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 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 80
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Ahem! Have you seen women actually buy (or own/use) them or just seen them on display in 'sex shops'? I suppose folks can do whatever they wish with them but I've always been under the impression those are for anal purposes.


Windroper possesses such brilliance! ;O) My surrogate daughter worked in a toy shop...and 90% of the people who came in there, bought the smaller vibes and dildoes for either the female anal play...or for use on the male. ;O) The more average sizes and the larger ones...bought by the solo chicks! LOL

I still do not get why anyone would call someone with a preference, SHALLOW? I mean...if this thread were about blondes verus brunettes...or short verus tall...we would be reading, "It's your preference!" Me thinks all who are so adamant to bash her, have little wienies? ;) Don't get me wrong...I AGREE...it's how it is used...but nothing wrong with this chica preferring a larger member!
 AwP
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 9/30/2008 8:02:20 AM

I still do not get why anyone would call someone with a preference, SHALLOW? I mean...if this thread were about blondes verus brunettes...or short verus tall...we would be reading, "It's your preference!"

A preference is fine, but to dump someone over one physical trait when they're otherwise a perfect match is shallow. And yes, I think it's shallow to dump someone purely over hair color or height too.
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 87
Is this as likely as men like to think it is?
Posted: 9/30/2008 3:02:07 PM
"Older?" LOL Baby....40's is the new 30's....and I dunno about the other "older hotties" in this thread...but I am just now sexually peaking! :)
 Refinedsillyguy
Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 89
Is this as likely as men like to think it is?
Posted: 9/30/2008 5:48:20 PM
Well heres to the REAL question..
Well you have known a guy that knows you very well..He is gonna be able to read to your mind during sex, and talking..
Doesn't mean You won't find this same feeling, with another guy...
Are things based on how good sex is..?? or this there actually attraction, and interest. I guess you will find out, in a month or two.
So I'm guessin he was of signifigance when you were 16..

Is the question....>you want to get past the feeling you can't look at anyone else other than him. Cause how u two have sex.??
OR..
Whether you should stay with him..
 Trinity For
Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 91
Is this as likely as men like to think it is?
Posted: 9/30/2008 11:20:25 PM
Who cares if its not super sized? If a guy is intelligent and well spoken, he will bring me every time.
 Refinedsillyguy
Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 95
Is this as likely as men like to think it is?
Posted: 10/29/2008 8:40:41 PM
If it really a issue, and is something you going to keep thinking about for ages. Maybe you should leave for your own sanity.
 blonde tomato
Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 11/2/2008 12:05:55 PM
anderzz - if that smart mouth reply was directed at me personally, then i assume u didnt read all that i wrote and chose to be rude from the part you did skim read. i wrote that i would prefer to be with the person that makes me happy, and was surprised when i realised that sex wasnt everything. also i dont have 'a hole like the grand canyon' and have never had a relationship break down due to anything sexual - but thanks for asking, ur so polite xx

i didnt relise that these threads were actually the grounds for personal comments or abuse, i thought they were meant to be just a place to offer advice or an opinion; my mistake!
 Teddybear1950
Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:11:23 AM
skikat2
You should know I thought about contacting you, but I do not want to be kept around untill you find something better. This tells me that you are always looking and would eventually cheat.
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 99
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:36:56 AM
OMGawd.....it's ALIVE!!! I cannot believe this thread was ressurrected! We had sooo much fun with it, Windroper, Libra, and I!

As I re-read every single post...I found myself thinking back to who I might have been dating at the time!

Of course size matters! Ok...lemme re-phrase that! If we chicas went to "JCPennys Boyfriend Store" and got to hand pick out their penis size...I can safely assume 85% or better would choose a "larger member" over a smaller one. (Whereas, if you men were in the same store, different floor...you would probably be split about 50/50 on breast size! But I bet you would ALL pick a nice tight snatch!!) LOL

Now...I had a former beau who had a "square d!ck," I sh!t you not. 8x8! And one gets accommodating of such, cause that's how our va-jay-jays work...and one gets spoiled on such. But....err...or should I be punny and say, butt??...Butt, there are "other things" that DON'T work out as well with such a monster! Dude had NEVER experienced anal sex...and I was not about to make it happen for him, with THAT! LOL My Linda Lovelace persona certainly did not appear as often as normal, either! And yes...the first person I was with afterwards, seemed...lackadaisical. But ULTIMATELY, it is about how you MESH with someone, and what you DO WITH WHAT YOU HAVE.

I love, love, love sex and intimacy! I could never just give up such. If my lover became ill or had ED...we WOULD find other ways of having sex and intimacy...and I would not ditch someone I loved because of such. Sheesh. But...here we go again...if it were a new lover with no history, no love lost...most certainly. If that makes me shallow...oh well! I am over it, already!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 100
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:40:46 AM

and love is an option.


When you think love is an option it means there no love. Love attacks you and takes control against your will if it may. When you are thinking this things as options it means they are not there and you are rationalizing something that does not exist.
 Sammie519
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 101
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Posted: 4/17/2009 8:43:04 AM
Well, for me i would end it if it didnt do any good.. size dosent really matter though you know, its width.. a man can have a penis of 4 inches and hit a girls g-spot and all the right places to make her orgasim.. BUT if its to thin then it wont do any good at all.

I myself would not beable to look long trm with anyone who could not please me sexually as i am a recovered sex addict and now that its not as often as it once was when i was an addict i would need each time to be a great time.

a connection both emotionally and physically with anyone is what i would want, if we connect emotionally awesome but if he has no moves and doesnt kow what he's doing or i can barely "feel" it then its a no go.

if the physical is good but there's nothing emotional its a no go as well, i need both.

AND the lose vagina's comment.. if pl have to much sex its tightens the muscles so when you get caleld lose, its because your not having enough to stimulate your muscles to keep them tight. even regular masterbation works.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 102
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Posted: 4/19/2009 3:43:49 PM
If you find yourself picking apart physical differences that have nothing to do with a meaningful relationship, you obviously are emotionally immature and shouldn't be wasting anybody's time pretending you know how to have an actual relationship. If I'm in love with someone and they have an accident and end up in a wheelchair or missing a limb, I don't abandon them because it's "unpleasant". If you really love someone the physical part obviously shouldn't matter. How does anyone who can ask a question like this actually end up finding someone to even date them?
 Refinedsillyguy
Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 106
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Posted: 4/19/2009 11:16:41 PM
Wow.
Luv n theory.

That was a great post. It's no wonder they make so many sizes, and styles of clothes. We are all different in many ways.

Compatibility is the key.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 108
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Posted: 4/20/2009 4:10:59 AM
LOL; omg; I'm sure you have some things that aren't in the right place or not the size he'd like, or a few sags here and there too.

I'm glad you are not on the site anymore to be honest; you should go get a porn star and live happily ever after.
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 110
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Posted: 4/20/2009 6:50:37 AM
Ummm....^^it was actually a joke...which you obviously got...but you DO know that girth is measured by going AROUND the penis...not straight across. (diameter) LOL

But no....me no wants a baseball bat, thank you for your suggestions!

Luv N Theory...I too think you have an eloquent post...however, I want to add...penis size is a PREFERENCE, just like no hair, long hair, blonde or brunette, big boobs, itty bitty t!tty committee, short, tall, fat, small. I too, have had a lover with a ginormous one...and I have had a lover with a wittle willy. (and in between, too!) You are right....as most have attested to...it is nothing to do with the size, and everything to do with technique. BUT....always a but...there is also NOTHING WRONG WITH THE WOMAN who prefer a little more! If asking dude to use a vibrator or dildo on her...or wearing a sleeve of sorts, for enhancement, or whatever it takes...makes him feel less of a man, then that's sad for HIM. I know that is not what you were referring to...I just hate that so many have screamed "SHALLOW" and "SUPERFICIAL" from the rooftops, when it is about preference. Some like it in the ass, over the vagina. Some are soooooo inclined orally that it seems an act. Do what works for YOU...and guys...NEVER let a woman make you feel less of a man cause SHE liked it differently.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 115
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Posted: 4/20/2009 11:44:45 PM
Yeah that's pretty shallow. How would you feel if some guy dumped you because your chi-chi was to tight or to loose or not atractive enough, or your butt was to big, or your boobs to small? If your gonna hold out for the porn star willie, you've got future Cat Lady written all over you!
 Mrblackromance
Joined: 3/17/2008
Msg: 117
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Posted: 4/21/2009 6:23:24 AM
My thoughts are that we all like certain things and you should never second guess yourself for what you like. If you can not be happy with a man with a small pencil then that it just the way it is. If you tried to make yourself happy, It would come across in other areas of your relationship and would turn out badly. While sex isn't everything a woman that is well pleased in the bedroom and is treated with respect outside the bedroom is generally a woman in love. And there is nothing better for a real man than being with a woman who is in love
 Anneistiny
Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 118
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Posted: 4/21/2009 7:28:39 AM
I was married for 20 years and only had sex with one man for over 25 years. He I guess was average in size and we had a really good sex life. I was satisfied. Divorced now for 3 years I have discovered the males with large c****. I had now idea what I was missing all those years and I am not sure I could go back to average size. I met this one black man that was so large that when I held his b alls in my hand the tip of the member tocuhed my biscept and I could not see my forearm....I think I fell in love
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