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Joined: 5/13/2007
Msg: 26
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This ones easy.....
Without a doubt, the biggest turnoff ever has got to be stupid.....
Nothing worse than a really dumb adult........
Joined: 1/31/2007
Msg: 27
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/22/2008 9:51:25 PM
when they seem decent then you meet them in person and they are either crazy/headcase and bad hygeine.
Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/22/2008 10:08:23 PM
Interior uglyness that contrast drastically with outside beauty. That's a real turn off !!!
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/22/2008 10:54:39 PM
Well when it comes to girls my age, it is usually around they start talking.
"Like, Oh MY God, do you like my white plastic sunglasses? blah, blah, blah"
 Miss Dominique
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 30
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 2:25:03 AM
Drug addicts, esp. meth heads.
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/23/2008 6:21:32 AM
Instant turn-offs on meeting a woman, in addition to some already mentioned

* being over-powered by her perfume and I've only got close enough to shake hands
* a handshake so feeble it feels like I'm holding an empty glove
* lack of sparkle and life in her eyes
* vulgarity
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 32
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 8:02:35 AM

* a handshake so feeble it feels like I'm holding an empty glove

Ugh, good one.
Joined: 5/31/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/23/2008 9:59:24 AM
getting involved with someone...

only to find out who they led you to believe they were...

isn't who they turned out to be...

not even & learn ....
 Dear Vixen
Joined: 7/1/2008
Msg: 34
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 10:13:20 AM
"from 2 bags of Chips Ahoy!, 2 bags of chips, a bag of pretzels, a case of root beer, the batter covered frozen chicken things, heat-n-go roast beef"

PMS!!!! lol
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 35
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 11:27:39 AM

* a handshake so feeble it feels like I'm holding an empty glove

Ugh, good one.

Very good one.
Joined: 6/14/2007
Msg: 36
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 12:03:11 PM
Amazing that I don't see much mention of smoking above. Maybe it's too obvious. Anyway that's the big one for me. The most beautiful woman on earth could be walking down the street half-naked, and if she had a cigarette it'd be the first thing I'd see and I'd immediately lose all interest in the rest.

Offhand I can't think of anything else that turns me off instantly but there are a few things that'll give me a big jolt.:

"R u 4 real?" and other IM-speak

Discussions about lottery tickets.

Bigoted and/or racist name-calling, including use of the term "redneck."

I was tempted to add "snobbery" to the list but that isn't exactly true. Snobs don't turn me off, much as I basically despise snobbery. Instead they stand out of the crowd to me, in much the same way mice stand out to cats. Perhaps it's mean of me but I can rarely resist the chance to wind up a snob, even if it's just in a small way.
Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/23/2008 2:34:42 PM
I forgot to add one to my list.

Many have already mentioned it, and it may not be discovered INSTANTLY; but it is a deal-breaker, nonetheless.


Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 10/23/2008 4:38:52 PM
Hmmmmmmmmm - some of you are really at fast at figuring out what a person is all about. These are meant to be instant turn offs. Sometimes it takes a while to determine whether a person is honest or not.

I am sticking with my original answer dirty teeth and clothes, bad breathe and melons.
Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 39
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 4:40:07 PM
^ It may take a while to determine whether a person is honest or not - but when you DO find out they're dishonest, then you're INSTANTLY turned off. It's an INSTANT turn off to find out you're with someone who is a liar. Whether you've known them 5 minutes or 5 months.
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 40
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 4:52:57 PM
Snively, underhanded, overly excited Department Store Commission Salespeople, the ones that just can't kill off that wide fake Smile.
 * L *
Joined: 7/13/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/23/2008 5:48:04 PM
dirty fingernails
sour odours (??? re pheromones )
bad foot wear
nose hair

 PhatFat the WaterRat
Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/23/2008 5:52:16 PM
and melons.

yup I have to agree... I don't think I'd be turned on by some guy with melons.

with Mewbies.
Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 10/23/2008 5:56:27 PM
^ If he has bigger boobs than me - we have a problem
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 10/23/2008 6:14:58 PM
Awe come onn MB, "nose hair"? Thats the barbers mistake for cutting those hairs and the person whose nose it is that doesn't realize til much later in life why their nose hairs grow so long. (I've enver noticed women's "nose hairs" ever. Too busy looking at other parts I guess Well I am human.
Joined: 10/19/2008
Msg: 45
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Posted: 10/23/2008 6:27:20 PM
I'm with you on these top 3 - 100%.
Personally I can add pictures of men with no shirt on! I guess if you are looking for an intimate encounter ok but to many of us women - ugh! Save it for later please. And no, I do not consider myself a prude.
Also top of list are some of the cliches (and I have to be careful here as I may well be guilty) but include women who say about themselves or men who want someone who "looks good in heels and jeans". Or how likes to cuddle by the fire. Ok, you're unique...

These turn me off but also I'm fascinated by how diverse we all our in our quest for love and/or companionship and what we think will attract it to us through our profiles. It's very interesting.

I'm new too so hello back!
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 46
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 6:33:58 PM
Nose hairs don't look good, but I think their function is to filter the air as it enters. The only thing is how come men have filters and women dont?

Mewbies - I forgot the technical term for it and was too polite to ask, so I just said melons.
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 47
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/23/2008 10:12:50 PM
^sounds good. Just do it as the Nike ad says.

Here is a really bad combination nose hair on melons.

Help me out .... someone needs to create an instant turn on threads and I would guess it they are bright white smiles and shiny hair. Greasy hair is definitely a turn off.
Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 48
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/24/2008 8:57:49 PM
Nose hairs, wooly beards or mustaches, bushy eyebrows....basic grooming! It tells me if he is not well groomed above the neck he is most likely NOT groomed below the belt. However, being rugged is great....when he is on his weekend or camping. Instant? Hmmm...pinched angry skinny gritting teeth faces. Too skinny men total turnoff!
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 49
INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 10/24/2008 9:08:21 PM

It tells me if he is ot well groomed above the neck he is most likely NOT groomed below the belt.

Gosh, so the gals expect the guys to groomed there too?

We can buy fingernail clippers and toenail clippers.
What kind of clippers would we use below the belt? A hedge clipper perhaps?

We can buy trimmers for nose hair and ear hair and mustache trimmers too.
What kind of trimmers would we use below the belt? A Weed Whacker perhaps?
Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 10/24/2008 9:55:44 PM
A razor, and some shaving foam. Yes Tyee... 'shave them thar balls'!! Surely you already know that. lol Put a #3 guard on your trimmer and go crazy with anything else below the belt. Must I tell you everything?? Geeez!
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