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 aceof718
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 207
Women with high sex drive...Page 4 of 22    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22)
lol lot of girls have a high sex drive u dont realize until u go out with them.. u realize they are sex feen
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 209
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Posted: 8/4/2011 5:21:46 PM
During most of my adult life the usual complaint of a married man has been, "after 6 months of marriage she says she doesn't need it that much".

I, sometimes, wonder if when women do not have a long term parner available 24 hours a day their hormone pool builds. Once the long term partner is there for a while their pool runs dry, occasionally.

I hear women say they are as driven as men but all during my life time "married" women complain their husbands want it too often. It just seems to fly against what I've heard and seen in couples that I've known over the last 40 years.

Women even claim that men can't sexually keep up with women, "Women want sex more than men". Makes me shake my head in disbielief. Sure, somewhere there might be a woman who has that kind of labido but I've never met one and I've never talked to a man who ever met one. Spare me the comment that men won't admit it. In fact, it seems women can't admit that they can't keep up with men.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 215
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Posted: 8/5/2011 2:17:45 PM
Petulant.... I think as a mental health professional you understand the framework of this question.... "high sex drive" in women in this discussion should not be confused with psychosis that is addiction.... as you well know.... those who have a deeper psychosis are exhibiting behaviors that expose themselves to harm and risks/consequences in the areas of relationships, health, disease, financial ruin, and violations of WESTERN law.....

If your frame of reference is Sharia Law then moral violations have not only spiritual implications but also legal and physical consequences including severe punishments including amputation, beatings, being outcast etc.... Maybe one day we all will live under Sharia Law..... but today is NOT that day...

I very much thank you for broadcasting to the entire world your frame of reference and moral directions..... so that we all will be all more vigilant to be fair and compassionate to every human being... without the clear human rights violations imposed by the most radical religions of present day and of times past in history....
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 228
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Posted: 8/6/2011 7:43:34 AM

In no way does this have any effect on moral or values. I still only want to have sex within a monogamous or exclusive relationship. Once that is established by both partners, then the fun begins.


I agree with this statement. I have been with a couple of women that had a high libido. Yet, these women were not promiscuous, and if anything because they knew of their own sense of sexual desire, they didn't even advertise it. So we ended in long monogamous relationships where there was a lot of sex. Quantity and quality.

 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 229
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Posted: 8/6/2011 10:00:57 AM
(Msg 280)

You say it's not that complicated but from your description it certainly is. As well, she would have to be absolute number one in our life yet in long term relationships men, typically, take third or lower after kids, job, friends and others. If the man isn't number one he will not retain her as number one for long.
 Ninja1244
Joined: 7/19/2011
Msg: 232
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Posted: 8/6/2011 2:39:10 PM
I personally love a gal with a high sex drive I have one too so if both of us are highly sexed...then both of are able to satisfy each other without issues......men usually want it more often..but once in a while a woman has the same drive, need, and want...so I think it is the sexiest thing in the world! Praise the lord, let's do it!
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 235
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Posted: 8/7/2011 7:51:14 AM
I understand exactly what JCO is talking about in regards to Prudes, Whores, and Sluts. And I think there is much truth in his statements. But... I personally do not like labels, and I always resent being pigeon holed myself, so I tend to avoid doing that to others.

Most women do not fit neatly into just one of the above categories. In different phases of their life, they will think and act differently. Hell, on different days of the week or hours of the day. And a whole lot of it will be due to just how they react to the particular man who is standing in front of them.
 highlander6996
Joined: 12/24/2010
Msg: 240
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Posted: 8/7/2011 4:40:47 PM
i would love to have a girl with high sex drive! when younger my girl did and was so much fun!! now she realy died down and mine still very high! that creates lot problems! some times i wonder if me she lost interest in? says no but? sex very inportant to me my fav thing inlife so?? everyone diff and some peoples drive changes as get older. i work out lot she don t maybe thats why?? point is when you meet right guy he will be very lucky!! and both have lot fun!!!
 highlander6996
Joined: 12/24/2010
Msg: 241
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Posted: 8/7/2011 4:42:43 PM
great explaination!!!
 lexus9576
Joined: 2/8/2009
Msg: 248
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Posted: 8/8/2011 1:12:27 PM
You have to openly communicate about sex, your wants, desires, etc....find out how the man reacts. If he is intelligent, he will talk about YOUR needs and desires and HIS will come 2nd.
 9482
Joined: 10/11/2008
Msg: 249
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Posted: 8/10/2011 5:01:26 AM

I would give them a hard time
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Sounds fair 2 me! But for your partner's sake 2 much or a hard time or "lack of it"
surely doesn't help the ego. lol
 dondea
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 251
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Posted: 8/10/2011 9:56:18 AM
So how do you rate someone of whether they have a high or "normal" sex drive? I dunno. **shrugs** Wanting sex 5X, 3X , twice, etc., a day? A week? X times a month?

I guess one person's point of view would be different from another because of our own personal sex drive.

In my experience over the years, I have only been with 4 women who I consider had a higher sex drive than myself. Two of the ladies I had long-term relationships with; the other two were just dates. I guess I have been lucky, I've only been with several women who had low sex drives, the rest had pretty much the same drive as I had.


 justbry
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 254
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Posted: 8/16/2011 11:18:46 PM
Op I would say it's a very Good thing , unless you are jumping on every guy you see, lol . I would also say that your partner would be a very lucky man, unless of course he didn't have a high sex drive, then you might ........ need a ....different boyfriend ; )
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 255
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Posted: 8/16/2011 11:23:24 PM

Bring em out baby! high sex drive is good. Monday thru Sunday 2-3 times ( preferably 2 ) times daily. Lol Sexypunkgal I like that " Let's bond " comment :-p


lol I just now saw that post
 Trat18
Joined: 1/3/2011
Msg: 263
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Posted: 11/21/2011 9:21:59 AM
you sound like my type of women!
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 265
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Posted: 11/21/2011 10:07:49 AM
I love a woman with a high sex drive and I am not afraid to share them
 tonedd2010
Joined: 3/5/2010
Msg: 267
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Posted: 11/22/2011 5:55:41 AM
A girl with a high sex drive is a gift
 fredgar
Joined: 1/15/2010
Msg: 268
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Posted: 11/22/2011 2:38:26 PM
If you have a high sex drive you should be more clear. Is it a matter of how often you want it or how long you want it to last?
 185nj996
Joined: 3/25/2011
Msg: 271
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Posted: 11/22/2011 5:48:24 PM
Totally agree with you. And on the contrary, I've found that most of the girls I have dated have much lower sex drives than myself. The thing is that it is hard to tell, cause when you first go out there's lots of sex... but over the time it slows down. However I don't find it slows down for me... just always for her.
 teddy7b
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 275
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Posted: 11/23/2011 6:48:25 PM
i love a girlwith a high sex drive
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 276
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Posted: 11/24/2011 6:08:17 AM

it must pay off to be a True Gentleman and also be 9" x 2" with a tireless tongue & the smooth "SOMFAIFYA" pick-up line!


Yeah..we've all heard that from him, countless times .. good to know advertising works, I guess.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 281
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Posted: 11/24/2011 9:28:03 AM

What? its lacking class or etiquette even though it is from a man of gentleman status who also brags about his package size (which I'm sure is more like 5x1)




It's the frequency and consistency of the bragging that's the object of the kidding here.
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 283
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Posted: 11/24/2011 10:00:10 AM
I haven't met a woman yet that dosen't have a killer sex drive kid,that's the naked truth.Let's face it:If he's not into experimenting or trying exotic fare,he's hardly going to dish up the Kama Sutra behind closed doors.There's a dark side to male sexuality that operates on an instrinsically primitive level.Unleash it and you can't help but see evidence of RAW,UNCONTROLABLE,EMOTION...
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 289
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Posted: 3/4/2012 8:56:27 PM
its frm an emotional void, looking 4 aproval .
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 290
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Posted: 3/4/2012 8:57:33 PM
tahts nature wanting to populate v planet n species domination- its normal- i feel it 2 after having a girl.
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