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 brian1207
Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 51
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Ecstasy lies behind door #2, multiple orgasms, wobbly knees, limp arms, a grin that lasts a month
That is if you have an experienced guy that wants to take you to paradise - bon voyage
 jengonzalez6700
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 52
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/20/2008 8:18:20 AM
the mouth is actually more dirty than the anus as far as bacteria and all
 dickwaad
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 53
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 12/25/2008 11:06:54 AM
Because for most people it increases stimulation, it feels good.
But alot of women have tried this on me, and i personally WON"T let them, inspite of the "relax" OR "try to be open" comments.
 Trinifella
Joined: 7/26/2010
Msg: 54
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/16/2010 2:56:17 AM
i love doin it to her..wud liek to do it to u :P
 Trinifella
Joined: 7/26/2010
Msg: 55
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/16/2010 2:58:45 AM
mhmm.. never had it done to me b4.....wont mind givin it a try ;)
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 56
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/16/2010 5:43:27 PM
If done right can be mind blowing for her. It can prolong an orgasm, start a multiple daisy chain of orgasms, really deep pleasing orgasms.
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 57
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/16/2010 7:05:36 PM
I feel it's only appropriate to thrust one's tongue down her throat at the same time the other two holes are plugged. Go for the triple play.

I agree with people who say it just ups the intimacy factor -- the very idea that you could do such a thing and she doesn't object -- it's the same as swallowing the cum -- she accepts you completely without reservation.

(well...y'know that's not true, but it feels that way for a moment...)

 a_lonewolf
Joined: 5/21/2010
Msg: 58
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/16/2010 9:13:28 PM
Like my dad always used to tell me..... "don't go sticking your fingers where they don't belong", but I have been requested to do it. It was a good thing that with in my first aid kit, I have those finger condom things.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 59
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/17/2010 6:09:09 AM
Well, it seems many of both gender have given the reasons....to many, they enjoy giving or receiving, or both. Personally I like giving and receiving..it feels great, is hot and erotic, ads variety, and makes the orgasm more intense. Besides I am a guitarist, and we need to mult-task...I mean we are used to doing several different things with our fingers at the same time.....ROTF!!!(kidding, maybe not)

So, really with my above responce I didn't ad anything here, but the subject of asking came up, and some said that would be the thing to do...in many cases sexually I agree, but here we are not talking about swallowing or cumming on the face, etc.

The thing is there are some when ask about this beforehand...might answer no, because they haven't tried anal play before, or have reservations about it, etc....But, when the finger is brought into play at the right time, they end up loving it....The woman I am with never had anal play in the past, I introduced it to her without asking, now needless to say...its a regular part of our playtime. If I had asked her and if she had reservation...maybe this wouldn't be the case or it would have been delayed a bit.

The other thing is going by the responces, it seems like many women enjoy this, so I guess if thats a guys experiences, then its only natural that he do this during the course of sexual play with a woman, assuming she will be into it.

I guess if its something you don't like, maybe you should just tell the man, before the fun begins.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 60
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/17/2010 4:30:40 PM

She used to go into the bathroom and stick her finger up her a$$ in restaurants so I could sniff & lick it.


Well, that's a bit much for me. lol
 Padawan61
Joined: 3/1/2008
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Posted: 8/17/2010 5:58:52 PM
When I first broached the subject of anal play, my ex said that it was "repulsive." As time went on, she was begging me to eat her a$$ at every opportunity. She used to go into the bathroom and stick her finger up her a$$ in restaurants so I could sniff & lick it

What do you call that?? Dark chocolate dessert?? Is it part of the restaurant menu and do they charge extra for the experience??

I think men do it to women b/c they are strongly hinting...hoping we'll take the hint adn do it to them!!

Maybe they're hinting at something else all together.

 a_lonewolf
Joined: 5/21/2010
Msg: 62
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/17/2010 8:33:34 PM

She used to go into the bathroom and stick her finger up her a$$ in restaurants so I could sniff & lick it.


ok, now I'm really stumped with this one................ red or white wine?
 revoskeepnus
Joined: 8/7/2010
Msg: 63
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/17/2010 9:40:36 PM
because they like to make me cum... duh
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 64
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/17/2010 9:40:41 PM

I think men do it to women b/c they are strongly hinting...hoping we'll take the hint adn do it to them!!


I stumbled across an erotic cartoon once, where the guy was telling his lover that he wanted to penetrate her ass because then her pvssy would be driven to distraction to be filled. Sooo, maybe it's, like, an appetizer.


I tell guys, hey, I don't have a prostate, YOU DO!


Lol, but there are alot of other sensors in a rectum, whether boy or girl- a prostate isn't the only bell to be rung (wrung? lol) on that street.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 65
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/18/2010 3:50:42 PM

ok, now I'm really stumped with this one................ red or white wine?


I don't think a wine is appropriote here, but if this place has a bar....I think a double on the rocks is in order....I enjoy anal play and all, but there are lines I draw....

Bartender make the two!!!!
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 66
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/18/2010 5:31:44 PM
I stumbled across an erotic cartoon once, where the guy was telling his lover that he wanted to penetrate her ass because then her pvssy would be driven to distraction to be filled.


Well I think it's because her pu$$y will get jealous. You can switch it and say her ass will get jealous if that works for ya.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 67
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/18/2010 6:15:06 PM
Looking for the on switch maybe?
 essence74
Joined: 4/15/2007
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Posted: 9/11/2010 12:40:08 AM
Well, I will never admit to how many women I've actually been with in my unruly past... But I can say for sure... I'd easily estimate that the women that do enjoy this are in the 80% range, and as well, those are same women who truly know how to indulge in a relentless, overcoming orgasm (or multiples thereof.)

I wouldn't say that its even JUST the fact that that is a sensitive and erogenous area that feels good to many of them when stimulated just right... as much as the fact that if you're in perfect sexual and sensual tune with her, she'll be able to tell it turns you on as well by doing it, and THAT alone turns her on even more. If you pay attention, and do it just right, and at the right time, its better than the best part of her favorite Dave Matthews song.

(Its also a great indicator of that point right when she is about to orgasm. Timing is everything....)
 Delete_Me_Please
Joined: 11/10/2009
Msg: 69
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 9/11/2010 3:09:53 AM

She used to go into the bathroom and stick her finger up her a$$ in restaurants so I could sniff & lick it.

I threw up a little just reading that. Couldn't you afford anything off the dessert tray?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 70
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 9/11/2010 5:50:22 AM

Couldn't you afford anything off the dessert tray?


Lol. Ignore that guy, and his fringe element women. Think appetizer, maybe side dish, wrapped in cellophane, or latex, lol.


do it just right, and at the right time, its better than the best part of her favorite Dave Matthews song.


That advice pretty much applies to any and every tiny part of her body. And mine.
And our collective minds, especially.

Seems to me that your anus is probably your most private, closely guarded body part, and there are more issues associated with that part than almost any other. A whole medical specialty is devoted to it, not to mention its reported prominence in psychotherapy. lol Allowing access, or sharing it, amounts to a shared intimacy that can approach a religious experience. jmho
 az109
Joined: 7/3/2010
Msg: 71
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 9/11/2010 9:40:36 AM
You never know where you might have lost your car keys.
 wolftxusa
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 72
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 9/11/2010 11:02:53 AM
"you might have lost your car keys."
Are you saying she drives a sh!tty car?
 az109
Joined: 7/3/2010
Msg: 73
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 9/11/2010 11:09:18 AM
I was just retracing the steps, which is a way to find things, like if you had your keys in your hand and let go when you retrieved your wristwatch that slipped off when you went back for your sunglasses that got left behind originally.
 wolftxusa
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 74
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 9/11/2010 12:04:38 PM
...or maybe he wanted to scratch his butt and accidentally picked hers instead. If I found car keys, I'd keep digging for the remote and the now-sunglasses.
 readthedamnprofile
Joined: 5/5/2010
Msg: 75
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 9/12/2010 8:14:45 AM
Some do it hoping you will reciprocate.
Some do it because it is seen as naughty or taboo by many
Some do it to see how far they can push your boundaries
Some do it because it turns them on
Some do it because they saw it in a porn and want to try it, or a just curious in general


There is no one set reason why.
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