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Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 44
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I suggest you ignore the posting about guys your age being at their sexual peak.
Their ability to become easily aroused does NOT mean they know ANYthing about pleasing a woman!
What I suggest is finding NOT many multiple partners BUT but perhaps ONE guy who can be with you a lot!
I used to work at a totally nude strip club. I socialized with porn stars, strippers, cute waitresses, etc.
During my last year of employment there I was with a girl who would have sex with me 3 times a day during the week and 5 times a day on the weekends.
I never even thought about doing any of the waitresses, stripper OR visiting porn stars.
I was never both so tired and so happy in my life.
SO listen to somew of the other posters. FInd one guy you can trust and then f*ck his brains out!
(On a side note, I LOVE how posts like this allow others to advertise things about themselves!)
 surely im shirley
Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 45
girls with high sex drive
Posted: 10/22/2008 1:05:00 PM

It CAN be a win-win situation...

My 2 cents for what it's worth...


Awww.....Mark, I love your 2 cents.
Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 47
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Posted: 10/22/2008 1:42:12 PM
damn were did all the gurls with a high sex drive come from and Y CNT I FIND THEM DAMNIT!!!!!!!!lol
 surely im shirley
Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/22/2008 2:31:23 PM

I'm looking for a _Lady_ with some...!!!
The kind that like to be treated like a Lady .. and still have the *FIRE* to make something really Special...!!!

Thats' the kind of man I'm looking for!
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 10/22/2008 2:44:26 PM
I hear from most females that I know the older they get the worse it gets....makes me look forward to getting older
Joined: 9/10/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 10/22/2008 6:14:44 PM
Psychological issues?
Are you serious?
Are you saying that, perhaps if I have a higher sex drive than some women, it means I'm not normal?

There is NO normal libido for a woman, which makes every one unique. Just because I want to f*ck more often than one of my friends do, it does not make me abnormal, with emotional and psychological issues.

So...does that also mean, that since so many men have crazy libidos that it makes them emotionally and psychologically unstable? I would LOVE to see where your "research" came from, to back all of this up, because it's a bunch of bull.

Just because someone has a high sex drive, it does not make them sexually promiscious, or a habitual cheater in a monogomous relationship.

Call it what you like, but I'm going to enjoy my high libido.
If you've got one too, enjoy it.
Don't play the dead fish in bed.

Just my opinion!

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:18:26 PM
As Mafiachix posted, just find a guy with your level of sex drive. How many times you want it a day, and how many hours.
But I'd also listen to daisypetals01 in msg 2. She is completely right in what she says about being passed around like a party doll. I've seen girls your age treated like that, dating a guy, then his friend, then his friend, and so on. It just doesn't make you happy.

The best bet, is to keep it under wraps, for the guy who will appreciate it, and who has a sex drive comparable with yours. Then you can blow each other's brains out in bed. If you want a good example of that, rent "Pyrates" with Kevin Bacon. The very best example of sexual chemistry I've ever seen.
Joined: 9/28/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 10/23/2008 12:32:06 PM
i cant find a woman with a real hi sex drive...dont know why that is,r they just lazy or complacent i dont know...its always im tired or not right now or ok we have about 10 minutes so hurry up...whats up with that?!?!im not on a timeclock!!!i like to take my time,lots of foreplay(dont even get me started on that one!) and enjoy ourselves but it never winds up like that...please some advice
Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:13:02 AM
The important thing is that both of them reach several orgasms at the same time.
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 65
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:35:26 AM
I have a high sex drive also! Geez that is all I think about! I have problems finding someone with the same passionate drive I have. I have never been thought of as easy though. Just because your horny doesn't mean yur cheap or easy. I like to have sex on a regular basis. I like to do crazy things in crazy places and keep it exciting and try new things.
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:41:29 AM
My second wife (and my first for that matter) had high sex drives while we were dating. Amazing sex. My second wife slowed way down after marriage and said that after she became a mom she didn't see herself as sexual. EGAD !
I would love a woman with a high sex drive, considering I am a multiple commer.
Joined: 10/13/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 10/29/2008 10:56:53 AM
God Bless you Channy!!! is much easier to deal with someone who is more sexual than ones self...its all in how its dealt with..many things sexually can take little time to achieve great results. so, who cares if you can or cant keep up..its weather you willing to "DO" for your partner so they are happy..focus on ones partner if you hapen to be a bit tired one night..they will still be happy Channy hun..drop me aline anytime if you care to chat. At least we have something in common allready..
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 70
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Posted: 10/30/2008 9:01:30 AM
Yeah I think its cool that women have High Sex Drives as men.
Sex is a Gift from GOD and to be enjoyed, A LOT and often.

Just Hope I can find one..
Joined: 9/22/2008
Msg: 72
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Posted: 10/30/2008 1:03:54 PM
I agree with Ambientflyer. Having a woman with a high sex drive would be a dream come true. I'm currently living with "Wedding Cake" syndrome.
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 10/31/2008 9:04:05 PM
Sex is 90% mental.
Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 78
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Posted: 11/1/2008 6:23:16 AM
Channy, a high sex drive is well worth it when needed to enhance a successful relationship but I would say that it could only help if your partner is as receptive and responsive to it as you are. There also must be an emotional connection between the two participating individuals. Sexual fulfillment is one of the major aspects of a satisfying relationship. Again, that is if both participants are very sexual beings.

On the other hand, many other individuals may choose friendship, compatability and many other reasons for describing what they may feel leads them into a successful relationship.

Remember the old addage: " Birds of a feather flock together!"; "Opposites attract but have nothing at all in common"!

Stay well,
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 11/30/2008 4:03:41 PM
Ummm HIGH SEX DRIVE .. compared to who? Do you girls have a place that you go where they plug something in and you get a reading from 0 to 11 or something? Are you basing this claim on what your girlfriends talk about or deny? Is it something you're partners have stated? ie. "You're one horny lady!" and was that a comparison to how many others ... how many others he's boinked that week, that month, his lifetime?? What?

As several posters have pointed out and I'm agreeing with completely, HOW exactly did you come up with this rating system and how'd you get to the top of the scale.

Fact is men have high sex drives from about age 12. We don't have a friggin CLUE what to do with it or how to reciprocate for DECADES usually. All we want is that 3 seconds of near nirvana. By reading the posts here and on LIT and a few other sources it seems that MOST men stay that way until they die.

Women get horny too but they are saddled with all kinds of repressive societal BS that gives them the impression being horny is a BAAAAD thang. Many women are horny but never even orgasm until they're in their 40's and find a guy who has stopped to learn some sheet along the way - or bought a toy and discovered what all the fuss was about. Just as men wane sexually, women not only peak but they often discover their sexuality just as their self-confidence kicks in. An awesome combination it is too.

In other words, if you think it's good at your age ... wait for the REALLY good stuff.

Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 11/30/2008 4:13:31 PM
In conversations I've had with females my age, most have expressed an inconsistency with it all. I've been asked this question often, along with "how many dates is an okay number to have sex." While it may be that MOST men find a high sex drive on women to be unwelcome, I personally have never met one. That may be because men have some need to be all macho and talk trash when discussing it with other men, I don't know.

For myself, it's all about past experiences. Having left a loveless marriage, I've found myself more attracted to girls who make jokes with sexual innuendo, or give off some air of promiscuity. It's just my opinion, but I think most single men (in my age group) would love a sexually active partner ... just not on the first date.
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 11/30/2008 6:22:16 PM
A high sex drive from a woman was a real problem for me.

We were both 39 when we met and she never told me no. In fact she ask for it. Well after 3 years of 4 or 5 times a day, no joke, I never complained. But the kids got older and had school dances and foot ball games etc.

It was not like when they were younger and went to bed at 9PM. By late evening we were so tired that sometimes we skipped it.

That turned into I had lost interest. I told her, she had. She said the honeymoon stage was over. Well, we got it going again because the kids got even older and friends with cars etc, so we didn't have to take them everywhere.

We split up over other things. Some of it was the kids running around late so we had to go find them. This was over 5 years and I have started to see her again, but sex drive was never the real problem.

Make time for eachother. I wished I'd have set the alarm clock early everyday! We're both 44, and just leave us alone for an hour and we're good to go. If your man tells you once a week, day, month....month, hahaha...

Well, maybe you are a little agressive for him. I know, when I was 20 lets say, or 30, or 40, I was good to go as long as we made time for it. Planning it also sucks because it used to be kids are going to be home in 30 minutes! Lets go! Well, it got to where kids are gonna be home in 30 minutes, never mind....have to take them to the game.

But there is just nothing like lets get down to business because we want to.
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 92
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Posted: 12/1/2008 10:01:19 AM
I have a high sex drive! That is all I think about. Why would it make u easy? Just because your sexual doesn't make u cheap, it just makes u horny! Guys want more sexual girls for relationships!
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 93
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Posted: 12/1/2008 10:12:59 AM
As always you speak with truth and clarity.... I applaud you MelloDLyn....
Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 12/1/2008 12:54:30 PM
i personally do not take a woman as easy just because she has a high sex drive.i am different than most men are, i usually let the woman make the first move. i personally think it is a positive thing to be in a relationship with a woman who has a high sex drive.
Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 12/1/2008 1:58:55 PM
My ex and i were in a faithful relationship and she had a very high sex drive but that was fine with me. The straw that broke my back was her clingy personality. I couldn't even do school papers without a call or txt. We are still friends today and i still love her but i can't be with her. If it feels good do it. Be safe and when you find the right guy who satisfies you then you should know that if you still want other guys then your easy but if you dont then its just a high sex drive.
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 12/1/2008 2:42:03 PM
It's defintitely nothing to be ashamed of but sex-drive is all relative. What is high to one is not to another.

I have met many women who say they have a high sex drive but it has never come close to mine over time.
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 101
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Posted: 12/1/2008 7:21:50 PM
Thank ya Bob!!
Some of us just like sex.....and now that we are passed the time of raising kids and rushing around like chickens with our heads cut off.....we have the time to enjoy sex.
And some of us want to enjoy it as often as possible!!
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