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 MarvaJanuice
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 126
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*blinks at Jazzy and wonders how many ladies hide their little pearl from Him
 luv_n_theory
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 127
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 5/8/2009 5:39:21 AM
His age doesn't matter. My brother and his wife divorced at 10 years of marriage, he was 35. He confided in me that she said he could never please her sexually and that is why she had an affair. I asked him how often did she have an orgasm during sex and he said he didn't know. I then went on to ask him if he had ever seen to it that she did. He said no.

I called my mom and told her I thought my brother was in trouble sexually and that he might be a very selfish lover and this may be one of the reasons Leanne left him. She laughed but then said because he had no real father figure he may not have ever understood the need to please a woman beyond pleasing himself.

So, one night my ex-hubby and I called him over. He drew a diagram of a womans body and asked my brother specific questions about where the clit was, ureathra and so forth. My brother failed on everything. He had no idea where anything was but the hole where he injected his sperm. He admitted he had never even looked at it up close. He actually thought women peed from inside of their bodies...I rolled my eyes.

My brother was considered an Adonis. Women batted their eyes when he walked by and threw themselves at him on a regular basis. I never understood why he could not keep a girl until this day.

Now he knows what he is doing, thanks to my ex and he has made his g/f of many years a very happy woman.

So, you can teach an old dog tricks he shoulda known a long time ago.

OP, I suggest you get some good DVD's on performing oral sex on a woman. It wouldn't hurt to buy some on how to locate the G-spot while you are at it
 CREngineer
Joined: 3/5/2008
Msg: 128
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 5/8/2009 11:11:48 AM
No offense KPooks but if done correctly the woman should be in a coma for a while and be tingly for days . It's a fine art, many do it wrong, you don't just "get all flitty" with the tongue and clit, it's morre like slow deliberate circles teasing at first but then bare down, many think they need to be too gentle. There is more to it than that but for a forum that's about as far as I can go, you can buy my book though, it's on Amazon now and comes with one free cherry stem for practice
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 129
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 5/8/2009 11:32:41 AM
I kinda have to agree with KPooks here. I mean 7 pages worth is a lot?
Its too bad Bohemian Rhapsody didn't give his very eloquent and thought out disertation on the fine art of stimulating the clitoris on page 1, then we could all go on the next topic! LOL

IMHO, How do you stimulate the clitoris? I believe it all begins with words. It all begins with making the woman feel comfortable, make her feel wanted, let her know how much you care about her, and how much you want to please her. Get her to the point where she wants you to touch her, then .....................make her wait!
Go all around "it", with your fingers and your tongue. Rub her inner thighs, if she still has her panties on, rub along the sides of them, then very gently rub "it" on the outside of her panties. When the time is right, let her have it! Your tongue, your fingers.....at this point go back and read Bohemian Rhapsody and you'll have one very hot woman on your hands!
 REDDRAGON.
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 130
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:31:58 PM

This sounds like a stupid question but how do you stimulate the clitoris? Does it get enough stimulation with regular penetration or do you need to stimulate it some other way? How sensitive is it to touch?




try waving a credit card in front of it....................................
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 131
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:39:26 PM
I read to it. Chaucer and Whitman mostly.


 psylocillin
Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 132
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/11/2009 6:07:09 PM
LMAO

Mastercard World Elite gets em every time.

 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 133
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/11/2009 6:11:37 PM
And don't forget, they come cheaper by the dozen....
 Outdo Or Indo
Joined: 5/17/2009
Msg: 134
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/11/2009 7:07:46 PM
Simple, just put my tongue between your legs and voila, stimulated
 lookatunude
Joined: 7/12/2009
Msg: 135
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/19/2009 12:02:32 PM
Every woman is different. Flat tongue, tip of your tongue, rapid, slow. Try, try again
 scrantonguy2010
Joined: 2/22/2004
Msg: 136
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/19/2009 12:20:13 PM
Try touching it.
 dasouthernikon
Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 137
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/19/2009 1:59:16 PM
Lick it softly, massage it, suck and bite on it, rub the head of the penis on it. also, use lube and a toy on it.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 138
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:25:16 PM
Write to President Obama and see what he can do to get Congress to pass something to get it stimulated. Oh wait..thats the economy. We aren't doing a very good job at that either.

Sorry..having a brain cramp here!
 GREATEST LOVER
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 139
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:44:04 PM
i suggest you go read some sex books o.p.
 sunlover1967
Joined: 10/19/2008
Msg: 140
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:48:21 PM
To O.P..

This was taught to me by a Bi girl..

But first an explination. Do you know what a rasberry is.. If not, you blow with your lips until they vibrate..so we have this clear.....

You first lick the clit for a while to get the women started and then you start with a gentle blowing (rasberry) just on the hood of the clit.. You continue to do this and blow harder (more vibration) until she comes..

This also works for a women that has a hard time to cum. I have found this works every time and gives women multiple orgasms.
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 141
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 9/19/2009 10:45:19 PM
show it your paycheck



^^^Cash and credit cards will work too..
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 142
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 9/19/2009 10:56:36 PM
really? and you're married? lol. Sh*, no wonder the divorce rate is like 80%!!
 lookn4goodtime
Joined: 8/17/2009
Msg: 143
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 9/19/2009 11:23:21 PM
Here's my experience with this. Depending on what sexual posittion you are in, you can stimulate the clit and give her an orgasm that way, but the majority of the time if u want her to orgasm clitorally, use ur tongue and/or fingers. Also make sure to keep in mind that the sensitivity levels of each women's clit is different. Some women like u to be rough with it and and others gentle. The woman i had an unbelievable time with last night, doesn't want or need it to be rubbed with pressure but tickled gently. She was going nuts when I did it that way and she was so unbelievably wet. So really its trial and error and listening to what she likes and doesn't like.
 lovemesomemen
Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 144
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 9/20/2009 1:11:52 AM
How do you stimulate the clitoris?


With a powerful vibrator. At least that's how it is for me. Nothing else works.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 145
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 6/26/2010 11:50:29 AM
I'm begining to feel like some sex educator Sue Johanson type (lol). The clitoris is stimulated primarily from touch. Sometimes I've tryed to suck on it or gently play with it. Either I think helps. But from what I gather it is very sensetive, so you need to be gentle. Licking it works very well. Oh man, now I'm hungry
 *closer
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 146
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 6/26/2010 12:52:19 PM
The clitoris is stimulated primarily from touch.


Ya' think? lol
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 147
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 6/26/2010 1:23:27 PM
That's what I've heard. And it usually seems that way when I do it (lol). Yeah, apperently the clitoris is sensetive to touch and the G-spot is more sensetive to preasure. Am I wrong?
 Bfriends4now
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 148
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How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 6/26/2010 7:00:21 PM
Renault and Ford are working on a new small car for women. They are combining features of the Clio and the Taurus, and calling it the "Clitaurus." It only comes in pink, and the average male thief won't be able to find it, even if someone tells him where it is
 itsallinthesoul
Joined: 6/26/2009
Msg: 149
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 6/27/2010 6:01:32 AM
Renault and Ford are working on a new small car for women. They are combining features of the Clio and the Taurus, and calling it the "Clitaurus." It only comes in pink, and the average male thief won't be able to find it, even if someone tells him where it is


Now that was hilarious!!!

OT - women are not one size fits all....best way to find out is to ask her to show you and for God's sake, pay attention!!!!
 *closer
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 150
How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 6/27/2010 7:22:14 AM

That's what I've heard. And it usually seems that way when I do it (lol). Yeah, apperently the clitoris is sensitive to touch and the G-spot is more sensitive to pressure. Am I wrong?


I only know about mine,and I need a 'jack hammer 'on it to get off...so touch ain't gonna cut it.What's a G-spot? lol

Both need pressure and persistance and a constant back and forth between teasing and
hard rubbing or licking.

I know that the more turned on we are before we are touched...the easier it is to get us there.Or at least me.But most of the time,out of frustration,I just do it for myself as no one knows my clit better than I do.
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