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 bigeazzie
Joined: 8/15/2009
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I won't date a woman that is not into oral sex and yes I give as good as I recieve.
 mainelyhere
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 1427
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Posted: 2/23/2012 2:40:24 PM
Why should anyone "deal" with anything? People have the right to be sexually gratified and BJs are a valid part of many peoples routine.

Sorry you are damaged, but it's your problem not theirs
 Kohmelo
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 1428
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Posted: 2/23/2012 7:37:06 PM
It would make sense to me that if there were really abuse issues you would suck every Dick you could to forget the one that you really want to forget.
So if the reason was "I was abused", I would call Bullshit

oh and no.
 minnwild
Joined: 12/10/2011
Msg: 1429
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Posted: 2/24/2012 5:20:01 PM
I really love blow jobs. No blow jobs would not work. I could go slow thou and help you feel comfortable about it again.
 AsanteSoul
Joined: 12/16/2011
Msg: 1430
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Posted: 2/24/2012 6:01:21 PM
I do not care much for getting oral sex; considering no woman has ever made me ejaculate this way, it is totally unnecessary.
 Springlve
Joined: 11/16/2011
Msg: 1431
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Posted: 2/24/2012 6:19:29 PM
i agree with jnh456, i have never met one single man that did not like it. i definitley learned something new today.
 mogrl42
Joined: 4/16/2007
Msg: 1432
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Posted: 2/25/2012 6:57:41 AM

.....How would you feel if he wretched every time he went down on you and you started to get wet?
I`d say that it is time to shower and maybe douche.....OP,I love the way he reacts and I know he loves it and I love making him happy this way.

Some guys don`t like it ,but most love it and some guys you don`t what anywhere near your mouth...... " you are what you eat" is so true....
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 1433
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Posted: 2/25/2012 7:02:16 AM
No. Next question please.
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 1434
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Posted: 2/25/2012 11:15:32 AM
Yes I could. I like blow jobs and I would prefer to date a woman that gives BJs. But that's not a mandatory requirement. Especially if I like almost everything else about her.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 2/25/2012 10:52:49 PM
NO



Men cannot deal with NOT getting blowjobs.

I have heard of guys that after sex, having been refused a BJ,
have sat in the closet crying ,
while raping the DYSON.

Oh woe! toward that heinous of heiniosities!
 king20c
Joined: 2/19/2012
Msg: 1436
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Posted: 2/25/2012 11:38:45 PM

i agree with jnh456, i have never met one single man that did not like it. i definitley learned something new today.


to be honest, ive never had a good one. dont know if that means that i dont like them though
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 1437
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Posted: 2/25/2012 11:40:40 PM
i would NEVER date a woman, much less finish the first sexual encounter if she refused to give me head...




i'd get up and walk away.
 BeeRad82
Joined: 1/27/2012
Msg: 1438
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Posted: 2/25/2012 11:43:17 PM

i'd get up and walk away.


As any dignified man should.
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 1439
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Posted: 2/25/2012 11:43:24 PM
Not No........But HELL NO!!!
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 2/26/2012 2:46:59 AM
that would be a deal breaker for me.. i honestly prefer oral sex to intercourse.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 2/26/2012 4:25:09 AM
Deal breaker for me, unfortunately.

Must give and take.
 muniz1
Joined: 6/24/2009
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Posted: 1/26/2013 12:43:34 PM
For me if its no blowjobs then its no relationship. Period.
 Man In New Hampshire
Joined: 9/23/2005
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Posted: 1/26/2013 4:06:30 PM
In the past it might have been a deal breaker. Although it was never something I had to deal with. After about age 45 I decided having a great relationship can happen without being fixated on any one thing.
Sure, some things are important to each of us that we hope to find a partner who also puts importance on.
If oral sex was a part of it, great. If not, there are so many other ways to have great sex that I'm not going to worry about oral sex.
 MsSunset
Joined: 1/30/2012
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Posted: 1/26/2013 4:23:00 PM
How can a woman not want to give blow jobs?Unless unfortunately they have experienced trauma. I love it. The feel, the taste. I feel like the most powerful woman on earth to be giving that pleasure to someone else.
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 1445
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Posted: 1/26/2013 4:41:24 PM
No probably not and in all fairness why should they? Would you want to live without your entire life? Isnt it better to overcome your phobia, heal and conquer the power it has over you? Better to live free I think.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 1/26/2013 4:41:47 PM
If I were to have a relationship with alligator or vampire...I could manage to do without until I found better company.
 bindings
Joined: 11/4/2012
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Posted: 1/26/2013 5:09:34 PM
i dont know about men dealing with not getting one, but i know i couldnt deal with not giving one!
 GlitterGirl73
Joined: 7/7/2012
Msg: 1448
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Posted: 1/26/2013 5:47:53 PM
I actual dated a man that was opposed to them. He made his preference clear when we first became intimate. It was a shock to me as I never met any man that felt this way. He had his reasons and I was perfectly willing to accommodate his wishes as I cared for him. But it did bring up other concerns and had a negative effect on our relationship. He was much younger than me as well. So there are men out there that are willing to live without oral pleasure. You are just going to have to either make your preferences know early in the relationship or work on the issue with a therapist.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 1/26/2013 7:34:29 PM
Well, I can be a little fussy about it....if you just finshed eating a limburger cheese and sardine sandwich...You're not giving me a BJ for 24 hours....and I'm not kissing you in the mouth for week! LOL
 wallsg7
Joined: 1/10/2013
Msg: 1450
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Posted: 1/27/2013 9:25:29 AM
trying to answer the original question...i think if you knew how much pleasure it gave the man you wouldnt ask that question.its a mind-blowing experience for us guys.its the best gift you could ever give.its the greatest sign of true love and affection that exists on the planet.me personaly,ill do whatever my woman wants in the bedroom.so that should be reciprocated.thats what great sex is all about!
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