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 Aerona
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This thread is very interesting, and has me reading other info online.

I have always had to spit. It makes me gag, my eyes water, and I start wretching. I have to rinse my mouth out also. I don't know if it's a hangup, or something I can get over.

I had many arguments with my ex about this throughout our entire relationship. I thought it was extremely silly of him to worry about it, considering I went to full completion before exiting to the bathroom. I honestly don't see why men feel it is so important for the woman to swallow.

Now, that being said he was a raging alcoholic. He would drink a pot of coffee in the morning and then it was beer all day. IF he worked that day (didn't/doesn't happen often), straight to the bar after to pound beers and shots to make up for lost drinking time. Smoked 2 packs a day. So, what I would get is a thick wad of nasty, salty, goo the thickness of "silly slime" or something. His diet consisted of bar food/fast food, and what I made for dinner. I should mention I don't like the taste of beer and have never been able to drink it.

The above could have added to my aversion. Now I'm reading about diet, pineapple juice, etc. Very interesting. Along with the fact that many men feel "rejected" if the woman spits. I don't think getting used to swallowing would be that hard, if the man wasn't a permanently dehydrated alcoholic with a bad diet (and attitude).

Thank you fellow POFs for opening my eyes and giving me some ideas and incites!
 ConnCat
Joined: 10/28/2011
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Posted: 2/11/2012 11:35:12 AM

I can't speak for other women...but there's no sense in sucking a****if you aren't going to swallow...really!!!! Don't be a Bill Clinton and smoke a blunt without inhaling the goods, WTF!!!!!


Right on, Angel! Too funny! I have a longtime solution. I keep a bottle of water next to the bed and hand it to her immediately, if she needs to swig. And actually, many of them refuse the water!
 skip361
Joined: 5/20/2011
Msg: 1253
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Posted: 2/11/2012 5:18:41 PM
To each their own, work it out with your partner, respect each others wishes and positions and work on some fun alternatives......big wink....;)
 jugglicker55
Joined: 1/22/2012
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Posted: 2/11/2012 7:32:14 PM
If i am getting shown any effection by any lady, and she is willing to spend some of her time with me, i don't care how she does what ever, as long as it feels good. Am i easy? No, In this world i have learned to be happy with what you are getting [ free
 Jerilyn
Joined: 1/13/2012
Msg: 1255
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 2/11/2012 7:44:33 PM
*gag*
The whole BJ act is disgusting. Not to mention degrading... I have never done this and I never will... if he doesn't like it, too bad, so sad. I'd rather kiss him good-bye.
 per86
Joined: 5/23/2011
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Posted: 2/11/2012 8:29:25 PM
I have swallowed mine and I still don't know what the problem is with women. The good thing is there is still alot of women out there that swallow!! As for the ones that don't swallow, my guess is someday they will realise the reason they don't swallow is because they really like eating muff pie! Lol!
 lacicat
Joined: 10/17/2011
Msg: 1257
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Posted: 2/11/2012 8:38:53 PM
I swallow every time..I have no idea why a woman would have a problem doing it...I would have a problem if the man I was with didn't want me to :)
 Alster2012
Joined: 1/17/2012
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Posted: 2/11/2012 9:01:52 PM
Your right. They are my sperm buckets.
 Active_Healthy_Fun_Cooks
Joined: 3/21/2011
Msg: 1259
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Posted: 2/12/2012 9:37:57 AM
Combination of diet and the lady. I had a lady friend who always swallowed, sometimes 3 times a day...yes, I was lucky. Another said she did not and then did after I passed the "leakage taste" test. Ever go down on a woman and lose you apetite? Also, happens with her....you need to be fresh, clean, and eat the right foods or simply avoid the bitter foods and protein 8 hours prior (I think, as I'm not a nutritionist...LOL). Finally, simply ask her if she wants to wax you before hand (or should I say before head) with her favorite sauce....also, sex shops sell some nice flavors; so I'm told.
 dougiedoug8
Joined: 2/16/2011
Msg: 1260
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Posted: 2/12/2012 6:56:58 PM
Your 37 and you never gave a blow job, and your present mate is fine with never getting blown, wow. Do you let him eat your **** or is that "gag" also?
 dougiedoug8
Joined: 2/16/2011
Msg: 1261
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Posted: 2/12/2012 6:58:08 PM
Message above was to Jerilynn
 usmc1999
Joined: 2/1/2011
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Posted: 2/13/2012 4:53:50 AM
sorry love the taste of my cummm any one want to join me
 HeartOn64
Joined: 2/9/2012
Msg: 1263
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Posted: 2/13/2012 5:51:57 AM

Okay, this is gonna be too much info but I don't know where else to ask...
I need to find out what techniques other women do because for me I almost threw it up the last time I had it in my mouth (not out of disgust or anything like that, because I was not turned off...just have a strong gag reflex)...I don't know if it was the particular taste or something...I can't pin-point it, I just know it was hard to get down (luckily he couldn't see my face as this was happening) but my eyes were tearing so I had to take care of that afterwards...

I dunno...maybe it was completely normal and all women who swallow goes through that...or are there any tricks I am missing? One time I used my tongue to sort of block it from shooting directly into the back on my throat...that seemed to help...I don't think there's any answer really, just trial and error...something I'm just gonna have to work on I guess...


That happens to me too.It's not about having a d*ck too far back in my throat,as I have total control of that.I only allow his****as far as I can handle so I don't vomit on him when it hits my gag reflex.

I think it's more about it SHOOTING into my mouth or down my throat before I am prepared.It's hard to know when exactly it's cumming.I haven't come up with a way to fully prepare my throat yet,but most often,I do manage to "get it down" when it erupts.I certainly WISH it was something I loved the taste of though, as I do thoroughly enjoy giving head.

I came up with a way to "bypass" the taste, as I don't find it "yummy" in the least.

If I have some "fair warning" I can position his d*ck just far enough back that it misses my tongue and just far enough forward that it misses my gag reflex and the cum goes straight down my throat.If I don't time it right and I can feel myself gagging,I simply hold it in my mouth, away from my tongue, and spit it out in the sink.

Better than not swallowing at all.

I think every man should have to 'swallow a load' to know what it's like for us and maybe they would be more sympathetic!

I've blown men in the past who tasted like METAL and lemmetellya.....sometimes,it's beyond "toxic" tasting!
 scuuup01
Joined: 2/7/2012
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Posted: 2/13/2012 2:26:04 PM
personally i couldnt care whether they swallow or spit, all i care is that it doesnt end up on me!
 SDBAILES
Joined: 9/25/2011
Msg: 1265
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Posted: 2/13/2012 8:45:52 PM
I have always swallowed. I didnt know that some or rather most women dont. Unfortunately I have beome acutely aware that the leading cause of throat cancer in women is from HPV (Human papalloma virus, the same virus that causes cervical cancer. Now I am conflicted...to swallow or not to swallow...that is now the question.
 Breebree501
Joined: 2/5/2012
Msg: 1266
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Posted: 2/15/2012 10:25:46 AM
i personally do not like to swallow, some cum just doesnt taste good and i like giving oral and tasting some of the cum but if there is too much its just nasty
 Jerilyn
Joined: 1/13/2012
Msg: 1267
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Posted: 2/15/2012 4:53:08 PM
""Your 37 and you never gave a blow job, and your present mate is fine with never getting blown, wow. "

Gee, there's more to a person than her ability to give blow jobs... go figure.

""Do you let him eat your **** or is that "gag" also?""

For him? Apparently not. And anyway, you can't compare the two.
 SonnyT666
Joined: 1/30/2012
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Posted: 2/16/2012 3:46:25 PM
I think that is so true. It has to be acquired.
 the_great_enigma
Joined: 11/27/2009
Msg: 1269
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Posted: 2/21/2012 6:24:26 PM
I’ve learned a lot looking at this thread. It is saddening that many women seem to view this as a chore.
Speaking only for myself; I love oral sex. I love giving to conclusion and receiving to conclusion...the holy grail of which is simultaneous. And by the way a long sensuous kiss to follow is an intimate package that only true lovers (people who not only enjoy their sex lives but have a deep, spiritual and trusting “love” affair) can feel. By the way I don’t have a homosexual gene in my body! I personally wish that women could climax the same way as we men. I once dated a so-called “sqirter” I questioned her sincerity about this and other maters of intimacy...that is why we are not dating anymore...but I digress.
She displayed the most disgusted...fearful and timid face when she was “doing me” as she liked to put it. She never did get me to orgasm in her mouth because it turned me completely off. I didn’t want to hurt her. I could tell that she was sickened by the thought of my fluids in her mouth. On the other hand I was determined to make her climax by way of resourceful, delicate and meaningful cunnilingus with every skill I could muster. The taste was irrelevant (I actually liked it) ...it was about the intimacy and the gift. I so enjoyed it...wanted to make her explode. While doing it I was so hard that it left a wet spot on the bed below me. But it just wasn’t being reciprocated. I think she was faking it. If one has to do that the value of the relationship (at least the sexual part) is fleeting at best.

Like so many people on here I want to find the best relationship of my life...the last one. But I am very discouraged...especially after seeing this thread. It kind of dispelled a fantasy...the ideal that intimacy could be without reluctance or moral obligation. Very sad.

Perhaps one of the reasons why so many of us have difficulty finding a long term or permanent mate is because of issues like this one.
 NYCmasterplumber
Joined: 8/17/2006
Msg: 1270
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Posted: 2/22/2012 3:09:34 PM
I think if a f ucking guy wants to cum in a woman's mouth thinking it taste so great then he would have no problem doing any of the following

1- As her mouth is full let her kiss you and give it all back

2- When you ejaculate in her vagina be a gentleman and get down and lick her out completely this way you get your protein back and she can have a few more organisms

What difference does it make if she swallows or spits?

The best time to do oral to a lady is right after intercourse as after play is just as important as foreplay
 NYCmasterplumber
Joined: 8/17/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2012 3:14:58 PM
Your right nothing like doing oral during her menstrual cycle and of course she does not get turned on having oral at the same time

dang I never heard of a more selfish lady
 BeeRad82
Joined: 1/27/2012
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Posted: 2/22/2012 6:38:03 PM
Real women swallow. The end.
 tricia3753
Joined: 4/5/2010
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Posted: 2/23/2012 12:14:15 AM
yea ...i agree..sometimes the taste isnt pleasant ...but i know guys love it so I do it ....
 Elgalawaat
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Posted: 2/23/2012 2:25:35 PM
AND WHY DO YOU WANT THEM TO SWALLOW THE STUPID CUM? STOP BEING A WOMAN HATER THE REAL MAN EJACULATION HAS 5 CALORIES PROBABLY YOUR TWO DRIPS HAS NOTHING. i DATED ONCE A FORMER PORN GIRL AND SHE TOLD ME IT IS LOUSY, HUMULATING AND THEY ARE FORCED TO DO IT BECAUSE IT SELLS VEDIOS TO LUNATICS. THAT IS WHY WOMEN HATE LUNATICS
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2012 2:33:10 PM
[QUOTE] I had many arguments with my ex about this throughout our entire relationship. I thought it was extremely silly of him to worry about it, considering I went to full completion before exiting to the bathroom. I honestly don't see why men feel it is so important for the woman to swallow.[/QUOTE]

Because those men are Lunatics, sexually deficient and have low self esteem. Their boss treats them like they are dogs. They try to conquer women and Humiliate them because they are humiliated themselves as society members. Most of them are called Joe six-packs.
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