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 burnley-lad
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 33
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AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?Page 2 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
A cum kiss has never been something i'm comfortable with. The whole idea sames to make me uncomfortable, if they want to kiss after i've gone down on her than fine but i wouldn't be able to do it the other way.

Every person is to they own and knows what they really like and is comfortable with
 dollface465
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 34
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 6/20/2005 7:32:59 PM
its a certain level of intimacy that not everyone is comfortable with...to each his own tho....but i suggest you try it
 mark130273
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/21/2005 4:54:36 AM
@singlemum18fuk.......good on your well played.......that what we like to here.........giving adndrecieving thats wahts it all about >lol
 mack
Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 39
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 6/22/2005 9:34:00 AM
those cans are nice
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 43
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 6/19/2007 8:56:00 PM
What is with the childish views on sex? I think of someone who has a hang-up as sexually immature. Perhaps you need to stop having it or find someone that is on the same level as you. I, for one, have no plans to ever give up extreme pleasure because some immature woman thinks it's gross. Sorry, this seems silly to me. Love != sex, nor is love a substitute for sex (just as sex isn't a substitute for love).
 KeriC325
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 6/20/2007 11:34:08 AM
I have a problem when doing it. I have horriable gag reflexes. I have never had a strong stomache and all that. Not to mention, the last time I tried, I could tell he had just gotten himself off and it was not clean.

I personally am not a fan of someone doing it to me, so I do not feel bad when I don't. Its one of those things, if you really want me ot, i will try, but I most likely will not succeed. It is not something I find an enjoyment. But I know it is different for each person
 NEZCardsfan
Joined: 6/13/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 6/20/2007 11:35:45 AM
It's now a requirement. Being honest.
 squirterforyou
Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 54
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 8/1/2007 9:02:37 PM
I know many men who won't. I don't care either way, there are always things people are hesitant about but there are times when I dig in my heals and say "you want a BJ.... but are disgusted with the reciprical oral??? wtf.... not until you make an effort (doesn't need to be oral)...."

But you are in the opposite.... you are a woman who loves it but won't reciprocate. I don't think there is anything wrong with it, as long as your partner understands your point of view and level of comfort.
 eb3267
Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 55
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 8/1/2007 10:01:30 PM
Sex is about feeling comfortable..

Do what you want to.. If BJ's aren't your thing then don't do them..

If a man feels you "owe" it to him, show him the door..

Do I do BJ's, when I feel like it, but if you tell me it's a requirement, you can kiss my *ss !!
 Isabella1900
Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 8/2/2007 12:27:07 PM
Is it not a generational thing, it is cultural. There here more bacterias in our mouth that in the vagina or pennis. Oral is a old practice in other cultures. Our religions teach us that sex is dirty and men always try to take avantege of us (Women) The first time my ex husband ask me for I think that he was a pervert, He give me a book about The best wy to give oral .
I read it and after a couple of years I acepted to try. It was so bad, the first try.
But in a hot vacations that we had in south Mexico, the things will go better and now
I enjoy to give and recive, it is extremely sexual and you can improve it with ice cream, liquit chocolate, let you imagination tell you. Just do what ever you feel confortable. The meaning of sex is enjoy and share.

SusY137
 MONEMPERER
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 60
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 8/4/2007 3:47:35 PM
women who dont give head are useless in my opinion. its the most selfless act one can perform on a partner. Now if both sides dont like it thats one thing but have yet to know any guys who dont like head. Its not the head its her looking into your eyes with love as you dissapear into her mouth also a great way to spend an evening her giving you head as you stroke her hair.
 PRINCESSFIFI
Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 66
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Posted: 8/4/2007 7:15:28 PM
if you feel that way, thats your choice,however i think theres nothing wrong with having an open mind about oral...its all about perception..if you view "it as an instrument that pees and ejaculates (giggle), that alone is bound to turn you off....i used to think similar to you...but the way i view it now is, "it" is an extension of the man i love and want to be passionate with...and it gives me a buzz to see him so turned on..
 crazyindian69
Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 8/4/2007 8:55:41 PM
OP: Oral sex is a natural thing, please step away from the computer and get a habit. If you don't like the taste then make your man/woman eat peppermint mints while or after he/she done eating you.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 8/5/2007 4:13:26 AM
I would lick a female, make her cum, and just keep going until she came again and/or pushed me off her because she is fully satisfied.
Now, if that same female offered me oral but removed her mouth from me as I was about to cum, then I would not do the above treatment for her ever again. I'd simply mimic her technique, which is to pull my face away from her every time she cums and use my fingers instead.
 bisexual4u
Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 77
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Posted: 8/5/2007 8:18:12 PM
u are right but i love to give head as much as it been given to me i love head it makes me come when igive head as i say if u dont give back y should u recive it
dont do it dont need it i say
 Fun at the beach
Joined: 7/3/2007
Msg: 78
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 8/6/2007 2:40:20 PM
If you keep you **** clean I.E. clean it befor sex and with water after peeing your ****'s juice is exactly like you saliva.

so if you french kiss or french kiss after doing oral on a clean **** the should be no problem.

I think washing might be the isse here. Not Kissing.
 duty1234
Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 8/8/2007 7:09:24 AM
ive never met a woman in my life that doesnt like doing it or reciveing it but then again im a very open to new things ........
 susieq2007
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 94
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Posted: 8/8/2007 3:36:56 PM
I love doing it to.

I'll leave it at that.

But I LOVE IT.
LOVE LOVE LOVE IT.

Oops. I said I'd leave it at that. And I didn't.

Well, you get what I mean.

LOVE IT.
 vhdc
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 95
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 8/8/2007 3:39:00 PM

I'm beginning to think that I'm the only one who will not do it back!

I'm thinking you are the only one as well.
 christylicious
Joined: 8/9/2006
Msg: 103
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES NOT DO ORAL?
Posted: 8/23/2007 7:42:38 PM
Oh no, that sounds like a nightmare to me. I love oral sex (giving and receiving) far too much to go without either.

And as Ive said in another thread...sex is messy and lots of bodily fluids are exchanged...I love sharing that. I love kissing my man after weve had oral sex (via 69).

Mmmmm...gonna be a good night! LOL.
 Angelnurse10
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 106
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Posted: 8/24/2007 6:38:09 AM
coco sweetheat, have you ever tried it? If your in a relationship you should be able to give to receive. Oral is the only way I can orgasm some time, and I love to reciprocate. If your both clean down there, there should be no problems with kissing afterwards. When he kisses me after he gives me oral, I can't describe exactly what I taste, but it is ME, and it is not bad. And like I said if you are clean, semen does not have a bad taste, and its not like he is going to pee in your mouth. I agree with you on the generation thing. I was married two times and they were the same age as me, and I always did oral on them, but they never wanted to do it with me. Until I found someone 14 years younger than me, I did not know what I was missing. Now it is a requirement.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 12/11/2007 12:36:13 PM

wow, sucks to be her guy.


Apparently it's okay if he sucks...
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 112
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Posted: 12/12/2007 1:50:34 PM
I will NOT do oral and do not want it done to me. I do NOT like french kissing either. For foreplay a man fingers and hands caressing and stroking me is what I like followed with intercourse, penis in vagina, with some more touching , stroking caressing with a man's fingers and hands. Perhaps, this has nothing to do with oral . I am a vegatarian and have been all my life. I could never stand meat, bird or fish in my mouth either since I was first fed as a child, I just find all that distasteful. Yuck, ugh.
For those people who do oral but don't like the taste or smell, I would suggest the Kama Sutra Oil of Love. It comes in many flavors and scents and it is warming too. I use this for sexual intercouse, and hand and finger foreplay because it is warming.
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