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 green eyed cougar
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 313
Question: Why do older women want younger men?Page 13 of 17    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17)
"But when you get a LARGE age gap...where there are major generational gaps...then I honestly believe it is a maturity issue. Or, the person is just one who PHYSICAL ATTRACTION is the MAIN or ONLY issue." (struggling with trying to figure out how to get this highlighted)


Agreed! Usually if there is a huge age gap you have to assume it's not going to go anywhere because you probably won't connect on much more than a physical level. However, I know of younger guys who do seem to have their stuff together and be more mature than some of the older one are.

I have a "friend" who is younger (mid-20s) that I tease and say he's my "generational gap friend" when I hear something and I don't know what it means. Much easier to ask him than ask my son. Can you imagine the awkwardness when I asked my 22 YO son what MILF was? He was like ummm....do you really want to know??

I, also however, have an issue with the word "cougar." It gives me mental images of the Cougar Barbie video that was going around on e-mail. I do prefer younger guys but really don't like the way it portrays them...it reminds me of an old lady who preys on young guys. I mean I am attracted to younger men but it's not like I'm out there flaunting my stuff in there faces like the video portrays....however, it is rather funny but I can tell you, I don't act like that Barbies does....

 pizza_chef1
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 314
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/7/2009 9:20:13 PM
Sure Lainey, we have seen you out...
 green eyed cougar
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 315
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/7/2009 9:44:49 PM
damn...I was hopin nobody was payin' attention....
 Im havoc
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 316
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:02:11 AM
I do like a guy around 38-43 but will accept older or younger if we click. I guess us women are just tired of the men wanting/getting the yum yums of younger women, so now us women want the yum yum of the younger man. I have never understood why an older man wants a younger woman. They start losing that drive and the woman will then find it somewhere else, usually with a younger man. Us older woman start getting in our sex peak and it is the younger man will still have that drive!
 Sue-De-Nym
Joined: 6/11/2008
Msg: 317
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 11:44:38 AM
Can you imagine the awkwardness when I asked my 22 YO son what MILF was?


OMG, girl! Did you really ask your SON that? I'm still having a hard time believing you didn't know what "CFM Pumps" were!

 green eyed cougar
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 318
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 12:05:29 PM
Yes, Sue, I did.....

and once he told me I realized why he was reluctant to answer the question....

Please keep in mind, this did happen shortly after I got back into the dating scene so there is a justifiable reason why I didnt know....LOL. no one had ever said anything to me about being a MILF....

Now if I have a similar question I can go to my buddy and dont feel as awkward....

I heard of "come fvck me" before...i just never heard it called by the acronym
 meoowzie
Joined: 2/21/2008
Msg: 319
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Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 1:03:39 PM
CFM Pumps << new one for me

milf-lol i talked with a guy friend. i had NO clue what it meant (red feaced) i do now. but he nicely corrected the termonolgy for me. he said i was a gilf

grandmother _ _ _
eeeeeeeeeeeeeewww

i woruld oooooh so much prefer someone within the nearest millenium to my age.
 flormo2002
Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 320
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 2:41:28 PM
As many of you older gals like the younger guys because apparently of the stamina aspect, I like the younger gals for the same reason. So we all find that happy medium that benefits both of us hopefully. But have to admit that the older woman (40's- 60's) do know what they want more so than the younger gals and not afraid to tell us what they like and don't like both in and out of bed. Older woman can generally get off easier than the younger gals. Ah Oh................did I really say that? That wasn't as nasty as the comments that MLT made, was it? lmao
 mlt71
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 321
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 5:44:54 PM
Flormo2002
I was not trying to be nasty but be honest and real.
 iam2anangel
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 322
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Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 6:19:26 PM
mlt: There is a difference in being honest and real, than in using the terminology that you do.
You might consider class instead of crass.

I know, I know...each to their own. And to be honest...it doesn't bother me, either way.

Just sayin.......


:)
 whatever0001
Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 323
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 6:23:45 PM
Not anywhere near as nasty or rude as MLT's comments . And I am pretty open minded as far as that type of language.
 previouslyme
Joined: 12/13/2008
Msg: 324
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 6:24:04 PM
flomo... who you trying to fool? Well... one thing you said I know you are kidding...
 mlt71
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 325
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 6:44:59 PM
mlt: There is a difference in being honest and real, than in using the terminology that you do.
You might consider class instead of crass.
That is true in what you said

Like I said I don't have time to make it PG-13 for the veiwers at home.
I answer the author question to my liking on how I deal with older women and what they want with me.
Then I said its a job.
Then somebody came in here asking was I looking for a job. I think he didn't understand what I was talking about so I answer him in the way I know how.

When I say honest and real to me I mean you ask me anything I am going to give you my opinion and not lie to you. Without beating around the bush about it. Them the kind of friends I deal with. The real is I am just so real
 mlt71
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 326
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 6:59:00 PM
Whatever001 = lol

Not anywhere near as nasty or rude as MLT's comments

Ok I have one for you or any women reading this.

Would you like to meet a man that didn't bullshit and came of to you and said "hey whatever001 I think you are the finest woman I ever seen. I am not going to lie to you I rather **** you than have relationship.
You might say he is nasty and rude. OK

Next we have number 2 guy. He says the right things, Takes you out a few time, he got you thinking you in a relationship. Maybe your kids,and famliy love. You really turst him. But deep down he only want to sleep with you. When he do he is gone.
What do you call him The man with class.

So my point is I might say nasty and rude comments but at least you know where I am coming from. You know MLT not going to feel your head with B.S
We have to many other men on the forum to do that. They use class as a blanket
 whatever0001
Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 327
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:19:35 PM
Correct me if I am wrong... but aren't there sites out there for those who are only looking for sex? Why waste your time on here if that's all you are looking for MLT????
 green eyed cougar
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 328
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:19:51 PM
OMG! How are we back on this again????? Let's drop it and move on already!!!
 previouslyme
Joined: 12/13/2008
Msg: 329
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:58:28 PM
I think there are threads that discuss that over and over. So when she says get lost, do they? The keep coming back, sometimes even begging. There are women that do that too!
 flormo2002
Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 330
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:59:17 PM
Come on previously me. You do know me pretty well and I've always had woman younger than me other than my last girlfriend of 2 years and she was a year older than me and you know that. I've always had woman younger than me but honestly, age doesn't matter and as someone said, it's just a number. Am I right?
 flormo2002
Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 331
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:06:18 PM
And Previouslyme, don't forget that your just 1 year younger than the gal I dated for a very long time and don't you forget that young lady. lol
 mlt71
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 332
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:41:41 PM
I am looking for long term but if some hot lady want to give me some. I am not going to turn it down. For real I would love to have a relationship but if I can't get that I take some ass anytime.

There are men/ women on this website just looking for **** buddies. I can respect them for that.

I was talking about rude and nasty comments.
How men/women hide behind the nice I have class act.
At least a rude and nasty people is honest about things. We don't have to hide. (lol)
 iam2anangel
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 333
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Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:53:02 PM
Next we have number 2 guy. He says the right things, Takes you out a few time, he got you thinking you in a relationship. Maybe your kids,and famliy love. You really turst him. But deep down he only want to sleep with you. When he do he is gone.
What do you call him The man with class.


Nah...I call him: The man...the a$$.


You left out another scenario, though. What about the guy who says the right things, enjoys your company, wants a relationship , loves your family and friends. There is trust on both sides...and deep down he ALSO wants to sleep with you? He whispers in your ear exactly what he wants to do with you....and when he does, he says: "Wow, babe!! Where did you learn to do THAT?!?!?!!? It was GREAT!! The BEST EVER!!"
Then...he pulls you close and snuggles up next to you...and stays there.

See?
 pizza_chef1
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 334
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:53:09 PM
Soft or ingratiating words achieve more than sharpness.

Honey gets more flyes to it, than doth viniger.
[1666 G. Torriano Italian Proverbs 149]
Tart Words make no Friends: spoonful of honey will catch more flies than Gallon of Vinegar.
[1744 B. Franklin Poor Richard's Almanack (Mar.)]
I?know the old saying relative to honey catching more flies than vinegar. ?If this is an act, you might as well save your breath.
[1955 W. C. Macdonald Destination Danger x.]
Ask his advice frequently, and thank him profusely for his wisdom and guidance. Remember that old adage ‘You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.’
[1996 Washington Post 25 Oct. B4]
Related to: tact




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1 /d??b/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [job] Show IPA noun, verb, jobbed, job·bing, adjective
–noun 1. a piece of work, esp. a specific task done as part of the routine of one's occupation or for an agreed price: She gave him the job of mowing the lawn.
2. a post of employment; full-time or part-time position: She was seeking a job as an editor.
3. anything a person is expected or obliged to do; duty; responsibility: It is your job to be on time.
4. an affair, matter, occurrence, or state of affairs: to make the best of a bad job.
5. the material, project, assignment, etc., being worked upon: The housing project was a long and costly job.
6. the process or requirements, details, etc., of working: It was a tedious job.
7. the execution or performance of a task: She did a good job.
8. Slang . a theft or similar criminal action: The police caught the gang that pulled that bank job.
9. a public or official act or decision carried through for the sake of improper private gain.
10. Slang . an example of a specific or distinctive type: That little six-cylinder job was the best car I ever owned.
11. Computers . a unit of work for a computer, generally comprising an application program or group of related programs and the data, linkages, and instructions to the operating system needed for running the programs.

–verb (used without object) 12. to work at jobs or odd pieces of work; work by the piece.
13. to do business as a jobber.
14. to turn public business, planning, etc., improperly to private gain.

–verb (used with object) 15. to assign or give (work, a contract for work, etc.) in separate portions, as among different contractors or workers (often fol. by out ): He jobbed out the contract to a number of small outfits.
16. to buy in large quantities, as from wholesalers or manufacturers, and sell to dealers in smaller quantities: He jobs shoes in Ohio and Indiana.
17. to get rid of or dispose of: His party jobbed him when he sought a second term in office.
18. to swindle or trick (someone): They jobbed him out of his property.
19. to carry on (public or official business) for improper private gain.

–adjective 20. of or for a particular job or transaction.
21. bought, sold, or handled together: He's too big a customer to buy in less than job quantities.

—Idioms 22. do a job on, Slang . a. to destroy, defeat, damage, or confound thoroughly: The thugs did a job on him—he'll be in the hospital for a month.
b. to deceive, persuade, or charm glibly; snow.

23. on the job, alert; observant: The cops were on the job and caught them red-handed.


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Origin:
1620–30; 1935–40 for def. 14; orig. uncert.


Synonyms:
1. See task. 2. See position.
 mlt71
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 335
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/8/2009 9:27:30 PM
You left out another scenario, though. What about the guy who says the right things, enjoys your company, wants a relationship , loves your family and friends. There is trust on both sides...and deep down he ALSO wants to sleep with you? He whispers in your ear exactly what he wants to do with you....and when he does, he says: "Wow, babe!! Where did you learn to do THAT?!?!?!!? It was GREAT!! The BEST EVER!!"
Then...he pulls you close and snuggles up next to you...and stays there.

YEA I did for get that guy (lol)
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 336
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/9/2009 7:10:54 AM
LOL...I don't think you are lacking in time for making things PG-13, MLT...I think you just loooove to go for shock value! LOL

I think Iam2anAngel said it best...class, not crass!

It was not your reply in itself...it was your reply in relation to the discussion....so out of the blue, crass!

Anyway...I AGREE with you! You cannot put a price tag on HONESTY. I had a similar Yahoo convo with one of my best girls, yesterday....

100% unadulterated honesty is priceless! And in spite of MOST of us viewing this as a singles site...keep in mind that they DO have options for married, intimate encounters, separated....and they do not kick those off. If you do not like such....do not reply to such. But they have just as much "right" to be here as we do. :)

On topic....WHY is it Older women dating younger men gets viewed as hot (even in spite of the tacky label of COUGAR...ick!) and yet the Older men dating the younger chicks is viewed as nasty?!

Personally, I think just about anything outside of 10 years either way, is ick. LOL But seriously....many know, my daughter and I both have accounts here...and yes, we talk about the ones who ht on us both! (Every older person should have a younger friend to compare notes with, and vice versa! LMAO) No names...lol....don't email me and ask me for such, either!...LOL....but we have BOTH who are writing us both...who do not realize we are mother/daughter...and they will offer an explanation no matter which way...older/younger..."You seem sooo much younger" or "You seem mature beyond your years" or whatever! LOL
 previouslyme
Joined: 12/13/2008
Msg: 337
Question: Why do older women want younger men?
Posted: 4/9/2009 7:20:04 AM
Flomo, you arent going half your age or even close to the age of your kids! I am thinking 10 years either way is a comfy bracket.
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