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 Don56789
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 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 3/6/2018 3:27:23 AM
Well you would be a special case as you have been abused....stinks because it is typically ruined any life experiences you would of had with a man in a positive time.....I have never given a woman trouble over that and never will.....alternatives might be a woman masturbating a guy or other actions.....for your piece of mind I would hope you have gone to treatment and talked to a professional not to perform but to give you peace of mind and solice in what happened to you....be safe!
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 3/8/2018 7:54:23 AM
I like giving blow jobs but seeing c*m or touching or having it in my mouth makes me dry wretch like I'm going to spew.
How do I fix it? It's such an annoyance. Its like I have a phobia
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 3/12/2018 3:06:51 PM

I like giving blow jobs but seeing c*m or touching or having it in my mouth makes me dry wretch like I'm going to spew.
How do I fix it? It's such an annoyance. Its like I have a phobia

I thought in another post you said you didn't like giving BJs.

Anyway, even SEEING cum -- if that freaks you out, then yeah, you do have way too much an issue. Not that it should make you horny-as-hell, but, getting freaked out by merely seeing it does mean there's an issue to resolve there.

I would honestly say start with seeing it on "tv", in porn genre that's not on the dirty side. Get exposed to it. You may Want to Not like seeing it, so I guess the very first step is realizing that it's not a bad thing. It's a body fluid, like a gal's juices getting wet. Expose yourself to both, watch it, etc.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 1472
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Posted: 3/12/2018 3:20:24 PM


I thought in another post you said you didn't like giving BJs.


Correct, and she likes her men masculine, but feminine, smart, but dumb, mean, but nice, sane, but crazy, skinny, but stocky, etc.

This place is a f*cking nuthouse.
 _Rise_Above_This_
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 3/12/2018 3:48:11 PM
^^^^^^

True but remember a lot of these people are squirrelly .
 Nestaron
Joined: 10/11/2017
Msg: 1474
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Posted: 3/12/2018 5:10:10 PM
@SiennaBear2 Try tabasco sauce I hear it will help you out a lot even better when mixed with tequila you should try it
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 3/13/2018 7:02:25 AM
I met a man whom did not like them due to a past experience.
Can't change the past and some can't get past the bad experience.
Best to find like minded peeps.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 3/13/2018 7:05:21 AM
What the hell? Did a woman bite his schlong off or something?

 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? oh come on
Posted: 3/13/2018 2:47:50 PM
long time ago, I had a gf who felt like she was an artichoke fan. Worried about teeth ever since :)

actually, my issue is my mind wanders. I'd rather play hummingbird amongst her rose pedals and let my hands wander or weave my fingers into her's as her back arches. I guess I like to multitask.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 3/13/2018 4:29:45 PM
Not into blow jobs. Not even when madly in love. Prossies used to earn good money giving blow jobs for men whose wivcs and lovers wouldn't "cum" at it. Some women seem to enjoy it but but no means all.
 2ufo
Joined: 12/25/2017
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Posted: 3/13/2018 5:07:51 PM
If I like the man, then oral sex is not out of the question.
If I like the man AND the taste of him, then it's definitely a green light.
Unless he objects and, if he's agreeable then we try to work around what is mutually enjoyable for both of us.

For what it's worth - men can deal with no blowjobs, they just don't like it.
 southernsaint
Joined: 4/24/2016
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Posted: 4/23/2018 11:37:34 PM
your gonna have to find someone one that doesnt mind not getting them.. Its mans nature and we love blow jobs.. but you have a past and if that man like you enough he should give you that respect.. i was rasied by 3 women my mom aunt and grandma (dad was never around).. you need to tell the person your dating (if you want to take it further with them) that you have that past(you dont have to go into detail, dont give your self flash backs).. If he doesnt want you cause of that then honestly girl you dont need him cause all he cares about is a blow job and not your feelings. Ive see everytype of Man there ever could be.. Ive seen shit that i dont tell people. Prison gave me insight on everything... Majority of men are pieces of shit.. Im saying this and im a guy.. but i can be an ***hole at times.. been working on it but i would never disrepect anyone especially a female.. so if he can respect you **** him the is always someone else.. hince PLENTY OF FISH...
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 4/24/2018 3:00:03 PM
I like doing it but I'll get exhausted after doing it more than 40 mins or so. Apparently I've gotten so good at it. It's great to have a partner who actually communicates what to do and how they like it. It's not even enjoyable when they just don't communicate anything. Like dude do you even like it? lol, like why am I doing this again. Dead fish. A lot are like that. Honestly isn't helping anyone and makes for a failed relationship/failed dating.
 Braylen99
Joined: 4/19/2018
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Posted: 4/24/2018 3:56:49 PM
Do you swallow Sienna?

My ex hated it when I farted during oral sex
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 4/25/2018 12:40:18 AM
No lol I don't like cvm in my mouth. Just a preference I can't shake unless I'm drunk but my boyfriend won't allow it for sone reason lol.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 4/25/2018 1:14:59 AM

I like doing it but I'll get exhausted after doing it more than 40 mins or so. Apparently I've gotten so good at it.

40m straight? Geezus, that's a long time. Not an indicator you're So good at it, unless you begin blowing immediately after sex and just lazily "pecking" at it for most of that time. Those who are great at it will easily make a guy come in less than 10m, unless they Want to go down on him ad nausem on a lazy Sunday afternoon on the couch forever (to purposely make it last for a long long time).

No lol I don't like cvm in my mouth. Just a preference I can't shake unless I'm drunk but my boyfriend won't allow it for sone reason lol.

First, I don't think many guys mind that as long as she doesn't freak out when he's about to come (tolerant of dealing with pre-cum) + she lets him cum on her for the grand finale... although I think most guys would prefer to have the occasional swallow at least once in a great while. That said, "my boyfriend won't allow it for some reason," -- are you referring to Not allowing you to have it in your mouth, or the opposite?
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 4/25/2018 2:45:53 AM
Yeah my boyfriend is on medication that makes him last way longer and makes it hard to cvm Aka antidepressants. So we can have sex for hours and hours without him getting riskily close. Hence 40 min blow jobs

My boyfriend told me I've gotten so good at it, because he actually taught me how to do it and what he likes and guides me. The other guys were lazy and didn't.

Oh I meant he won't allow me to get drunk so I can tolerate it. He feels as though I'd be off my face and not really want it if I was drunk. Which isn't true but I don't really mind
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 4/25/2018 5:06:56 AM
40 minutes?

It's one thing to take your time and do some teasing before you get to the pleasing...but to have to work at it that hard for 40 minutes straight would result in me having him jerk himself off with me using my mouth as added sensation for him. this old gals' neck and jaw couldn't hang!!
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Posted: 4/26/2018 3:35:05 AM

I'll get exhausted after doing it more than 40 mins or so


40m straight? Geezus, that's a long time...Those who are great at it will easily make a guy come in less than 10m

No, that sounds like heaven. For me, "good" is defined by how long it happens, not how fast. And it doesn't have to be done such that it gets tiring. No need for that. Don't need to work so hard...all kinds of things to do other than the obvious energy-intensive method. I always loved the journey, more than the destination. Same the other way around...if I'm down on her, I want to stay there forever. Not trying to just hurry up and get it done. Except of course in that case it's because there are multiple destinations taking place, just because of the general difference in biology and capability.

I never understood all of that...how long it lasts is my judging criteria. Not how quick we can get it done.
 Braylen99
Joined: 4/19/2018
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Posted: 4/26/2018 6:40:43 AM
I love to have my nuts licked

Any time I said the code word ‘dilly dilly’, my ex would tickle my jewels ever so gently
 prettybrwneyedone
Joined: 6/1/2017
Msg: 1489
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Posted: 4/27/2018 5:38:02 PM

Do you swallow Sienna?


I get why you have such an obsession with trolling me, because you can't ask ridiculously asinine and inappropriate questions of me. You're such ****ing disgusting piece of shit to ask a question like that of someone that you don't know.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 4/28/2018 12:06:29 AM

Oh I meant he won't allow me to get drunk so I can tolerate it. He feels as though I'd be off my face and not really want it if I was drunk. Which isn't true but I don't really mind

Being drunk does that about all sorts of things. Our irrational fears go away. We're more tolerant of things that are not a big deal, but normally are to our emotions. It's funny that those who are scared of alleged "haunted houses" -- suddenly aren't scared after having a few extra beers. :) Haunted houses don't exist once we take a couple shots of Fireball! I guess ghosts hate booze.

No, that sounds like heaven [40m BJ]. For me, "good" is defined by how long it happens, not how fast.

True, but 40m? 15m is a long time, unless again, it's just lazily casually playing with it on a lazy Sunday afternoon. But for a sit-down session on Saturday night -- unless one's otherwise Not wanting sex or not-in-the-mood would prefer 40m of sucking VS 15m of that (a long time), with 'other stuff'.
 brittv88
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Posted: 4/29/2018 4:55:27 AM
Ai am making a post
 HUMHUMA
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Posted: 6/7/2018 4:27:18 AM
LOL....Give and get....My forte is giving women what I call quality oral meaning massages....kissing till they whimper and ending up between their soft thighs tasting the goods and NEVER have I expected them to reciprocatebut in saying that have never refused any lip service they have offered and even have kind of coached them if asked on what I liked and what felt good....but only if asked because I can live with doing what I like...lol
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