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 carrerajason1
Joined: 8/3/2012
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If he cant understand that...try giving him a good hand job. I like those just as much. But really...i like BJ. But if my partner has had what you had...and he still asks.... Tell him to blow himself...
 Slate56
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 1463
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Posted: 1/30/2013 6:40:24 AM
Hmmm there are men that don't like to go down on women, finger them, do doggies, kiss , cuddle, see their neked body and a host of things. Eventually I think between the man and women having things they refuse to do, you'll end up being just buddies, which may be best 'in the end'. I think a serious talk before you even begin a relationship is required, compare your 'punch list' in and OUT of bed before you more to intimate things.

Doing without things (sexual or non-sexual) can lead to frustration, and even resentment sometimes. It's best to be on the same page with as few (I won't do this or that) as possible. You'll have a better chance at making it IMO. Of course, you can't be mad at those that love something you aren't willing to do that move on in search of their ' choice of someone that have in common with them.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
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Posted: 1/30/2013 12:39:31 PM
Best discuss this with potential partner before hand. Some men do not enjoy receiving oral sex others could not live without it.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 1/31/2013 10:24:57 AM
While I AM a proponent of the ~ Even-Trade~....
It Should be something that The Lady enjoys, also!
If she's _Absolutely_ against it... as a 'replacement', I might suggest a Vigorous, Enthusiastic 2-Fister!!!
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 1466
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Posted: 6/12/2017 9:09:18 AM
If she doesn't find my pen!s beautiful and uses a vibrator every time we have sex, then either I'm terrible in the sack or she's staying in the relationship for the wrong reasons.

Most likely for security.

Either way, this monkey is swinging to another branch...
 SS4544Spd
Joined: 8/31/2016
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Posted: 6/12/2017 1:58:11 PM

Best discuss this with potential partner before hand


Is that before hand?

Or beforehand?
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 1468
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Posted: 6/13/2017 5:13:45 AM
just so long as she discusses it honestly. You'd hate to get jerked around.

maybe there should be made a T-shirt about it? The slogan could be:

Who can do without a blowjob?

This guy

and a fist and thumb logo on each side, pointing up at the wearer. maybe if they could move up and down for emphasis.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 1469
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Posted: 6/13/2017 1:21:07 PM
"If she doesn't find my pen!s beautiful and uses a vibrator every time we have sex, then either I'm terrible in the sack or she's staying in the relationship for the wrong reasons."




If a woman would rather use a vibrator than make use of my fingers and tongue then that would be a bigger issue than not getting a BJ
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 6/14/2017 6:35:35 PM
I could care less. Don't want to? Fine by me. Would you get a rise from giving me one? More power to ya, have a ball. Just remember, I didn't ask for it.
 Mascali
Joined: 4/5/2013
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Posted: 7/26/2017 12:58:29 PM
Not sure 9 years later you are still paying attention, but as a man with a permanent ED issue, I would be very glad to have sexual contact with any woman I found to be attractive without it being reciprocated, given my condition. I like to fantasize that even young women who aren't receiving enough good oral sex would be open to such play without any need from my end towards a relationship.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
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Posted: 8/8/2017 8:13:29 AM
You won't get them anyway after a few years of marriage when she falls out of love with you!
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 8/9/2017 7:34:54 AM


Let me add here I'm looking for a wife


My most heartfelt condolences to you.
 spanking_dolphin
Joined: 8/10/2017
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Posted: 8/17/2017 8:34:09 AM
I dont care about oral, and i dont give it so i dont expect to get it.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 8/25/2017 11:24:50 AM


If a woman would rather use a vibrator than make use of my fingers and tongue then that would be a bigger issue than not getting a BJ


How about using ALL of the above? It’s all about giving and receiving pleasure, if she likes toys, then we can use them together, it’s all good.

Hell, I invested in a sybian machine last year, and that has been a real blast!

But back to the original question. I like BJs, but they are not essential. I have known women who really didn’t like giving them, and I was okay with that. If two people are truly interested in pleasing each other, there are many, many, many ways to get there.





Let me add here I'm looking for a wife

My most heartfelt condolences to you.


Thanks for that, I needed a good laugh today.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 1/9/2018 3:09:59 PM
NO BLOW JOBS from me.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 1/10/2018 1:08:52 AM

NO BLOW JOBS from me.


Cooldog? Is there a shaking head emoji? Help a brotha' out here.
 Don56789
Joined: 11/19/2017
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Posted: 1/12/2018 12:16:34 AM
Let's get together

at the mrs above
 Don56789
Joined: 11/19/2017
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Posted: 1/12/2018 12:30:32 AM
Just being playful, at the mrs above. ;)
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 3/6/2018 3:27:23 AM
Well you would be a special case as you have been abused....stinks because it is typically ruined any life experiences you would of had with a man in a positive time.....I have never given a woman trouble over that and never will.....alternatives might be a woman masturbating a guy or other actions.....for your piece of mind I would hope you have gone to treatment and talked to a professional not to perform but to give you peace of mind and solice in what happened to you....be safe!
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 3/8/2018 7:54:23 AM
I like giving blow jobs but seeing c*m or touching or having it in my mouth makes me dry wretch like I'm going to spew.
How do I fix it? It's such an annoyance. Its like I have a phobia
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 3/12/2018 3:06:51 PM

I like giving blow jobs but seeing c*m or touching or having it in my mouth makes me dry wretch like I'm going to spew.
How do I fix it? It's such an annoyance. Its like I have a phobia

I thought in another post you said you didn't like giving BJs.

Anyway, even SEEING cum -- if that freaks you out, then yeah, you do have way too much an issue. Not that it should make you horny-as-hell, but, getting freaked out by merely seeing it does mean there's an issue to resolve there.

I would honestly say start with seeing it on "tv", in porn genre that's not on the dirty side. Get exposed to it. You may Want to Not like seeing it, so I guess the very first step is realizing that it's not a bad thing. It's a body fluid, like a gal's juices getting wet. Expose yourself to both, watch it, etc.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 3/12/2018 3:20:24 PM


I thought in another post you said you didn't like giving BJs.


Correct, and she likes her men masculine, but feminine, smart, but dumb, mean, but nice, sane, but crazy, skinny, but stocky, etc.

This place is a f*cking nuthouse.
 _Rise_Above_This_
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 3/12/2018 3:48:11 PM
^^^^^^

True but remember a lot of these people are squirrelly .
 Nestaron
Joined: 10/11/2017
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Posted: 3/12/2018 5:10:10 PM
@SiennaBear2 Try tabasco sauce I hear it will help you out a lot even better when mixed with tequila you should try it
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 3/13/2018 7:02:25 AM
I met a man whom did not like them due to a past experience.
Can't change the past and some can't get past the bad experience.
Best to find like minded peeps.
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