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This is the biggest mistake men make in going down on a woman and that is imitating a penis with a much smaller appendage - the tongue.


I've always enjoyed that. To each their own.

After reading this thread I think I need some airconditioning, or a cold shower. LOL
 Riverkilt
Joined: 11/16/2008
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Posted: 12/25/2008 10:01:12 PM
Six pages already and no one has mentioned the book The Clitoral Truth?? Excellently and professionaly written that holds that the clitoris is, in fact, a very large organ with three legs...one on either side of the vaginal opening and the third the G spot area. I think you can also google up a picture of that description of the clitoris from some Argentine research. Try Google images but you may need to sort through a lot of porn.

As mentioned, talking before hand and during sensual pleasuring is best to learn what works "so far" for each lady. But if you know the true size and layout of the clitoris then you may also experiment with other areas to see if they are arousing to her.

And, didn't see mentioned using the head of his well lubricated penis to pleasure her clitoris. Probably more effective if you let her grab hold and use it how it best pleases her.

Once saw proper pressure on the clitoris described as, "light as a baby's eyelash." But, as pointed out that depends upon individual preference. Certainly a good way to start though.

Main thing, get some professional books and learn the anatomy of her girl parts well.
 lookingforloveinbadplaces
Joined: 12/20/2008
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Posted: 12/26/2008 3:53:28 AM
Very simple......depends on the girl though some like different things........

It's not rocket science...

First you should focus on locating the clitoris, and then attack it from all angles to see what her reaction is.......stick to the one she likes best....
 pinlynch10
Joined: 12/16/2008
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Posted: 12/26/2008 11:12:52 AM
Talk to a woman, like she's a lady. Help her with her coat; and when you do, be sure to move her hair from under her coat top. She'll melt...her eyes will roll pleasingly.

Open a door for her, she'll get flutters in her heart like you wouldn't believe.

Write her a letter...articulate the warmest thoughts you share about her. Be respectful, punctuate, and don't hold back. Tell her that she's needed and wanted; respected and revered. Sure, tell her that her body warms you: be sure to also tell her that she heats you up with her heart and mind. Like when you see her working hard, in spite of a cold.

Cook her dinner. Wash her clothes (properly...ask her how.). Clean up after her.

Wanna know how to stimulate her clitoris...stimulate her EVERYTHING!
 kkkiiimmm
Joined: 5/31/2008
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Posted: 12/26/2008 12:11:13 PM
every woman is different.....your best bet and truthfully, the ONLY answer:

ask each woman you are with to show you how she wants it done. be a good student. that is HOT!
 ApplePieFacePlant
Joined: 9/13/2008
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Posted: 12/26/2008 12:55:24 PM
Ron Jeremy is not repulsive.

The Hedgehog has quite a few great things going for him. Really nice penis, hairy body to pet, AND he looks like he knows how to munch some major carpet.
Good thing he enjoys that because it keeps him from talking.
 big22blue
Joined: 1/13/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2008 1:25:55 PM
get down there and lick around and suck on it for a while. you'll see that it is the key to the castle brother!
 big22blue
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Posted: 12/26/2008 1:28:15 PM
that is exactly what an old girlfriend told me 40 years ago. your penis is for filling and your tongue is for grazing!! however she did teach me that little rough spot behind is a prime place for fingers at the same time!!
 marinejack
Joined: 11/4/2008
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Posted: 12/26/2008 4:25:14 PM
stimulating the clitoris during doggystyle is a sure way to quicken an orgasm orrr make anal more pleasureable. some say its grose "anal" but the female reach around is a lil uncomfortable for the guy, but she will thank you
 tjlovessomebody
Joined: 3/24/2008
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Posted: 12/26/2008 5:05:47 PM
i dont know about anybody else but my clitoris is really sensitive. all you have to do is touch it and it feels really good. or else my vibrater works reeeeeeally well. i think all womens private parts can feel every little touch but i'm not sure cause i've never had sex with another girl before. bananas feel really good on my ****. and having a long hair accidently get all stuck some how in your **** feels reeeeally good to take it out slowly. i think it happens from taking a shower . but for me, just a tiny tiny little touch makes me have to hold back screaming. it is probably the most sensitive place on the body but i dont know cause i'm not a scientist but i know its true on me. thats why mens fingers feel so much better down there than womens fingers because there hands have deeper finger prints cause you can see there finger prints better when you look at there hands. and there hands are more rough so it feels alot alot alot better.
 Artistee
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Posted: 12/26/2008 7:37:11 PM
Use imagination...and make art out of it!
 ohio07
Joined: 12/27/2008
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Posted: 1/29/2009 11:09:30 AM
What RacerMatt said: (#6) Write it down! Trust me.
 wild heart
Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 1/29/2009 11:26:11 AM
Yup, I thought it was a kid, too.


I'm not surprised that he is older. I'm telling you, I discuss sex with some people and compared to what I know (I'm no expert) they don't know a thing!

The problem is that whenever someone DOES ask for help, they get lambasted like this poster. At least he's effing trying which is more than I can say for some men I have met.

The problem with society is that it tells you that you HAVE to know everything about sex. That you are some virgin or weirdo if you don't. Most people are embarassed to ask questions like this.

Most of us women complain about men not researching or educating themselves?! This is the perfect way to make someone NOT want to do this. By making fun of them.

I make fun of those who DON'T ask questions. Just saying.


Main thing, get some professional books and learn the anatomy of her girl parts well.

Agreed, so some research on the net, books etc.
 Allogene
Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 5/6/2009 1:34:18 PM
Hi there, Cat*Eyes... Let's see, first, like you want, I would ASK the woman just HOW *she* likes to be stimulated. In fact, I REALLY enjoy and get off on watch a girl get HERSELF off. I'd like her to sit and a chair or couch across from me and REALLY get into herself with fingers and toys. When she's REALLY hot and wet, even if she might have had a small orgasm, I would go over slowly and start by sensually licking he legs and thighs. (Of course I'd be perfectly willing to STILL take "instructions" from her ) I'd do this and slowly make sure her legs were spread open nice and wide and start lapping her full crack, front to back like how animals get acquainted and "make friends" . I'd tongue her ***hole a bit and then move down to her **** and start to "get serious". I'd play with her labia and gently pull on her lips with my teeth covered by my lips. Of course, if she wants it harder Id oblige. All the time, I'm assuming that she's still playing with her clit. I'd the stick my tongue her **** hole and then stick it in as deep as I could go and tongue **** her. Hopefully she's REAL hot by now and having some pre or mini orgasms. I'd then substitute my tongue for a finger and stick it in REAL DEEP. First slowly and gently and then faster and harder. Then shove another finger in there finger ****ing her nice and hard rigght on her G spot. By this time I'd be licking all around her clit and sucking on it REAL HARD, if she wants it,... I'd even smack her clit a few time with my fingers and palm!

At this time, she should be having one of the greatest orgasms of her life! I have YET to have awoman who did not SQUIRT like crazy when I did this! I'd lap EVERY drop I could that came out or squirted all over my face and then quickly go up and share her delicious juices in a DEEP PASSIONATE KISS!!!

At least , THAT'S how I*I would stimulate a clitoris!

Don
 lightening51
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Posted: 5/6/2009 2:51:33 PM
Vibrators are reasonably effective.
 xxanthony420xx
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Posted: 5/6/2009 8:14:31 PM
lmao thts great show it ur paycheck hmmmm i have to agree with tht about my exs they c u got paid n shit theyre all wet n ready to go then afterwards want ur ****in money
 xxanthony420xx
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Posted: 5/6/2009 8:18:28 PM
i wouldnt say it sounds like a 15 yr old cuz i knew all this type of shit when i was 12 i lost my virginity when i was 11 as sad as tht is n as gross as it sounds
 Call Me Sugar
Joined: 10/7/2008
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Posted: 5/6/2009 10:32:26 PM
yes to what RacerMatt says:
he's got it right...
 kpooks
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Posted: 5/6/2009 10:49:55 PM
Was this really enough of an intelligent question to merit 6+ pages of answers-?

Watch a lesbian porno. You'll see how the ladies do it. It's more of teasing the tip of the clit with the toungue...it's a miniature penis, so think how you would like your penis licked.
 kezzie86
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Posted: 5/6/2009 10:54:20 PM
ok.......this is the best forum ive seen yet

gotta love it lets just say...they are all right!!! Ask a girl what she wants or you can usually tell by how she is squirming or making noise

i love it
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
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Posted: 5/6/2009 11:28:34 PM
A diamond, a very LARGE diamond.
 TheToefactor
Joined: 2/11/2009
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Posted: 5/6/2009 11:34:31 PM
pus.sy eating techniques my short version

First of all you want to have the girl hot to trot. Licking sucking Neck, breast, nipples, stomach, Love handles, inner legs beside the pus.sy , pus.sy lips, area between the pus.sy and ass, Ass cheeks, ass crack if you dare.

When you think it is time to eat the pus.sy . anchor the clitoris by pulling the clitoral hood back so you can see that little pink pearl to make the clitoris more sensitive to stimulation. Spread the pus.sy lips apart and tighten the skin around the clitoris to make the clitoris even more sensitive to stimulation to stimulation. put a finger above the clitoris and pull the whole pus.sy up, Clit and all to tighten the skin even tighter to make the clitoris even more sensitive to stimulation. If you do not anchor the clit and pull the pus.sy lips apart will still feel good but if you want the girl to tell all her friends about you. It is a very good technique to anchor the clit by pulling the clitoral hood back so you can see the pinkness of the clitoris staring at you and pull the pus.sy lips apart tightly to tighten the skin on the clitoris to make it more sensitive.

Now it is time to lick and suck the clitoris. Lick and suck it fast and hard. If the girl can handle it put the clit in your mouth and suck it real hard and roll the clit back and forth with your tongue while sucking the clit real real hard and use your hands to pulsate the top of the clitoral hood while sucking the clit real real hard and rolling the clit with your tongue and shaking your head back and forth real fast also. This is a very intense technique that will make the silent girls make noises. If you do this technique right your lover will remember you for the rest of her life. You can also finger fuc.k them fast and hard at the same time while doing this. If you know how to find the G-Spot and it feels good to the woman you can massage the G-Spot real fast and hard at the same time also.

Different stuff you can try. Lick clitoris, finger fuc.k pus.sy , fondle breast and nipples all at the same time.
Tongue fuc.k pus.sy , rub clit with fingers real real real real fast, fondle breast and nipples all at the same time.

Just remember to experiment Not all girls like the same thing. But I have learned most girls like when I anchor the clit spread the pus.sy lips apart, pull up above the pus.sy then start licking the clitors real real real real fast and hard.
 aPamela
Joined: 7/1/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2009 1:58:49 AM
North to south, or west to east. Who knows, try both. Or, if that doesn't work try different pressures. Like soft to hard. Or, round and round. Or from bottom to top or top to bottom. Guess you might have to ask for directions if you get stuck. Sometimes women dont even know unless the guy actually hits it and then she goes, "OOOOhhhh, mmmmm arghhhh ya baby!@!"
Guys are way easier.
 icemanace
Joined: 11/15/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2009 6:16:41 AM
get a book rookie
 icemanace
Joined: 11/15/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2009 6:17:29 AM
another rookie
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