!!!! ROFLMAO!!!
 +ERiK+
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 106
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Posted: 11/25/2008 10:15:05 PM
I'm not interested... and never met a girl that was.
But I know lots of guys talk about it.

There are many reasons that the guys want to do it besides the tightness of the sphincter muscle... I'm sure a pyschologist would tell you. Although you probably wouldn't want to know.
 Shawster
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 108
Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me???
Posted: 11/25/2008 11:53:44 PM
Your a blond caucasian with a booty, deal with it.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 112
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Posted: 11/26/2008 8:22:32 AM
In a nutshell, this thread passes from the profoundly unwise:

Unless of course he's hung like a gnat and requires the use of a 'tighter entrance' to cater for his feeble girth.
In the future, tell them to **** off to a gay bar and find some nice blonde boy to bend over.


To the profoundly wiser


** Men don't have to be small'ish to want to try it backdoor
** Men and women don't have to be easy to want to do it anally
** Women don't have to be vaginally loose for a man to want to do it anally
** Men don't have to be gay to enjoy being stimulated there

Truly, this sexual act is NOT for everyone but for those who do enjoy it, it can be very stimulating, sensual and enjoyable. Why knock it? If you don't like it just say so. But don't try to justify the reasons why you think other people are doing it and you're not (i.e., small penis)


I see the "gnat's penis" explanation so often that I am compelled to suggest that what exits is no larger than what knocks at the door.
As for the gay accusations, Pfft. Aspiring to look like Johnny Depp, and to adopt, even selectively, his on screen personae as one's own, seems far more suspect, imo. Lol.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 115
Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me???
Posted: 11/26/2008 12:43:02 PM
I would do it if asked but its not something that I care fore as much as other kinds of sex
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